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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 01, 2024Hindi
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My 40 years son was fraudulently married to a schizophrenic girl in march this year. He is shocked to know the fact. He wants to get rid of her. Please advice accordingly.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Well, it's unfortunate that this was not mentioned to your son before marriage.
Also, has the girl been clinically diagnosed?
Ans oh, you cannot get rid of anyone; you can only move away from them OR in your son's case, separate/divorce.
Why I ask whether it was clinically diagnosed is only because any case warrants grounds of legal merit. If you have the necessary documents to prove it, then consult a lawyer who will then advice you accordingly.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
As a mother you are only trying to protect your son. So, find what you can on this woman and yes, your son needs to be shown that he is just being played and is another one of her 'boys'. Maybe then he will come to his senses. In the meantime, as a family try to surround him with love and a lot of care. He is only experimenting outside by rebelling at home OR he could very well be searching for some validation and attention outside. Give that attention to him at home and that will help him circle right back.

All the best!
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