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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 20, 2024Hindi
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Hi, I got married in December 2012. Love marriage, we met in the office. I clearly told him that if I get married I would need to give one years salary to my dad as he has loan installments to pay and also told him my dad would do good wedding arrangements however no dowry should be asked. When his parents came to see me for the first time they came all prepared to finalize the relationship however we weren't aware. Me and my parents thought they are just coming to see me and the family. But when they started off with basic rituals that is when we were stunned but then went along. His father asked dowry from my dad and he was speechless but when I denied my father spoke to them and said he will bear all their expenses too but won't be able to give dowry. When I confronted my husband he said he wasn't aware that his dad will ask for dowry. We got married and when we visited his hometown his father confessed that he was not aware that me and my husband had discussed no dowry part otherwise he would not have asked my father. I was infuriated but I let it go. Soon after an year my salary started coming in and he would tranfer it in his account. I did not pay attention to it. Soon all the money was in his control. There came a situation in my family, my sister's wedding was called off by groom's end three days before the wedding and it was a shock. My husband asked us to write a letter stating all about the situation so that it can be submitted to the police. My husband kept a copy of that letter with him. During the lockdown my father asked for some monetary help from me but my husband denied to help him, and I started hating him to my core. Soon my mother in law moved in with us when my father in law expired. Since then our relationship sucked. She would always manipulate his son. I got so furious I started putting sugar in my husband's milk as he is diabetic and then later confessed it to him. Now he is threatening me of releasing that letter to my sister's husband and also has kept all the money in his control. He says he will make me feel sorry for what I did and also we are just living in my home but we have no relation and he does not talk to me. I don't want this relationship to flourish anyways but I need to know what can I do if I can get half of the assets. Please suggest what I can do.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Since you have decided not to stay within the marriage, the best recourse would be to seek legal advice and move ahead. He/She will advice you on assets split, custody etc.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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I got married in 2018 and it was an arranged marriage. Everything seemed very perfect for me. But soon after things got weird as I realised my husband does not share good rapport with his own family. From day second, I felt I need to correct my husband' attitude towards his own parents. He loves me a lot and protects me from any type of problem while we were staying at my in-laws' house. But before completing 2 months we moved out and somewhere I knew there is no going back to his parents from that point. During the short 2 months stay I was told that my parents did not give me good stuff -- I mean bed, almirah and (that they) had not arranged our marriage function in the best way possible. I have seen them fighting among themselves for purchasing Maggi packets stating who will pay the price. I was told my husband who is eventually their real son contributed nothing to his sister's marriage, to their house construction and to his own marriage. I was asked to pay for the marriage album as my husband contributed nothing to his own marriage. Even after leaving their place bank payment related messages have been sent to me to pay the amount. One day after feeling helpless I asked them: If your son is having so much problem why did you marry him. They simply stated that they did it for the sake of society. The moments before leaving the house were tense. They threw a lot of tantrums -- they took the jewellery they'd purchased for me and also retained the jewellery given by my parents. I said nothing about it as those materialistic things never mattered to me. I had to take back a part of jewellery made by my parents from them as my parents wanted it back. But after leaving home they did not call to ask anything about our health or our problems with the new set up but instead called for money. They are threatening to come back if we don't talk to them on regular basis and bend their son on his knees to come back to his parents. Till some time, I was under the impression that my husband is having issues; that he is the monster who is abandoning his parents. When I learned his side of story, I realised he is not at fault completely. They never made him feel loved or accepted; and always compared him with others. They considered him as their investment plan as they are all the time cursing him for not providing any financial support without knowing at what salary he is working for, what are his monthly expenses and whether he is in a position to assist them financially.He doesn't have any good memories with his family. Still I tried to make him feel their pain to be left alone behind their only son. After leaving their house they started to abuse me on phone whenever they wanted. They cursed me and my parents for taking their son away from them. My husband is the typical Indian male who on the first night took control of my debit card as he thinks it is his birth right. He strictly told me what not to wear. Although these were major flaws in the attitude, he showed love towards me so I did also do the same. I am happy with him. But with this constant verbal abuse from his parents, I feel like I’m the one who is the culprit here. I was not ready to even extend my family with my husband but somehow I did take the decision after four years of my marriage. I am expecting now but my husband warned me to not inform about this to his parents otherwise, he will send me permanently to my parents’ house. My subconscious is shaking me in every 2 to 3 weeks that I’m the culprit here. I feel like my child will also leave me behind the way we left his parents behind. They insulted me in every possible way but I still don't want them to be left alone in their senior years like this. But I have no control over my husband he is way more detached towards them and maximum time insensitive to their problems. Also his parents always call to either abuse me or their son they did never ask us how we are if we are fine even in corona time I was positive and when they knew about they call my husband to make fun of this. Please suggest.
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Dear MB,

