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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 16, 2024Hindi

Relationship

Hello mam, I am 45 year old single mother of 19 year old son, I am feeling loneliness and have searched a partner as like I wanted, he is widower having two children, but problem is that we both are working and well settled with our permanent government jobs, my job is not transferring job and he doesn't want to move due to his kids education and his job...we both want to marry with each other, but we are helpless right now...due to this situation I again getting very anxious and tense... what should I do? Please show me a path...

Ans: Stop getting anxious and tense. You should feel nice that you have met someone and you get along. Focus on the job, on your children, on YOURSELF and on each other.

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You want to get into a relationship with a married man? Will that not complicate your already complicated life?
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