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Asked by Anonymous - May 13, 2024Hindi
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I have my crush in class 11 and now I miss her as I done bad with her but actually nothing like happened but I blaming myself in wrong way,guru what I do ?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

People make mistakes, especially when they are young. It is great that you realized yours. There is nothing much you can do about the past. You can't change it, but you can make an effort to never repeat the same mistakes. As for missing her, that is momentary. It will happen for a while, and then pass with time. If you have done something wrong with her and feel guilty about it, the best thing to do is apologize. If she doesn't seem interested in your apology, then do not bother her to shrug off the burden from your shoulders. It's your burden and yours only to carry. Try to forgive yourself and work toward being a better person. That's all you can do.

Now, in case you think you are blaming yourself for no reason, half of your problems are resolved. You already understand that this blaming is absurd. Introspect. Think about what went wrong and if you were part of it. In either case, you have to learn to forgive yourself. To err is to be human. But what you learn from it, makes you a better one.

Best Wishes.

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