Too much going on in your mind all at once. Sometimes, it helps to compartmentalize.

It seems like you are being a nice human, have tried patching things between the son and his family.

Let it alone, it is unique and it’s their battle to fight. By you getting into this, it might eventually be pointed out that you are a bad wife and a bad influence on their son.

People when in distress lose sense of logic and blame everything on the external. So, you have done your bit, in vain…now stay away from their relationship.

What is meant to be, will be. Any more interference might only harm the relationship further.

As for you, when they call and abuse, kindly assert that you will not be talked to in that manner OR simply avoid their calls till the time they ask, then say: I do want our conversations to be had with respect both ways.

As for your husband taking away your debit card; it does seem his way of exercising control which he lacks with himself in relation to his parents.

He feels helpless and him taking charge of what you wear etc is his way of establishing ground rules by being a patriarch.

Please rework this soon else this will be observed by your children especially if you have a girl child.

Your meek submission is what she will learn from you.

Just like you took your streedhan back, what you feel you have a personal association and right over, kindly take it back.

His love for you does not mean that he owns you and it does not mean you need to submit.

Of course, if it is to maintain peace for the time being, alright…but over a period of time this has to change.

Enjoy the pregnancy without bringing unwanted worries that your child will also leave you etc.

Too much of commercial movies can instil these fears. Your husband and his family made this choice to harbor animosity towards each other.

Why will your child do the same with you? There is no transference. Simply, enjoy being pregnant, focus on yourself and your child.

Think good, eat good, feel good, laugh a lot and choose what who you want around you. It affects the child directly.

Please become responsible now towards your unborn child. He/she needs you.

Be with Nature a lot, listen to calming music…your baby will thank you someday for this. So smile and get on to enjoying your pregnancy.

Be happy and all the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 27, 2024Hindi
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Hello, I got married to the person who was behind me for years. I always considered him as my friend and supporter even after knowing his intention. My mom kept advising me we should go behind that person who cares and loves us. I obeyed her. Soon after things went into proposal mode his family started demanding for dowry and other stuffs. My friend was not from a well fed family which I was not aware. They lied to is they are very rich, hence they need what the demanded since the marriage news was widw spread wit no options we arranged and gave. My friend and his mother brain washed and convinced us to agree for this marriage. Even since I got married my husband and his mother is ruling on me and family. It was late when we got to know that they have been lying to is on their assets. Now when we ask them they deny and keep harassing me. My family got fed up of these fights started maitaining distance and since I Don want to trouble my divorced mother I stop complaining about the issues I am facing. My in-laws demand increases day by day. My mother-in-law is a mother of two kids a son and a daughter but everytime she tortures me and her son is quiet most of the time. When responsibility comes she supports her daughter and makes us to take responsibility which is not fair. Responsibiloty is parallel and must be shared. I am not well, my husband doesn't even give me money or take me to doctor. I am been told marriage means providing food and shelter. Please advise me what shud I do I am fed up
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Basically you have been cheated; period!
What do you with even a basic thing like being cheated at a shop? Do you actually keep the product OR return it?
Yes, relationships are not like that BUT do understand that your marriage has been nothing but a transaction with mean minded people out to destroy you and your peace of mind.
There are no children in the equation so far...so do know you are free to take a decision. Today, it's harassment and giving you no money, tomorrow who knows what else!
Do you not see that they have begun to make you depend on them for the basic things? This is how it all begins before it gets into other shades of harassment which I do not want to speculate.
Put yourself first; be selfish and think about what to do next to actually live a peaceful and carefree life like the way it was before marriage.

