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Mohit Arora is a relationship coach, image consultant, soft skills trainer and the founder of Real Dating School. He has a BTech degree in computer science from the Rayat & Bahra Institute of Engineering and Biotechnology, Mohali, Punjab. He has been conducting customised skilling and communication workshops since 2014.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Dec 04, 2023Hindi
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Hi I am fifty year old male and married for twenty one years. We have a son aging 20 years. From the beginning our marriage life was with full of fighting because of her short temper nature. I had negotiate it because of my son. Three years back l found her cheating on me and having an affair with her old classmate. She always shouting on me and live life as per her wish. She go for parties and enjoying her life. She is only with me for the money. We dont have any relation but staying in one home. Now she started encouraging my son and he also sometimes shout on me and making my life hard. She is very good in acting and having good image of her outside. Still she is having affair. No one in my family is able to question her. She always give bad words fir me and my family. I am very much depressed and it is taking toll on my body. I am unable to sleep. Please help me in this case. What l should do?

Ans: Divorce asap. Don't sacrifice yourself for your family. If you are not happy, you can't keep anyone else happy.

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HI ANUNice to contact you. I need your advice. Hope you can help me.We have been married for 22 years (arranged marriage). For the last 10 years we have some family dispute between my mother and wife.She used to hate me for the same. Moreover she didn’t have any interest in love and sex. She used to sleep in another bedroom. We live together with my son. She is housewife and completely involved in upbringing of my son. Six years back I was attracted and had affair with one of my colleagues. Once my wife come to know about our affair, she created too many problems. She became mad. She abused me verbally and physically. I stopped the affair, changed my job and location. I apologised and changed. I obeyed her. You can say I was a slave to her. In the meantime we never used to sleep together. I was afraid of her abuse so I never asked her for sex or love. She never asked me too. We live together but no love, no sex. Two years ago she told me that she has an affair with a guy from Facebook and they both had sex. That friend used her physically and financially. He had multiple affairs along with my wife. Now he forces her for the relationship. I talked to him and asked him to stay away. At the same time, I was shocked. My wife who completely hated sex and love had an affair with unknown guy. Again we had problems and arguments.If only she’d loved me neither of us would have had an affair.Problem is I can't digest this. I can't sleep at night. I was not physical with my friend. But my wife suspected in her mind and ruined our life. What to do? Shall I seek divorce? Should I consult a therapist to forget everything? Please guide me.
Ans: Dear PP,

If life were that simple enough, why would we be facing challenges at all?

You think if she had loved you, none of this would have happened. You choose to see it from your point of view which is understandable.

What if you take the effort to find out what made her lose interest in you and the marriage?

Women are wired differently from men when it comes to sex. It can be enveloped in emotions and when she is going through an emotionally challenging time (with your mother), it might have been hard for her to be physically close with you.

Did you consider ever resolving the situation between them?

Did you ever ask your wife: “What can I do to help your situation?”

Did you ever find out from her what made her distant from you?

It may sound harsh, but we are talking about much water under the bridge.

If you go on to blame her for cheating on you, when you could and you didn’t, well, it’s not a string place to start if you want to save your marriage.

Do you both want to reconcile and rebuild the marriage?

Communicate, as that’s something that has broken down between the two of you.

It takes two to build a marriage and two to break one. So, time to reflect and look ahead as to what can be done based on what the two of you choose to do.

As far as you not being able to reconcile with the thoughts of her being involved with another man, I suggest before you approach your wife to remedy the situation, kindly settle this thought else tempers are going to fly and things will go from bad to worse. So BREATHE and NOW sit calmly to reflect and act.

All the best!

