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Zalak Question by Zalak on Nov 24, 2025Hindi
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Hello, I am in physical relationship before my marriage, after that I do arrange marriage and now I have a baby ... Before sometime my husband saw photos of my past relationship.. before marriage I accept that I am in relationship but not accept that physical relation and take photos but now husband have photos, my husband frequently asking about past but lied .. he want to do legal action against me for hiding situation... What to do now?

Ans: Dear Zalak,
From what I know, there is no legal action for hiding a situation unless he's thinking of separation.
There are people who do find it difficult to accept the past lives of their partners which when they find later, leads to constant doubts on their spouses.
There's little that you can do to change his mindset on this BUT I do find that LOVE and CARE can change a lot between partners. As difficult as it may seem in the current situation, deal with it very patiently with showing love instead of anger or anxiety. Obviously he prefers to keep bringing up your past and that is not helpful...If things still don't work, do involve his family and yours, so that they can help with it.
(What is he doing with those photos? Please be careful)...

All the best!
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Asked on - Dec 03, 2025 | Answered on Dec 04, 2025
But because of past and hiding the situation, he slap me and speaking bad words too . He told that he don't accept me now and if he accept then he told that I will in another relationship that is I hide from you .. in this situation already parents are involved.. what to do now ?
Ans: Dear Zalak,
Your husband is very cleverly manipulating the situation to his advantage.
Kindly ask him what he wants and if he is happy destroying the marriage. Too much drama over the past is going to break the current relationship and someone needs to tell him this...please request your parents to speak with his parents so that they can intervene and stop this drama that your husband is in...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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