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Thank you for your question about investing in gold and mutual funds. Both of these investment options have their merits, but they work differently and suit different financial goals. Let's explore how they can potentially deliver returns.
1. Gold as an Investment
• Potential Returns: Historically, gold has been seen as a hedge against inflation and currency fluctuations. Over the long term, gold prices tend to rise, but the growth is usually moderate compared to equity-based investments. In the last decade, gold has provided returns averaging 6-8% per year. However, in times of economic uncertainty (like during the pandemic), gold prices surged due to its status as a safe-haven asset.
• Volatility: While gold is a relatively stable investment during periods of economic distress, its prices can be volatile in the short term. It's best suited for long-term portfolios or when you want to diversify and protect your investments from inflation.
• Forms of Gold Investment:
o Physical Gold (Jewelry, Coins, Bars): This involves storage and making charges.
o Gold ETFs or Sovereign Gold Bonds (SGBs): These are better options for investment, offering ease of trading, tax benefits, and interest on SGBs.
2. Mutual Funds as an Investment
• Potential Returns: Mutual funds, especially equity mutual funds, can offer much higher returns than gold over the long term. Over the last 10-15 years, equity mutual funds have provided average returns of 10-15% per annum, depending on the market conditions and the type of mutual fund.
o Equity Mutual Funds have higher growth potential but come with greater risk. These funds invest in stocks of companies, and their performance is directly linked to the stock market.
o Debt Mutual Funds are safer and provide more stable returns (typically 6-8%) but with less growth potential compared to equity funds.
• SIP (Systematic Investment Plan): One of the most popular ways to invest in mutual funds is through SIPs. This method helps mitigate risk through rupee-cost averaging and can lead to substantial returns if done consistently over the long term.
Which One Offers Higher Returns?
• Short-Term Perspective: Gold might offer stability in the short term, but mutual funds, especially equity funds, generally outperform gold when it comes to growth over the long term.
• Long-Term Perspective: Mutual funds, particularly equity mutual funds, are more likely to deliver higher returns over time. Gold can be a good hedge and part of a diversified portfolio, but it's less likely to deliver substantial returns by itself.
Ideal Strategy:
• Diversification: It’s a good idea to diversify your investments between mutual funds and gold. You could allocate a portion of your portfolio (e.g., 10-15%) to gold for safety, while the majority can be invested in mutual funds to maximize growth.
• Risk Profile: If you’re comfortable with market fluctuations, equity mutual funds could be a better choice for high returns. If you prefer safety, a combination of debt mutual funds and gold might be a better strategy.
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• Mutual Funds have the potential to give higher returns than gold, particularly over the long term, thanks to the growth of equity markets. In Mutual funds with High Risk you can earn up to 40% returns, where as at low risk you can get 6 to 9 % returns at debt funds. At Moderate risk you can achive up to 15 to 25% returns.
• Gold, on the other hand, is a safer, long-term investment that can protect against inflation but typically offers moderate returns. Golds can give you on and average of 10 to 15 % return over long horzons.
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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 09, 2024Hindi
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Hi sir, I have net salary of 2.7L per month and am 46 year old with 2 children aged 12 and 6. I have a EPF+PPF corpus of 65 lakhs , NPS 5 lakhs, 1CR in MF portfolio, invest 50k monthly (Which is on Hold currently) in MF SIPs. I own a house 65L(loan free) & another house 2CR have outstanding loans of 1CR. I have family floater medical insurance with 20L coverage and life cover for 1Cr. I wish to retire by age of 55 - pls advise how much corpus do I need at hand to retire. Consider my monthly expense as 1L
Ans: You are 46 years old with a net salary of Rs. 2.7 lakh per month. You have two children, aged 12 and 6, and a current corpus of Rs. 65 lakh in EPF and PPF, Rs. 5 lakh in NPS, and Rs. 1 crore in your mutual fund portfolio. Additionally, you own two properties, one valued at Rs. 65 lakh (loan-free) and another valued at Rs. 2 crore, with an outstanding loan of Rs. 1 crore. Your current monthly expenses are Rs. 1 lakh, and you have paused your monthly SIP of Rs. 50,000. You also hold a life insurance cover worth Rs. 1 crore and a family floater medical insurance with Rs. 20 lakh coverage.

