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Relationships Expert - Answered on Nov 29, 2021
I am 40 years old.
My wife is not interested in sex after the birth of our son nine years ago.
It is said that a couple should have sex two times a week. But we have sex like once a month or even after longer than that.
My wife is just not interested in sex nor does she allow me to touch her in that way.
She sometimes even shouts, like I have touched some other women.
Please guide.
Vaibhav
There's no rule about couples having sex twice a week, Vaibhav. That said, you should be in sync when it comes to your sex life, whether it's once a month or once a day.
What is her reaction when you do have sex with her? Is it grudging permission? To get it over with, so you'll leave her alone?
You haven't given me enough information to go by here, but I will tell you this -- it's certainly unnatural for a wife to get so upset that she shouts at her husband when he makes a move!
You need to speak to her and get to the root of why she doesn't enjoy sex anymore and move toward remedying the situation.
A marriage counsellor may help, maybe have it be a lady so that she's more comfortable discussing this particular situation, it being of such an intimate nature.
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