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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 21, 2024Hindi
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Me and my boyfriend are in long distance relationship from past 6 months, I told him about my past in almost starting of it that I had 2 friends with benefits in past and one of that person was my classmate as well as friend, and he used to still contact me, and when I came in relationship also, he called me during that time and I told regarding my relationship status, and I also informed my boyfriend that I talked with him but this thing happened before he knows that I had physical intimacy with him, then when he asked me to block, I suddenly question "what is the point of blocking him" which I regret the most, but I blocked him later by myself, now my boyfriend is sayine me that I have cheated him and he won't trust me till his death, but I told everything in past happened to him. I love him a lot but he is not giving to work together in this relationship and saying that he won't stay loyal to me anymore, he won't trust be ever, as per him I have cheated him, but my intentions were not wrong at all, tho that guy was in contact but I never initiate any conversation with him while I came into relationship, is it really a cheat, is it that he should not trust me anymore? Please guide

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It sounds like you are going through a rough time and I am sorry for it. Here's a thought and I am sure you have thought of it too, try to see things from his perspective. While you know that you never cheated nor meant to, it is important to acknowledge that your boyfriend's feelings are valid. He is feeling betrayed and that's a fact. Now, our goal should be to fix this issue. How do we do it? Communication is the only way. Tell him that you understand his perspective but it is important that he sees yours too. If he wants to vent, listen to him. Do not interrupt or become defensive. Understand whatever he says is coming from his insecurity. I know it's difficult not to take it personally, but his statements will be a reflection of his feelings and not your character. Remember this during the conversation. Once he is done speaking, reassure him that you had no intention of cheating. You can also reassure him of your commitment. Promise to be more transparent and point out that you were honest with him from the beginning. If you had any intention to cheat, you could have easily not shared with him your past. But you did and that shows that you are committed to this relationship. Tell him that you understand the need for boundaries and it is not okay to be in touch with people who make your partner uncomfortable.

Look, rebuilding trust needs work and it also takes time. Both of you need to work on it. You will have to work on making him trust you and he will have to work on letting go of his misconception (which might be his reality) and trust you wholly again. Relationships don't work till two people trust each other completely. If he continues to say that he can't trust you again, it might be best to reconsider this relationship. Even though your words hurt him, you did not cheat on him in reality. Why should you have to live in fear that he will cheat on you merely to take revenge?

After you put in all the effort, see where it goes. If things do not get better, rethinking the relationship would be best. Everyone deserves someone who can trust and be trusted.

Best Wishes.

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Hii sir ! This is ritika and I love a boy and we are in relationship since 7 years but there are some behavior of him he always have doubt on me that I am dating another boy he always says that start you screenshare in WhatsApp I even do because I don't want to lose him and he saw all of things of my phone yesterday he again asking for that and I do and there was a tab of instagram which was belongs to my roommate it was her I'd open in my chrome browser where she only wants to delete the I'd which she did from my phone these instagram thing happened approx one year ago but when he saw this I told him that was not mine but he continuously said I am cheater I cheated with him again he was like I know you have two mobile phones and you cheated with me. I love him soo much but he cannot try to accept that . Even I don't talk to my male classmate because he didn't want ki main kisi boy se baat karu Is it fair , am I cheater ? I love him unconditionally I support him in all his career or decision but again he was like I cheated with him we are in long distance relationship but I can't cheat him . Literally I am feeling depressed ????
Ans: Dear Ritika,

Please understand that you did nothing wrong. Why would you even question yourself? You know you never cheated. It's his issue that he cannot trust. Yes, in a relationship we all try to comfort our partners but that too should be to a certain extent. And, in that process, if your mental health is being compromised, I don't see how it's a healthy relationship.

I don't want to tell you what to do, but I would reassure you that YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. You don't need to prove yourself anymore. And I can also assure you that no matter what you do, he will still manage to find some flaws and doubt you. It's a typical behavior we see in some partners. You deserve peace, love, and above all, to be trusted.