You plan to retire by the age of 55, which gives you approximately nine years to build a sufficient corpus. Let's explore how much you need to comfortably retire while sustaining your current lifestyle.

Estimating Your Retirement Corpus
To determine your retirement corpus, we need to consider several factors:

Current monthly expenses: Rs. 1 lakh
Retirement age: 55
Post-retirement years: Assuming life expectancy of 85 years, you need to plan for 30 years post-retirement.
Inflation rate: An assumed inflation rate of 6% per year is a reasonable estimate for the future.
Growth rate of investments: Typically, diversified equity mutual funds have delivered around 10-12% returns over the long term.
Based on these factors, your current monthly expenses will increase due to inflation, and you need a corpus that generates enough to cover these rising costs. Since your expenses are Rs. 1 lakh today, they could double or triple over time. Your corpus should be able to sustain this without depleting prematurely.

Breakup of Current Assets
EPF & PPF (Rs. 65 lakh): These are stable, low-risk assets that will help you post-retirement but won't generate high returns.

NPS (Rs. 5 lakh): Provides tax benefits and is specifically designed for retirement savings. It will grow over time but is not highly flexible for withdrawals until retirement age.

Mutual Funds (Rs. 1 crore): This is an excellent foundation for your retirement plan. Equity mutual funds, in particular, have the potential to grow at a faster rate and combat inflation.

Real Estate (Rs. 65 lakh + Rs. 2 crore): While real estate holds value, its liquidity is limited. The house you live in does not contribute to your retirement corpus unless you plan to downsize. The second house has a loan of Rs. 1 crore, and the EMIs for this property must be factored into your pre-retirement cash flows.

Life Insurance (Rs. 1 crore): While it’s important for your family’s protection, this doesn’t contribute to your retirement corpus.

Estimating Your Future Monthly Expenses
Your current monthly expense is Rs. 1 lakh, but due to inflation, this figure will increase. Let’s assume the inflation rate remains at 6%. By the time you retire at 55, your monthly expenses will likely double or triple, reaching anywhere between Rs. 1.7 lakh to Rs. 2 lakh per month. Your retirement corpus should be large enough to generate this amount without running out of funds.

In addition, you’ll have to account for:

Healthcare costs: As you age, medical expenses tend to rise. Even though you have Rs. 20 lakh family floater insurance, post-retirement medical costs not covered by insurance should be factored in.

Educational expenses: Your children’s education could be a significant expense over the next 10 to 15 years.

Corpus Required for Comfortable Retirement
To maintain your current lifestyle, you would need a corpus that generates at least Rs. 2 lakh per month during retirement. Based on a withdrawal rate of 4%, which is commonly used to ensure the corpus lasts for the entirety of your retirement, you’ll need a retirement corpus of approximately Rs. 6 to 7 crore.

This corpus will ensure that you can comfortably cover your rising living expenses, healthcare, and other unforeseen costs without depleting your savings.

Recommendations to Achieve the Corpus
Here’s a detailed plan to help you achieve your target of Rs. 6 to 7 crore before retirement:

1. Resume Your SIP Investments
Restart your monthly SIP of Rs. 50,000 immediately. This is crucial, as equity mutual funds can provide the high returns needed to meet your retirement goal.

Consider increasing your SIP contribution each year in line with salary increments. This will accelerate your corpus growth and help you fight inflation more effectively.

2. Focus on Equity Mutual Funds
Given your long-term horizon (9 years until retirement), equity mutual funds remain the best investment option to grow your wealth. These funds have historically provided higher returns (10-12% CAGR), which will be essential for building your retirement corpus.

Ensure your portfolio is diversified across large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap mutual funds for balanced growth and risk.

3. Debt Repayment Strategy
You currently have an outstanding home loan of Rs. 1 crore. It’s advisable to clear this debt as early as possible. Carrying such a large debt into retirement can strain your finances.

Use a portion of your liquid assets, such as your mutual fund corpus or any bonuses, to reduce the loan burden gradually. This will free up cash flow and allow you to focus more on building your retirement fund.