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HI ANUNice to contact you. I need your advice. Hope you can help me.We have been married for 22 years (arranged marriage). For the last 10 years we have some family dispute between my mother and wife.She used to hate me for the same. Moreover she didn’t have any interest in love and sex. She used to sleep in another bedroom. We live together with my son. She is housewife and completely involved in upbringing of my son. Six years back I was attracted and had affair with one of my colleagues. Once my wife come to know about our affair, she created too many problems. She became mad. She abused me verbally and physically. I stopped the affair, changed my job and location. I apologised and changed. I obeyed her. You can say I was a slave to her. In the meantime we never used to sleep together. I was afraid of her abuse so I never asked her for sex or love. She never asked me too. We live together but no love, no sex. Two years ago she told me that she has an affair with a guy from Facebook and they both had sex. That friend used her physically and financially. He had multiple affairs along with my wife. Now he forces her for the relationship. I talked to him and asked him to stay away. At the same time, I was shocked. My wife who completely hated sex and love had an affair with unknown guy. Again we had problems and arguments.If only she’d loved me neither of us would have had an affair.Problem is I can't digest this. I can't sleep at night. I was not physical with my friend. But my wife suspected in her mind and ruined our life. What to do? Shall I seek divorce? Should I consult a therapist to forget everything? Please guide me.
Ans: Dear PP,

If life were that simple enough, why would we be facing challenges at all?

You think if she had loved you, none of this would have happened. You choose to see it from your point of view which is understandable.

What if you take the effort to find out what made her lose interest in you and the marriage?

Women are wired differently from men when it comes to sex. It can be enveloped in emotions and when she is going through an emotionally challenging time (with your mother), it might have been hard for her to be physically close with you.

Did you consider ever resolving the situation between them?

Did you ever ask your wife: “What can I do to help your situation?”

Did you ever find out from her what made her distant from you?

It may sound harsh, but we are talking about much water under the bridge.

If you go on to blame her for cheating on you, when you could and you didn’t, well, it’s not a string place to start if you want to save your marriage.

Do you both want to reconcile and rebuild the marriage?

Communicate, as that’s something that has broken down between the two of you.

It takes two to build a marriage and two to break one. So, time to reflect and look ahead as to what can be done based on what the two of you choose to do.

As far as you not being able to reconcile with the thoughts of her being involved with another man, I suggest before you approach your wife to remedy the situation, kindly settle this thought else tempers are going to fly and things will go from bad to worse. So BREATHE and NOW sit calmly to reflect and act.

All the best!

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Mam , I am married since 2000. I have a male child.My wife is a working lady doing Govt. service . Since 2017 I found her behavior towards me & my child has completely changed . She always used to tell lie .She has affair with one of her colleague . She is being completely supported by her family specifically her mother.Without my knowledge she borrowed around 10 lakhs from neighbors of my rented premise at high rate of interest. When the matter come to my knowledge I cleared 7 Lakhs taking loan from Bank . After that she took more loan & left me. Since then , I never inquired about her, never lodge FIR or apply for divorce.I tried to forget her. I have no affair or any mood for remarriage . Rather ,I took care of my child & after rigorous follow up & support , my son cleared NEET & continuing MBBS in Govt. college.My son is aware of everything.He also has no interest towards her mother. In the mean time she has cleared my bank loan & trying to come to me.For this she is pressurizing me.She has no changes.Please suggest what to do.I have no interest towards her.
Ans: Dear Chandra,
It is unfortunate that you have had to go through this. I am sure that you son also has been affected by all of this.
If I understand this correctly, is your wife attempting a reconciliation and wants to have her family back?
If you and your son have a clear decision on not wanting this, I suggest that the three of you meet and hear what she has to say.
Maybe she feels sorry for all that has happened. Hearing her will offer her some respite and also you can convey your decision on not getting back clearly in a respectful way.
Also, your son may or may not want to have a connection with his mother...but give that a chance as well and let them decide that...

