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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Sep 12, 2022
If life were that simple enough, why would we be facing challenges at all?
You think if she had loved you, none of this would have happened. You choose to see it from your point of view which is understandable.
What if you take the effort to find out what made her lose interest in you and the marriage?
Women are wired differently from men when it comes to sex. It can be enveloped in emotions and when she is going through an emotionally challenging time (with your mother), it might have been hard for her to be physically close with you.
Did you consider ever resolving the situation between them?
Did you ever ask your wife: “What can I do to help your situation?”
Did you ever find out from her what made her distant from you?
It may sound harsh, but we are talking about much water under the bridge.
If you go on to blame her for cheating on you, when you could and you didn’t, well, it’s not a string place to start if you want to save your marriage.
Do you both want to reconcile and rebuild the marriage?
Communicate, as that’s something that has broken down between the two of you.
It takes two to build a marriage and two to break one. So, time to reflect and look ahead as to what can be done based on what the two of you choose to do.
As far as you not being able to reconcile with the thoughts of her being involved with another man, I suggest before you approach your wife to remedy the situation, kindly settle this thought else tempers are going to fly and things will go from bad to worse. So BREATHE and NOW sit calmly to reflect and act.
All the best!
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