Best Wishes.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 23, 2024
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Hi gurus, I am 24 yrs old girl, currently pursuing MBA from a middle class family. I have a 5 yr relationship with my boyfriend. I love him very much. Don't want to loose him. Maybe he also love me. But the problem start few days ago when he suddenly confessed me that he visit red light area thrice at the first year of our relationship. From those initial days we are in a serious relationship and family involved in this. But we don't intimate but virtual intimacy was there. But this year in january we for first time got intimate and after 4 time of intimacy he confess me this that he physical one time and two time just visit their to see naked dance but failed due to some reason. Now He told me that he felt it will be cheating if he not told me this now. One side I am depressed and fear to loose him. He repetitively beg pardon from me and told that this was his peer pressure and now he mature enough to say no this.. Now he can't imagine his life without me. I don't want to loose him but can't forgive or forgot this. Now he repeatedly told me to marry him and proposed me romantically. He repeatedly want pardon from me . I love him very much that I want to forget all things and start from first again. But will it be right, if I easily forgive him than is he got much confidence to do this again?? I am depressed and confused. Pls help me . What will be right decision in this situation? Forgive him or not?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Whether you want to forgive him or not is your decision. But I would wonder if he has confessed all of it. The risk of carrying infections from visiting these places is heavy; so before jumping into any physical act with him, do suggest to him that he gets himself tested. He may oppose it, but be firm on it.
You love him and that's all okay...But is he in love with you OR is he wants to be with you because his family is involved as well?

What is a red flag is the fact that he was still visiting red light areas while he was in a relationship with you. Do you not want to know why? Do you not want to know what makes him beg for your forgiveness now? Till such time that you are satisfied and you can trust him again, do not act in a hurry.

All the best!
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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 26, 2024Hindi
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Hi Ravi sir, I am 24 yrs old girl, currently pursuing MBA from a middle class family. I have a 5 yr relationship with my boyfriend. I love him very much. Don't want to loose him. Maybe he also love me. But the problem start few days ago when he suddenly confessed me that he visit red light area thrice at the first year of our relationship. From those initial days we are in a serious relationship and family involved in this. But we don't intimate but virtual intimacy was there. But this year in january we for first time got intimate and after 4 time of intimacy he confess me this that he physical one time and two time just visit their to see naked dance but failed due to some reason. Now He told me that he felt it will be cheating if he not told me this now. One side I am depressed and fear to loose him. He repetitively beg pardon from me and told that this was his peer pressure and now he mature enough to say no this.. Now he can't imagine his life without me. I don't want to loose him but can't forgive or forgot this. Now he repeatedly told me to marry him and proposed me romantically. He repeatedly want pardon from me . I love him very much that I want to forget all things and start from first again. But will it be right, if I easily forgive him than is he got much confidence to do this again?? I am depressed and confused. Pls help me . What will be right decision in this situation? Forgive him or not?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand how conflicted you must be feeling right now, and I am sorry that you are going through this. I wish I could tell you what would be the right thing to do, but it has to be your decision and yours alone. All I can suggest is to take a beat and not rush into deciding anything.

Take everything into consideration-
On the one hand, infidelity is indeed unacceptable in a relationship. But on the other, it was in the initial stage. He might not have been as serious about the relationship as you during those days. Nevertheless, the timing does not make his action justifiable. I suggest you have an open conversation and ask him why he felt the need to do this. Ask him if he did not consider your feelings. What's concerning is that he did not stop after the first time; he went back twice more. I am not judging his choice of location but the fact that he was in a committed relationship puts him in the wrong. Also, blaming it on peer pressure is inexcusable; this isn't something funny or trivial he did because his friends dared him to. Ask him to take accountability and understand that actions have consequences.

Take it one day at a time. Whatever you decide is okay. And if at any point you want to pick yourself over the relationship, I want you to understand that it is completely alright. You will feel like it's a selfish decision, but it isn't. Remember that. Please do what you need to help you heal from this.

Best Wishes.

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I am having mutual funds of app RS 1.50 cr and housing loan of app Rs 70 lacs. on mutual funds the average return in the last few years is app 15%. On Housing loan Interest rate is 8.6%. Considering future stock market and other conditions etc should I clear my Housing loan from Mutual funds or should i continue as it is
Ans: You have a significant mutual fund portfolio and a housing loan. This presents an important financial decision. Let’s analyse this scenario thoroughly to guide you effectively.

1. Appreciating Your Financial Discipline
Building a mutual fund portfolio of Rs 1.50 crore is remarkable.

Managing a housing loan responsibly alongside is commendable.

2. Understanding the Trade-Offs
The decision to prepay or continue depends on multiple factors:

Housing loan interest rate is 8.6%.

Mutual funds have delivered a 15% average return recently.

Consider post-tax returns and opportunity costs while deciding.

3. Tax Implications on Housing Loan
Home loans offer tax benefits under Sections 80C and 24.

Principal repayment qualifies under Section 80C up to Rs 1.5 lakh annually.

Interest payment deduction is available up to Rs 2 lakh under Section 24.

Prepayment will end these benefits, impacting your net tax savings.

4. Taxation on Mutual Fund Withdrawals
Long-term capital gains (LTCG) above Rs 1.25 lakh on equity funds attract 12.5% tax.