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 15, 2023Hindi
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Hello, I have been married from 15 yrs. I have a 9 yrs old son with me. In oct 21 my wife (age 38) started making REELS on insta of the facial acting. She got involved and told me that she is just doing for followers and like. People used to comment good and bad which i didnt like. She was trying to make young guy friends. In april 2022 she had an affair with a 22-year-old boy who was not even financial stable. I could she changes in her every day. In June 2022 I caught her and she confess that she did affair and also done physical relationship. I had unconditionally loved her all these years and didn’t wanted to let her go. Also, didn’t wanted to hurt my son by taking a divorce. That guy refused to keep my son and their relation broke, but my wife still loved him and missed him. Few months she was in depression and I took her upmost care and swallowed what she did. I just told her that please come back to our life as you were before but she was not getting back. There used to be few quarrels, she was just staying alone within herself and I never felt that love which she used to give me. Later in feb23 there was a marriage at her family and I agree to go with her so she may get that feel during our times and she promised me to enjoy the marriage and make love with me. But she was happy with her relative and didn’t even bother to make that love and affection with me. from that time, I used to get angry and fight with her. I went into depression. In May 2023 she was getting worst and one day fight increased and I asked her to leave my house which I wasn’t intentionally wanted to. She left and went missing 24 yrs and then called from her mom mobile who was in her village, since she didn’t come back home and from last two month, she has been asking me money for herself and says it’s her rights. She doesn’t bother for my son and just show that she loves him. She works and stay with woman from 6 months and I’m looking after my son all alone. I told her u can work but just come home and make things better for my son. Her conditions is to give money security (money) then only she will return. All my family says she is just behind money and doesn’t care what I and my son is going through. She is not guilt for what she did. 15 yrs of marriage has been ruin and now she has no shame at all. She talks rudely if i dont send her money and now I refused sending her. Please advice what do I do now.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You seem to have done a lot to try and get her back. What can you do if she doesn't want to acknowledge your efforts or appreciate what family life is! One would imagine that a child in the equation may bring about a change in heart but that doesn't seem to be the case here at this moment.
Your family members are right in their mind about the way that see your wife as they have been observing how this has impacted you and your son.
Either you wait for her to come to her senses OR simply learn to live life without her. If the outside world of social media is what seems to satisfy her, no matter what you do, she will be dissatisfied and unhappy. This only means that she has to learn and appreciate what she has with you and your son.
It is also possible that she has been disinterested in the marriage for a while now and has been seeking approval and validation from people on social media. Even if this is the case, being angry with you is understandable BUT what about her own child? What makes her not want to deal with that reality? If you need an answer to this, simply WAIT and WATCH without begging her to come back...That will give you an idea as to where her mind is and then decide on the future course...

All the best!

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In my opinion, there is no point in diversifying yourself without any reason. The correct path is B.Sc. then M.Sc. and then P.Hd. Join as an assistant professor in any college and even though you don't want to join any school/college, you can join any big coaching center or start your coaching. Without any confusion at this stage, just focus on your B.Sc. and try to excel In it with a high %tile for a better future in PG and P.Hd. While pursuing a B.Sc., if possible join some computer courses related to AI, Website development, Mastering Excel, Business Automation, etc. to have an added advantage from a job placement point of view.

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 19, 2024Hindi
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Hello sir. I am 46 looking for advice . I want to increase my 50 L to 1 crore mf portfolio in next one year and my end goal is to achieve 5 to 7 crore by 10 years . I will invest Sip 12 lakh per year for next 5 years . I am getting 32 lakhs cash in next 6 to 9 manths. I am thinking to invest 8 laksh every quarter additional lumpsum by distributing to different mf. I have mf portfolio as large cap 3 including 1 index fund 23% . Midcap 3 23% and small cap 3 23% and flexicap 2 8% and sectorial 2 10% hybrid 2 13%. Based on overlapping fund I see large cap as potential to balance as it's 54% overlapping stocks ,other funds are 0verlapping is 8 to 14%. For each areas . I would like to know is my strategy right to distributing lumpsum quarterly wise right ? . I will be mostly distributing same % ? . Please let me know any other method to achieve the goal. Also all mfs iam keeping are 5 or 4 rated funds with consistent return of 15 to 20% with alpha more than 1 . I am reducing investment on 3 rated funds below alpha 1 funds. Please confirm the approach and Your guidance will be really appreciated
Ans: At 46, you are in a strong financial position with Rs. 50 lakh in mutual funds. Your goal is to grow this to Rs. 1 crore within a year and Rs. 5 to 7 crore in the next 10 years. You plan to invest Rs. 12 lakh per year through SIPs for the next five years, and you will also receive Rs. 32 lakh in cash in the next 6 to 9 months, which you plan to invest in a staggered manner. Your current mutual fund portfolio includes a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, small-cap, flexi-cap, sectoral, and hybrid funds.