4. Maximize Your EPF & PPF Contributions
Continue contributing to your EPF and PPF accounts. While the returns from these are modest, they are low-risk and provide tax-free returns, making them ideal for post-retirement stability.

As PPF matures, consider reinvesting the proceeds into equity mutual funds to capitalize on higher returns.

5. Increase Contributions to NPS
Your NPS balance is currently Rs. 5 lakh. Increase your contributions to this as it provides excellent tax benefits and is tailored for retirement.

NPS is also one of the few products where withdrawals are partially tax-free. Increasing contributions now will give you a more substantial corpus in the future.

6. Prioritize Children’s Education
Plan separately for your children’s education expenses. You might want to use specific child education funds or a combination of mutual funds for this.

Avoid dipping into your retirement savings for education purposes. Set clear boundaries between these two financial goals.

Final Insights
At 46, you are well-positioned financially, but pausing your SIP investments and holding onto a large loan could hinder your retirement plans. Restart your investments and focus on paying off your loan as soon as possible. By maintaining discipline and increasing your contributions to SIPs, NPS, and PPF, you should comfortably achieve your retirement corpus of Rs. 6 to 7 crore. Prioritize growth-oriented investments like equity mutual funds, and continue evaluating your portfolio annually to ensure it aligns with your retirement goals.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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Hello Mr. Ramalingam Good morning. I'm 47 years old, my wife is at 40 and one daughter studying in 8th std. I have an investement in MF worth of 1.8 cr, ULIP of 20 lakhs, Direct equity of 5 lakhs, 1 cr term insurance, 5 lakhs LIC, 30 lakhs FD. Monthly SIP of 65 k in different MF's, accumulated EPF of 40 lakhs, 10 lakhs super annuatation fund. Invested in plot worth of 1 cr and farm land worth of 1.5 cr. No house and no loan. Would like retire by 55 years with monthly income of 2 lakhs / month from investment. Kindly suggest how I can make my finanical plan. Thanks
Ans: Based on your current financial situation and your goal of retiring at 55 with a monthly income of Rs. 2 lakhs, we need to assess your existing investments, future requirements, and how to bridge any gaps in your retirement plan.

Assets You Already Have
You have built a solid foundation of investments, which is impressive. Let’s break down your current assets:

Mutual Fund portfolio: Rs. 1.8 crore
ULIP: Rs. 20 lakhs
Direct equity: Rs. 5 lakhs
Term Insurance: Rs. 1 crore (sufficient for family protection)
LIC: Rs. 5 lakhs (Could be better allocated elsewhere)
Fixed Deposit: Rs. 30 lakhs
EPF: Rs. 40 lakhs
Superannuation Fund: Rs. 10 lakhs
Real Estate Investments: Plot (Rs. 1 crore) and farmland (Rs. 1.5 crore)
Your current SIP of Rs. 65,000 monthly in mutual funds is a good strategy for wealth accumulation.

Assessing Your Retirement Goal
You wish to have Rs. 2 lakhs per month as retirement income starting at 55. Considering inflation, your future expenses will likely be higher than Rs. 2 lakhs, which we must account for in your financial plan. Assuming you retire at 55 and live till 85, your investments need to generate returns for 30 years.

Evaluating Existing Investments
1. Mutual Funds:
Your current MF portfolio of Rs. 1.8 crore is a major asset. Continue with your SIPs to grow this corpus.
You might consider reviewing your fund allocations to ensure diversification across large-cap, mid-cap, and debt funds for stability and growth. Ensure these are actively managed funds, as they typically perform better than index funds over time.
2. ULIP:
ULIPs often have high charges and offer lower returns compared to mutual funds. It would be wise to surrender this policy and reinvest the Rs. 20 lakhs into mutual funds. This will offer better long-term growth for retirement.
3. Direct Equity:
Direct equity investments, while rewarding, are risky, especially as you approach retirement. It’s advisable to either reduce exposure to individual stocks or move to safer large-cap funds or balanced funds to ensure stability.
4. Fixed Deposit:
Rs. 30 lakhs in FD is a safe bet, but it yields lower returns. Consider using a portion of this for debt mutual funds, which offer slightly better returns and are tax-efficient.
5. LIC:
The Rs. 5 lakhs in LIC should be reconsidered, as insurance-based investment products are typically low-yielding. It’s better to surrender and reinvest this in mutual funds or safer investment options that offer higher returns.
6. Real Estate:
Your plot and farmland, though valuable, are illiquid assets. Real estate cannot generate a regular retirement income unless sold or rented out. Ideally, you should not rely on these for monthly income during retirement. Focus on liquid investments that can generate steady cash flow.
Plan for Retirement Income
Here’s how you can plan to generate Rs. 2 lakhs per month during retirement:

1. Continue Your SIPs:
Your monthly SIP of Rs. 65,000 is a good practice. If you can increase this slightly over the next few years, it will help you build a larger corpus for retirement. Aim to have at least Rs. 5-6 crore in liquid assets by the time you retire.
2. Shift to More Conservative Funds Closer to Retirement:
As you approach retirement, gradually move some of your equity-heavy investments into safer debt funds or balanced funds to preserve capital and reduce market risk.
3. Utilize the EPF and Superannuation Fund:
Your Rs. 40 lakhs in EPF and Rs. 10 lakhs in superannuation fund will continue to grow. Do not withdraw this early; allow it to accumulate till your retirement for a sizeable corpus that can act as a fixed-income generator.
4. Create an Income Stream with SWP:
Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP) from mutual funds will help you generate a monthly income after retirement. This is tax-efficient and can provide you with the Rs. 2 lakhs you desire. You can gradually withdraw from your mutual fund corpus post-retirement, ensuring your capital lasts for 30 years.
5. Review and Increase Insurance:
Your current term insurance of Rs. 1 crore is adequate for now. Ensure you have it in place till your retirement to protect your family in case of any unforeseen events. No need for further investment in insurance-based products like ULIPs or LIC.
Things to Keep in Mind
Inflation Protection: Rs. 2 lakhs per month today will not hold the same value in the future due to inflation. Plan to increase your SIP amounts and grow your corpus to account for this.

Healthcare Costs: As you age, healthcare expenses might rise. Ensure that your health insurance coverage is sufficient, or consider top-up plans to enhance your coverage.

Reassess Regularly: Financial planning is not a one-time activity. Review your portfolio annually to ensure you are on track and make adjustments based on changing market conditions or personal goals.

Final Insights
You are in a strong financial position and well on your way to a comfortable retirement. However, small changes like surrendering low-return policies and enhancing your mutual fund portfolio can make a significant difference. Focus on building a larger liquid corpus by continuing your SIPs and shifting towards income-generating assets as you near retirement.

Stay disciplined with your investments, and you will likely achieve your retirement goal of Rs. 2 lakhs monthly without financial stress.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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Sir, I have both Mirae asset Large and Mid cap fund with sip + Mirae asset Large cap fund (sip stopped) Can I make STP or complete SWITCH from Mirae asset large cap fund to Mirae asset large and Mid cap fund. ? is it advisable
Ans: Switching or making a Systematic Transfer Plan (STP) from Mirae Asset Large Cap Fund to Mirae Asset Large and Mid Cap Fund can be considered based on your financial goals, risk tolerance, and investment strategy.

Factors to Consider:
1. Portfolio Diversification:
Large Cap Fund: Primarily invests in the top 100 companies, which are considered stable and less volatile. It is ideal for those seeking steady returns with relatively lower risk.
Large and Mid Cap Fund: Combines both large-cap (safer, stable) and mid-cap (higher growth potential but riskier) stocks. This offers a balanced approach, with more room for growth but with a bit more risk.
If your goal is to increase exposure to mid-cap stocks for potentially higher growth, an STP or switch to the Large and Mid Cap Fund makes sense. This fund offers a more diversified approach while still having a safety net of large-cap investments.

