Hi Anu, i owned a site taking loan from bank and my bank loan is cleared, during down payment i took some amount from my in law, because he lended money he humuliated me very badly and i had a bad argument as well, as i have cleared my loan i am deciding to return back his money but my husband is not allowing me to return, what to do please suggest.

My husband went to usa while without taking any permissions form court during 498and DVC are pending is any way to make him back his brother behave very rude with me and my 4 years baby girl when we went to approach my in laws . My maintenance case orders are passed but he not paying one rupee

Hi Sir. I have a typical.problem here. I lend.money to one of.mynfriends for his bzness..I worked as a consultant for him. I made an agreement for the money given to him. Nevertheless he didn't return the money yet..I left him now some months back. Though I asked him to give bac money but he says he has lost lot in his bzness and also says he can't return the money. Sometimes indirectly he says that because of me he has landed in loss. I don't want to go.legally but it has been lot.ot.months that he has returned money. But now I can't wait. What should I do now..pls advise. Thanks

Hi, I got married in December 2012. Love marriage, we met in the office. I clearly told him that if I get married I would need to give one years salary to my dad as he has loan installments to pay and also told him my dad would do good wedding arrangements however no dowry should be asked. When his parents came to see me for the first time they came all prepared to finalize the relationship however we weren't aware. Me and my parents thought they are just coming to see me and the family. But when they started off with basic rituals that is when we were stunned but then went along. His father asked dowry from my dad and he was speechless but when I denied my father spoke to them and said he will bear all their expenses too but won't be able to give dowry. When I confronted my husband he said he wasn't aware that his dad will ask for dowry. We got married and when we visited his hometown his father confessed that he was not aware that me and my husband had discussed no dowry part otherwise he would not have asked my father. I was infuriated but I let it go. Soon after an year my salary started coming in and he would tranfer it in his account. I did not pay attention to it. Soon all the money was in his control. There came a situation in my family, my sister's wedding was called off by groom's end three days before the wedding and it was a shock. My husband asked us to write a letter stating all about the situation so that it can be submitted to the police. My husband kept a copy of that letter with him. During the lockdown my father asked for some monetary help from me but my husband denied to help him, and I started hating him to my core. Soon my mother in law moved in with us when my father in law expired. Since then our relationship sucked. She would always manipulate his son. I got so furious I started putting sugar in my husband's milk as he is diabetic and then later confessed it to him. Now he is threatening me of releasing that letter to my sister's husband and also has kept all the money in his control. He says he will make me feel sorry for what I did and also we are just living in my home but we have no relation and he does not talk to me. I don't want this relationship to flourish anyways but I need to know what can I do if I can get half of the assets. Please suggest what I can do.

I am married with 2 children. My brother-in-law (bil) [aged 46] is a divorcee since 2016 and had a failed suicide attempt when he was 18 years old due to a broken relationship. Post his divorce my bil did not find any suitable alliances from various matrimonial sites and had an unsuccessful one-sided love with one of his colleagues who is also a divorcee. My father-in-law or fil [aged 80 years old] is working part time and is not in talking terms with my bil however he willingly hands over money to my bil for managing his expenses. My bil used to stay in various parts of India on an average for 10 months as a part of his job. I happened once to check the bank statement of my bil and noted that the account balance was only Rs: 300. It was surprising as he was receiving 5.5 lakhs per annum as in-hand salary, had no alimony to be given to his ex-wife and gave money occasionally to his parents for their expenses. When questioned he did not give any concrete reasons for a low bank balance to our family and confirmed that he had zero savings/investments. In October 2023 my bil requested me for Rs: 2 lakh to clear his credit card dues. My bil confessed to me and my wife that he had spent lakhs of rupees on alcohol, cigarettes, prostitutes and had taken loan from various credit cards thereby exhausting all his savings. My bil promised that he will improve on his vices and would repay 10K every month from December 2023 onwards. However as on 25-Jul-2024 my bil only paid me 25K in total. He has started drinking and is jobless since 01-May-2024. I had to reveal to my fil about his bad habits and requested him to throw my bil out of the house as my fil was managing his expenses. I have a strong feeling that my bil has returned back to his old vices. Considering our day today expenses and unpredictability of the future costs we need to have prudent strategies to save money especially when one is 80 years old. I am really concerned that my fil is still supporting my bil financially for months despite knowing that the money is being misused by bil. My fil has only 5 lakhs as savings in Fixed Deposits. I and my wife are working professionals and have our own expenses to manage. I am really bothered that if my fil goes will exhaust all his savings and ultimately there would be a financial pressure on me and my wife to support my fil. At times my bil gives death/suicide threats due to which they are worried and my bil has become carefree as he is aware that my fil will bear all his financial needs when needed. Despite my fil bearing his expenses I am sure that the loans of my bil will never be repaid as my bil has no saving attitude. Please help.