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Career Counsellor - Answered on Jun 05, 2024

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He started his career as an HR professional and has over 10 years of experience in tutoring and mentoring students from Classes 8 to 12, helping them choose the right stream, course and college/university.
He also counsels students on how to prepare for entrance exams for getting admission into reputed universities /colleges for their graduate/postgraduate courses.
He has guided both fresh graduates and experienced professionals on how to write a resume, how to prepare for job interviews and how to negotiate their salary when joining a new job.
Nayagam has published an eBook, Professional Resume Writing Without Googling.
He has a postgraduate degree in human resources from Bhartiya Vidya Bhavan, Delhi, a postgraduate diploma in labour law from Madras University, a postgraduate diploma in school counselling from Symbiosis, Pune, and a certification in child psychology from Counsel India.
He has also completed his master’s degree in career counselling from ICCC-Mindler and Counsel, India.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 05, 2024Hindi
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Sir I belong to Pilibhit district of UP. I was an average kind of child till my class 10(85-92%).But in class 11 I chose to go for coaching to prepare for iitjee in kota. The atmosphere there was highly competitive,And I saw lot of brilliant minds there due to which I got into inferiority complex, with that my spirit and confidence went very low accompanied by home sickness and I severly got ill for a month. My syllabus was ruined and everything gone bad. I decided to continue my dummy school there and came back to my place and joined an online platform. But due to lot of distractions and OCD I finally failed in class 12. From 91 in 10th to failing 12th I have covered a long way down. Now I am having suicidal thoughts please guide me for my future sir??

Ans: Dear Friend,

Think about your parents, relatives & friends who are very affectionate over you. NEVER think of committing Suicide Dear.

To avoid negative thinking and negative about you, please change your lifestyle and start doing yoga / meditation daily. Your mind will feel better and relaxed.

Also please stop thinking that if you do not join IITs / NITs, you won’t have future. Nothing like that. There are a lac of Students who have been successful both in India & Abroad, without joining IITs / NITs

Simple solutions for you to be successful in your career.

1) Prepare for your 12th Board and appear again with full concentration / focus. You will definitely score good marks.
2) Prepare for some entrance exams for getting admission into any good college (in & around UP). No need to prepare separately for each entrance exam for BTech. Syllabus will be more or less same.
3) Appear for 3-4 State entrance exams of UP / Delhi. Ignore JEE.
4) Shortlist 10 top colleges of UP / Delhi. Choose the most suitable one after you get confirmed admissions from 3-4 colleges.

Hope I have clarified your doubts. If you need any other clarifications for you or have questions for anyone, post your questions (in detail) to me here.

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