Debt fund withdrawals are taxed as per your income tax slab.

Factor these taxes into the decision to withdraw.

5. Potential Growth of Mutual Funds
Mutual funds, especially actively managed funds, can offer long-term wealth creation.

Market fluctuations may impact short-term performance, but long-term potential remains strong.

By staying invested, you can benefit from compounding over time.

6. Prepayment vs. Investing
When Prepayment May Be Beneficial:
If your housing loan EMI strains your monthly budget.

If you prefer being debt-free for peace of mind.

If the market outlook indicates subdued mutual fund returns.

When Continuing the Loan is Better:
If your mutual fund returns consistently exceed 8.6%.

If tax benefits significantly reduce your effective loan cost.

If you are comfortable managing the EMIs without liquidity issues.

7. Considering a Hybrid Approach
Use part of your mutual fund portfolio for partial prepayment.

This reduces your loan burden while retaining market exposure.

Ensure an emergency fund remains intact before withdrawing.

8. Building a Comprehensive Strategy
Align your decision with your financial goals and risk appetite.

Maintain diversification to balance growth and safety.

Consult a Certified Financial Planner to evaluate future scenarios.

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Your choice depends on balancing financial returns and personal priorities.

If returns from mutual funds exceed loan cost, continuing is logical.

If being debt-free aligns with personal peace, partial prepayment helps.

A hybrid strategy can offer the best of both worlds.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

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Sir want 30000 invest in SIP for my early retirement. Please provide me SIP fund. I want invest for 10 to 15 years. I have close my rs30000 RD Monthly for this sip and 30000 RD is continue
Ans: For your goal of early retirement through a SIP of Rs. 30,000 monthly, it's important to build a diversified portfolio for stable returns. Here’s an investment strategy to consider:

60% in Large Cap Equity Funds
These funds provide stability and growth potential over the long term. They focus on large, established companies with good track records.

20% in Mid Cap Funds
Mid-cap funds offer higher growth potential, but they come with a bit more risk. Over 10-15 years, they can outperform large-cap funds.

20% in Hybrid Funds or Balanced Advantage Funds
These funds strike a balance between equity and debt. They provide a mix of growth and stability, especially in volatile markets.

Avoid investing in direct plans as it may limit professional advice and regular monitoring. Choosing funds via MFD (Mutual Fund Distributor) with a CFP credential ensures better guidance.

Time Frame for Investment
Since your investment horizon is 10-15 years, you’re in a good position to take advantage of market cycles. This time frame allows your investment to grow significantly through compounding and market upswings.

Regular Monitoring
Review your investments periodically, preferably every 6 months. Adjust your allocation if necessary to stay aligned with your goals.

Best Regards,
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Last 5 years of my life have gone by being a gambling addict. I've finally come around and paid back some portion of my debt. However the portion that remains is humongous. Now owe 60L to my dad. I'm 29 years old and make 1.25L a month. How to I pay this off? Secondly, considering my age, does my debt mean I won't be able to settle down anytime soon? I'm tired of making plans for myself. Nothing works. I really need something concrete. Please help. I have 0 savings or investments till date.
Ans: You’ve taken a significant step by acknowledging your past and beginning repayment. Now, let’s develop a structured plan to clear your debt and secure your future.

1. Acknowledging Your Progress
Admitting the issue and repaying part of your debt is commendable.

This shows accountability and determination, both critical for success.

Focus on consistent effort and avoid self-blame for past mistakes.

2. Understanding Your Financial Situation
Your income is Rs 1.25 lakh per month with no current savings or investments.

Your debt to your father stands at Rs 60 lakh.

This debt is non-interest-bearing but must be cleared systematically.

3. Creating a Realistic Budget
Budgeting is essential to track income and expenses.

Categorise expenses into fixed, variable, and discretionary.

Aim to limit discretionary expenses like dining out, subscriptions, and non-essential shopping.

Allocate at least 50% of your income to repay your debt.

4. Developing a Debt Repayment Plan
A disciplined repayment plan can ease your burden.

Commit Rs 60,000 per month towards debt repayment.

At this rate, the debt can be cleared in approximately 8–10 years.

Increase repayment amounts when income grows or bonuses are received.

5. Building an Emergency Fund
While repaying debt, an emergency fund is vital.

Save 3–6 months' expenses for unforeseen situations.

Start with Rs 10,000 per month in a high-liquidity fund.

This ensures financial stability without disrupting debt payments.

6. Avoiding Future Gambling Temptations
Preventing relapse is crucial for long-term stability.

Join support groups or seek counselling for gambling addiction.

Engage in constructive hobbies or activities to fill your time.

