Anu Krishna |1437 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Dec 20, 2022
Dear SD,
I have heard your side of the story but haven’t heard your wife on the same issue.
It seems the way you have described that your wife’s behaviour is unreasonable and selfish.
But I do believe that it takes two to tango.
What ever made her turn around differently from what she agreed upon before marriage?
Was she forced into this marriage?
Maybe it’s time to ask her:
What can I do for you?
What about me or my behaviour annoys you?
These questions shift from blame game to a solution space where you also take on the onus along with her to make the marriage work.
Obviously, something isn’t going on right and instead of bringing more instances that will prove that she’s at fault, why not bring in a space where the two of you work on your marriage.
Most times, just a shift in this thinking saves marriages and relationships.
All the best!
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