Now, let's evaluate and assess your strategy from all angles to ensure it is aligned with your financial goals.

Evaluating Your Portfolio Composition
Current Allocation: Your portfolio includes a diverse range of mutual funds. You have 23% in large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap funds, 8% in flexi-cap, 10% in sectoral, and 13% in hybrid funds.

Large-Cap Overlap: You mentioned that 54% of your large-cap funds overlap, which indicates some redundancy. Reducing overlap will streamline your portfolio and improve diversification.

Mid-Cap and Small-Cap Allocation: With 23% allocated to mid-cap and small-cap funds, you are well-positioned to benefit from higher growth potential. However, this also comes with higher volatility, which we will discuss in a later section.

Sectoral Funds: Sectoral funds make up 10% of your portfolio. These funds can be risky as they are dependent on the performance of specific sectors. Limiting exposure here is wise.

Hybrid Funds: Hybrid funds, at 13%, provide a mix of equity and debt, which adds a layer of stability. This is a balanced approach and complements your aggressive equity investments.

Lumpsum Strategy: Quarterly Distribution
Your Plan: You plan to distribute Rs. 8 lakh every quarter from your Rs. 32 lakh cash inflow, over the next year. Distributing lumpsum investments quarterly is a prudent way to mitigate market timing risks.

Staggered Approach: By staggering your lumpsum investment, you can take advantage of rupee cost averaging. This reduces the impact of market volatility, which is particularly important given the uncertain nature of markets.

Potential Risks: One concern with lump sum investments is the temptation to invest during market highs. Timing the market is difficult, and a disciplined staggered approach, as you’ve chosen, helps mitigate this risk.

SIPs for Consistent Growth
Annual SIP Commitment: You are investing Rs. 12 lakh annually in SIPs over the next five years. This is an excellent strategy, as SIPs benefit from market volatility. You are disciplined, which is crucial for long-term growth.

Rebalancing Strategy: You are reviewing funds based on their ratings and alpha. Reducing investments in 3-rated funds with lower alpha and focusing on 4- and 5-rated funds is smart. It is essential to continuously monitor fund performance, but avoid making impulsive changes based on short-term fluctuations.

Overlap in Large-Cap Funds
Issue of Overlap: You observed a 54% overlap in your large-cap funds, which is quite high. This can limit your exposure to new opportunities and reduce diversification. It is worth considering consolidation of your large-cap holdings to reduce this overlap.

Action Plan: You can replace some of the overlapping large-cap funds with high-quality actively managed funds. Actively managed funds can provide better opportunities for returns compared to index funds, as fund managers can take advantage of market inefficiencies.

Avoid Index Funds: While index funds can provide low-cost exposure, they often mirror market indices and cannot outperform them. Since you are aiming for a higher growth rate, actively managed funds are likely to be more beneficial. Index funds also lack flexibility in adjusting to changing market conditions, which is essential for achieving higher returns.

Flexi-Cap Funds: Adaptive and Flexible
Flexi-Cap Allocation: Your allocation of 8% to flexi-cap funds is solid. Flexi-cap funds offer the advantage of flexibility in investing across large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap segments based on market opportunities.

Balancing Act: These funds can adapt to market conditions, providing a more balanced risk-return profile. Increasing your allocation to flexi-cap funds could further enhance the flexibility of your portfolio. These funds can help reduce the impact of volatility while still capitalizing on growth opportunities.

Mid-Cap and Small-Cap Funds: Growth with Volatility
Growth Potential: Mid-cap and small-cap funds provide significant growth potential. However, they are also more volatile compared to large-cap funds.

Current Allocation: Your allocation of 23% each to mid-cap and small-cap funds indicates a high-risk appetite. While these funds can deliver high returns, they can also experience sharp declines in the short term.

