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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Mar 01, 2023

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Question by Md on Feb 24, 2023Hindi

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I lost 7.2 lakh in a Cryptocurrency scam. Now, I'm unable to find happiness in anything because of the guilt. It's even affecting my personal and professional life. I don't have a consistent job, and hence, taking a loan to recover is not the way out because I won't be able to make timely repayments. What's the solution?

Ans: Dear Md,
I can't advice you on how to get out of your debt but I can certainly tell you what you can do to get a hold of your happiness.
Guilt is an emotion that keeps you busy and stressed for a long time so that you have little or no time to do anything productive to ease your stress. What's the point feeling guilty? It was a scam and you were not aware of it; mistake! Get over it and find a way to tell yourself that you will allow yourself to be scammed again.
This is not the time to feel unhappy but to make the most of how to get out of this situation.
So, pull yourself up, plan on how to get out of this debt and know that your mind will always be alert the next time when there is a scamster around.
The solution that you seek is: Dust yourself, look ahead, plan and execute meticulously. Clearing the mind can gradually help you clear your debt as well.

Best wishes!

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I am 54 years old. A businessman and exporter. Everything was running smoothly till last year october 2023. Then someone cheated me of almost 7 crores export order. Since then a downhill. I have 13 lakhs peraonal credit card bills, business debt of 3 crores. Somehow i am unable to get new export orders too inspite of trying 24x7. My employess are gone. Only a loyal driver remains and i will be unable to pay him in coming months. My assets a office approx 45 lakhs, a property of 1 crore, another of 4-5 crores, receivables of 18 lakhs. Other savings are gone chasing the suspect overseas. What should i do now?

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