Keep finances transparent to someone you trust for accountability.

7. Financial Planning for Marriage and Settling Down
Debt does not prevent settling down with proper planning.

Discuss your financial situation openly with your future partner.

Focus on joint financial goals, including saving for a wedding or family.

Avoid high-cost weddings and invest in long-term stability instead.

8. Investment Planning for Long-Term Goals
Start investing after creating an emergency fund and stabilising repayments.

Begin with equity mutual funds for inflation-beating growth.

Invest systematically, even with small amounts initially.

Avoid direct funds and invest through an MFD with CFP certification.

9. Balancing Lifestyle and Repayments
Maintain a balanced lifestyle during this phase.

Celebrate small wins like completing milestones in repayment.

Prioritise personal growth through skill development or education.

These steps improve career prospects and earning potential.

10. Monitoring Progress and Seeking Support
Track progress regularly to stay motivated.

Review expenses and savings every month.

Adjust the budget as income and expenses change.

Seek guidance from a Certified Financial Planner for personalised advice.

Final Insights
Your debt is significant but manageable with discipline and structure.

Commit to the repayment plan and track progress regularly.

Build financial habits that prevent future setbacks.

A stable, debt-free future is achievable with consistent effort.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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I am 45 years old and looking to retire as I don’t find my job satisfying anymore. My wife will continue working and is earning 50k a month. Our monthly expenses are 75k. We live in our own home with no dependents and no liabilities. Our corpus consists of 40 lacs in long term GSec, 57 lacs in PPF and 35 lacs in diversified equity funds. We earn rent of 20k a month from a flat valued at approximately 80 lacs. I also have a corpus of 60 lacs in NPS which will earn an annuity of 30k a month on exit. Will this be sufficient to maintain present lifestyle and last for lifespan upto 85 years or am I being hasty in quitting my job which earns me 1.5 lacs post tax
Ans: At 45, retiring early is an important decision. Your corpus and expenses need careful analysis. Let us assess if your current resources can sustain your desired lifestyle until 85.

1. Current Financial Overview
Your financial position is stable. Let us summarise your assets and income sources.

Rs 40 lakhs in long-term G-Secs.

Rs 57 lakhs in PPF.

Rs 35 lakhs in diversified equity mutual funds.

Rs 60 lakhs in NPS with an estimated annuity of Rs 30,000 per month.

Rental income of Rs 20,000 per month from a flat.

Your monthly expenses are Rs 75,000.

Your wife’s monthly income is Rs 50,000.

2. Income Sources Post-Retirement
Assessing post-retirement income ensures sustainability.

Rental income of Rs 20,000 per month.

Annuity income of Rs 30,000 per month from NPS.

Total passive income is Rs 50,000 per month.

Your wife’s income adds Rs 50,000, making the total income Rs 1,00,000.

Monthly expenses exceed passive income by Rs 25,000 if your wife stops working.

3. Corpus Utilisation and Sustainability
Your corpus must support expenses for 40 years.

Long-term G-Secs offer stable returns but might not beat inflation.

PPF provides safety, tax efficiency, and moderate growth.

Equity mutual funds offer inflation-beating growth for long-term needs.

Systematic withdrawals from the corpus can cover shortfalls.

4. Inflation Impact and Long-Term Planning
Inflation will significantly affect your expenses.

Assuming 6% annual inflation, expenses will double in 12 years.

Passive income sources must grow to keep pace with rising costs.

Equity exposure ensures growth but requires careful monitoring.

5. Asset Allocation for Retirement
Proper allocation ensures safety, liquidity, and growth.

Retain 50% in safe instruments like PPF and G-Secs for stability.

Allocate 30–40% to equity for long-term growth.

Keep 10% in liquid funds for immediate needs or emergencies.

6. Tax Efficiency and Withdrawals
Optimising withdrawals can save taxes.

Use tax-free returns from PPF first for withdrawals.

Interest from G-Secs will be taxable; plan withdrawals carefully.

Withdraw from equity mutual funds considering LTCG rules above Rs 1.25 lakh.

7. Reviewing Lifestyle Choices
Lifestyle adjustments can reduce financial strain.

Evaluate discretionary expenses like vacations or luxury items.

Maintain current expenses while planning for medical costs.

Prioritise health insurance for both of you to handle medical inflation.

8. Considering Wife’s Role in Financial Planning
Your wife’s income plays a crucial role.

Her income bridges the gap between expenses and passive income.

Discuss her retirement age and income potential post-retirement.

Joint investments and planning align your financial goals.