Risk Management: Since you are aiming for long-term growth, holding these funds makes sense. However, it’s essential to ensure that your portfolio is not overly concentrated in these high-risk categories. You may want to consider reducing your exposure slightly to mitigate risk, particularly as you approach retirement.

Sectoral Funds: Strategic but Risky
Sectoral Allocation: Sectoral funds can deliver outsized returns, but they are also highly risky as they depend on the performance of specific sectors.

Limiting Exposure: Keeping sectoral funds at 10% of your portfolio is reasonable. However, be cautious about increasing this allocation further, as these funds are more vulnerable to sector-specific downturns.

Hybrid Funds: Stability and Safety
Hybrid Allocation: Your 13% allocation to hybrid funds is a good way to balance your portfolio. Hybrid funds combine equity and debt, providing a safety net during market downturns.

Importance of Stability: These funds offer lower returns compared to pure equity funds, but they also provide stability, especially during market corrections. It’s a good idea to retain this allocation to hybrid funds as part of your overall strategy.

Monitoring Fund Ratings and Alpha
Fund Selection: You are making fund selections based on ratings and alpha. This approach is effective as it helps filter out underperforming funds.

Consistent Review: Continuously monitoring the performance of your funds is crucial. However, avoid making frequent changes based on short-term performance. Focus on long-term consistency and the overall trajectory of the funds.

Reducing 3-Rated Funds: You are reducing your investment in 3-rated funds with an alpha below 1. This is a sound decision as these funds are underperforming. Focus on high-quality funds that have consistently delivered strong returns.

Achieving Your 5 to 7 Crore Goal
Targeting 5 to 7 Crore: Your target of achieving Rs. 5 to 7 crore in 10 years is ambitious but achievable. With disciplined SIPs, a staggered lumpsum approach, and strategic fund selection, you are well on track.

Strategic Rebalancing: It’s important to regularly rebalance your portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your goals. Focus on actively managed funds, reduce overlap, and avoid index funds to maximize your growth potential.

Consistency: The key to achieving your goal will be consistency. Stick to your SIP schedule, invest your lumpsum funds wisely, and avoid chasing short-term gains.

Final Insights
Your Strategy Is Strong: Overall, your strategy is solid. You have diversified your portfolio across different types of funds, and your disciplined approach to SIPs and lumpsum investments is commendable.

Focus on Large-Cap Overlap: Reducing the overlap in your large-cap funds will improve diversification and provide new growth opportunities.

Continue Monitoring Performance: Keep reviewing your fund performance, but avoid making hasty changes based on short-term trends. Focus on long-term growth.

Stay Disciplined: The key to success is discipline. Stick to your investment plan, and you will be well on your way to achieving your financial goals.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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Mr Vivek Lala, Good Morning. Can you please tell me , 1) where all the places we can invest in SWPs. 2) Is there any age limit for SWP. 3) Is there SWP facility in NPS also?.4) Any upper ceiling limit to invest in SWP?. Thank you.
Ans: A Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP) is a facility offered by many mutual funds. It allows investors to withdraw a fixed sum from their investments at regular intervals. Let’s dive into each part of your query to provide detailed insights.

1. Investment Options for SWPs

SWPs are primarily associated with mutual funds. Here are the various options where you can invest through SWPs:

Debt Mutual Funds: These are one of the most popular options for SWPs. They provide stability, with low-risk returns.

Equity Mutual Funds: SWPs can also be done in equity mutual funds. This option is riskier, but it can offer better returns in the long term.

Hybrid Mutual Funds: These funds combine equity and debt, offering balanced risk and returns. SWPs in hybrid funds can help diversify risk.

Balanced Advantage Funds: These are dynamic funds that shift between equity and debt based on market conditions. SWPs in these funds could provide more stability.

Notably, SWPs are not available in direct equity, bonds, or other such traditional investments. They are mainly associated with mutual funds. It’s a simple and flexible option for generating regular income.

2. Age Limit for SWPs

There is no age limit for investing in an SWP. Whether you are young and looking to generate additional income, or you are in retirement, anyone can opt for SWPs. You can start an SWP at any stage in your life, as long as you have a mutual fund investment.