2. Investment Time Horizon:
Large and mid-cap funds tend to perform better in the long term (5+ years), as mid-caps may take time to realize their full growth potential. If your investment horizon is shorter, sticking with a large-cap fund may be preferable.
3. Risk Appetite:
Mid-cap stocks have higher growth potential but come with increased volatility. If you are comfortable with short-term fluctuations for long-term gains, an STP into the large and mid-cap fund could align with your goals.
4. Performance Track Record:
Both funds from Mirae Asset have strong reputations, but large-cap funds offer more consistent returns with lower downside risks during market corrections. You may want to assess the historical performance and volatility of both funds to see which fits your strategy better.
Why Use STP Instead of a Lump Sum Switch?
Tax Efficiency: An STP allows you to move funds gradually, spreading out tax implications and avoiding a large one-time exit load or capital gains tax.
Risk Mitigation: Instead of moving all your funds at once, an STP reduces the risk of entering at a high point in the market.
Consistent Investment: You continue investing in a disciplined manner, benefiting from rupee cost averaging.
Final Insight:
If your risk profile supports it, and your goal is long-term wealth creation, a STP from Mirae Asset Large Cap Fund to Mirae Asset Large and Mid Cap Fund can be a good option. This allows you to diversify your portfolio while retaining some stability through large-cap exposure.

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K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 07, 2024Hindi
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I. Have 1 crore where can i invest for 2 yrs to get bigger returns, that amt is for ur daughter marriage
Ans: Dear Friend,
Thank you for your query. It's great that you're planning ahead for your daughter's marriage. With ?1 crore available for investment over a two-year period, you’ll want to balance growth with a moderate level of risk, since the time horizon is relatively short.
Key Considerations:
Since the investment horizon is only two years, it's important to prioritize capital preservation while seeking returns higher than traditional savings accounts or fixed deposits. Investments in high-risk options like equities are not advisable for such a short duration, as markets can be volatile. Instead, a mix of low to medium risk instruments will be more suitable.
Suggested Investment Options for Two Years:
1. Debt Mutual Funds - Short-Term Debt Funds or Corporate Bond Funds can offer returns in the range of 6-8% per annum. These funds invest in government securities, corporate bonds, and other fixed-income instruments. They are safer than equity investments and are suited for a 2-year investment period.
- Dynamic Bond Funds can also be considered, as they adjust their portfolios according to interest rate fluctuations, potentially offering better returns than fixed deposits.
2. Fixed Deposits (FDs) - Though FDs offer lower returns (typically 6-7% per annum), you can opt for Corporate FDs from highly rated companies which offer slightly higher interest rates. FDs provide safety and guaranteed returns, but they may not grow your wealth significantly.
3. Arbitrage Mutual Funds - Arbitrage funds take advantage of the price difference between the cash and futures markets. They are relatively low-risk and provide returns similar to short-term debt funds but with better tax efficiency if held for more than one year. These can be a good option for a two-year horizon, offering returns of around 5-6%.
4. High-Quality Non-Convertible Debentures (NCDs) - NCDs from reputed companies offer fixed interest rates, usually ranging from 7-9%. They can be a good option for someone seeking stable returns. However, be cautious about the credit ratings of the issuing company.
5. Ultra Short-Term Mutual Funds - These funds invest in short-term debt instruments and are suitable for a two-year horizon. They generally offer returns slightly higher than savings accounts, around 6-7%.
6. Post Office Monthly Income Scheme (MIS) - If you prefer absolute safety, this government-backed scheme offers around 6.6% interest per annum, with monthly interest payouts. You can park part of your investment here for assured returns.
7. Liquid Funds or Short-Term Gilt Funds - Liquid funds invest in money market instruments and offer stable returns with high liquidity. For a two-year period, liquid funds can yield around 5-6%. Gilt funds are another option, which invest in government securities and are suitable for low-risk investors. These funds may provide returns in the range of 6-7%.
For Example, you can plan a Portfolio Allocation for ?1 Crore as follows
1. Debt Mutual Funds (40% - ?40 Lacs) : Short-term debt or corporate bond funds for capital appreciation and safety.
2. Fixed Deposits or Post Office MIS (30% - ?30 Lacs) : Secure investments with guaranteed returns.
3. Arbitrage Funds or Dynamic Bond Funds (20% - ?20 Lacs) : To benefit from moderate growth with tax efficiency.
4. Liquid Funds (10% - ?10 Lacs) : For high liquidity and short-term needs.
It’s highly recommended to consult with a certified financial advisor to fine-tune this plan according to your exact goals and risk tolerance.
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Nitin Narkhede
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