9. Re-evaluate Retirement Decision
Retiring now may need compromises.

Your job provides Rs 1.5 lakh per month post-tax, which supports higher savings.

Continuing for 5–7 years builds a stronger corpus.

This ensures less dependence on equity performance in retirement.

10. Long-Term Health and Lifestyle Preparedness
Early retirement requires careful planning for unexpected costs.

Plan for lifestyle expenses like hobbies or travel.

Build a health corpus for unforeseen medical expenses.

Ensure adequate insurance for major health risks.

Final Insights
Retirement at 45 is possible but may require adjustments.

Your current corpus and income provide a stable base.

Continuing your job for a few more years strengthens financial security.

Focus on balancing safety and growth in your investments.

Regularly review your portfolio with a Certified Financial Planner.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
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Hi, I am 36 years old earning 1 lac per month. I am unmarried and has recently bought a house with 55 lacs loan for 25 years. I plan to get married this year. I wonder how should I do financial planning as I can't be working till the age of 60. Please suggest.
Ans: You have made a significant financial decision by purchasing a house with a Rs 55 lakh loan. At 36, you earn Rs 1 lakh per month and plan to marry soon. Let us structure a robust financial plan to ensure stability and early retirement without working until 60.

1. Assess Current Financial Situation
Understanding your financial commitments is the first step.

Your home loan EMI will form a major part of your monthly expenses.

Calculate your fixed expenses like loan EMIs, utilities, and essential needs.

Identify discretionary spending and aim to save 30–40% of your income.

2. Prioritise Emergency Fund Creation
An emergency fund ensures financial security during unexpected events.

Set aside 6–12 months’ expenses in a liquid fund.

Keep this fund accessible but separate from regular savings.

This fund can handle unexpected expenses like medical emergencies or job loss.

3. Clear High-Interest Debt First
Your home loan is long-term and tax-efficient, so focus on other debts if any.

Repay credit cards and personal loans quickly as they have high interest.

Avoid unnecessary borrowing for lifestyle expenses.

4. Plan for Marriage Expenses
Marriages often involve significant costs, so plan them wisely.

Allocate a specific budget for marriage-related expenses.

Avoid using savings for marriage; consider creating a short-term investment plan.

Discuss shared financial goals with your partner before planning expenses.

5. Home Loan Repayment Strategy
Reducing your home loan burden over time is essential.

Use salary hikes or bonuses to make part prepayments annually.

Prepayments reduce the interest burden and shorten the loan tenure.

Claim tax benefits on principal and interest under Sections 80C and 24(b).

6. Invest Wisely for Early Retirement
Building a corpus for early retirement requires disciplined investing.

Allocate a significant portion of savings to equity mutual funds for growth.

Use hybrid or balanced funds for moderate risk and stability.

Invest in debt mutual funds for stable returns and diversification.

7. Health and Life Insurance
Insurance protects your family from financial instability.

Buy adequate term insurance for life cover, considering your loan liability.

Opt for health insurance to cover medical expenses for you and your future spouse.

Avoid investment-cum-insurance policies like ULIPs as they offer low returns.

8. Retirement Corpus Estimation
You need a sizeable corpus to retire before 60 comfortably.

Factor in inflation and increasing expenses while planning the corpus.

Use systematic investment plans (SIPs) for long-term wealth creation.

Choose funds with consistent performance and invest through an MFD with CFP credentials.

9. Tax Planning and Savings
Tax efficiency is vital for increasing your disposable income.

Maximise deductions under Section 80C using EPF, PPF, or ELSS investments.

Claim home loan interest under Section 24(b) for tax benefits.

Avoid investing in products with lower post-tax returns.

10. Discuss Financial Goals with Your Spouse
Financial alignment with your spouse is critical.

Plan for joint expenses like home management and child education.

Discuss shared goals like retirement, travel, or higher education for children.

Create a joint financial plan to achieve these goals effectively.

11. Revisit and Rebalance Investments Regularly
Your financial goals and risk tolerance may evolve over time.

Review your investment portfolio annually with a Certified Financial Planner.

Rebalance your investments to maintain optimal asset allocation.

Adjust investments based on income changes, expenses, or major life events.

12. Avoid Unnecessary Financial Risks
Avoid high-risk investments as they could derail your plans.

Stay away from speculative stocks or volatile investments.

Avoid over-diversification in mutual funds, which dilutes returns.

Ensure investments align with your risk profile and time horizon.

Final Insights
Planning for early retirement is achievable with disciplined saving and investing.

Build a robust portfolio with a mix of equity, debt, and hybrid funds.

Reduce loan liabilities through prepayments and tax benefits.

Align your financial goals with your partner to ensure stability and security.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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