For young investors, it can be used to fund specific needs like education, travel, or other personal expenses. For retirees, it acts as a regular source of income to meet living expenses.

3. SWP in National Pension System (NPS)

Unfortunately, there is no SWP facility available in the NPS. The NPS is structured differently from mutual funds. It is a pension scheme meant for long-term retirement savings. The withdrawals from NPS are governed by specific rules, and it doesn’t offer the flexibility that SWPs do.

NPS provides partial withdrawal options, but these are limited. Upon maturity, you can withdraw 60% of your corpus, but the remaining 40% must be used to purchase an annuity. So, NPS does not have the same withdrawal flexibility as SWPs in mutual funds.

4. Upper Ceiling Limit for SWPs

There is no upper ceiling limit for investing in SWPs. You can invest as much as you want in mutual funds and set up an SWP accordingly. Your SWP amount depends on the size of your corpus and the returns it generates.

However, it’s crucial to be cautious. Withdrawing more than the returns can eat into your capital. Therefore, it is advisable to carefully calculate how much you wish to withdraw through SWP to ensure that your capital lasts for the desired period.

Advantages of SWPs

Here are the key advantages of opting for SWPs:

Regular Income: SWPs provide a steady and regular stream of income.

Tax Efficiency: SWPs in equity and hybrid funds are more tax-efficient compared to traditional income sources like Fixed Deposits.

Customisation: SWPs allow you to customize the withdrawal amount and frequency.

Flexibility: You can start or stop an SWP anytime. You can also increase or decrease the amount as needed.

Capital Protection: SWPs allow you to withdraw just the returns, protecting your capital.

Disadvantages of SWPs

Despite the advantages, there are a few downsides to SWPs:

Capital Erosion: If your withdrawals exceed the returns, your capital could reduce over time.

Market Risks: In equity-based SWPs, market fluctuations can impact returns, especially if you’re withdrawing regularly.

Lower Returns in Debt Funds: Debt funds provide stability but generally have lower returns compared to equity funds.

Comparison: SWPs vs Direct Investments

Some investors prefer direct mutual fund investments. However, direct plans, while having lower expense ratios, lack professional advice. Certified Financial Planners (CFPs) have extensive market experience and can tailor investments according to your goals and risk appetite.

Direct funds are usually opted by those who understand markets well. However, many investors lose potential returns by making emotional or uninformed decisions. That’s where regular funds managed by an MFD with CFP credentials can provide significant benefits. The guidance of a professional can ensure that your investments stay aligned with your goals and market conditions.

Why Actively Managed Funds are Better than Index Funds

If you’re considering mutual funds for SWPs, actively managed funds are a better option compared to index funds. Here’s why:

Market-Beating Potential: Actively managed funds have the potential to outperform the market, while index funds can only mirror the market returns.

Professional Management: Actively managed funds are run by experienced fund managers who actively adjust portfolios to seize opportunities and mitigate risks.

Customisation and Flexibility: Active funds allow fund managers to customize portfolios according to changing market conditions, unlike index funds which are rigid.

While index funds offer low-cost investments, they don’t offer the flexibility and potential growth that actively managed funds do.

No Ceiling on SWP Investments

As mentioned earlier, there is no ceiling on the amount you can invest in SWPs. However, you must consider how much you are withdrawing monthly. Over-withdrawing can erode your capital.

A Certified Financial Planner can help you plan an optimal withdrawal amount. They will ensure that your corpus is not depleted quickly while generating consistent returns.

Final Insights

SWPs are an excellent way to generate regular income, especially for retirees or those looking for a steady cash flow. The flexibility and tax benefits make it an attractive option for many investors.

You should remember, though, that SWPs in equity funds carry market risks, while debt funds offer stability with lower returns. A balance between the two, or opting for hybrid funds, may offer a safer bet for long-term withdrawal plans.

Lastly, avoid direct and index funds if you prefer peace of mind and professional management. By investing through a Certified Financial Planner, you can make sure your investments are aligned with your long-term financial goals, especially if you are considering SWPs.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

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