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RS Question by RS on Oct 27, 2020Hindi
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Dear mam, I am 39. In the past few months I have been under financial stress.

My salary was reduced by 25% since April 2020 and wife’s salary dropped to 20% of my salary.

My EMIs are 70% of total income. I took moratorium. But, now moratorium ended and I am not able to manage the finances

Also, I am not able to find a new job. Without any help, everyone is facing a financial crisis.

I am not able to cope up . What should I do?

Ans: Dear RS, I empathize with your situation as this is something that seems like anyone’s story these days, given the pandemic.

Lot of uncertainties and much to think about especially with holding onto work and doing the best that we can.

What I could start of by saying: Look deep down at your expenses statement for the past 3 months. Look at what is necessary, what is not and what is a luxury.

Straightaway keep the luxury aside and focus on what’s needed and the best offer you can get on these by buying them in bulk and storing; like groceries or availing of festive offers and bargains.

Next what is a mandatory outgoing like Life Insurance policy premium, EMIs etc and how you can spread them over till the next financial year end.

Plan for the next quarter and even if you just break even, I think it will keep you afloat and give you the confidence that things are getting better.

The key to financial planning is to cut down expenses that we are not even aware of which we indulge in when money is in surplus.

That amounts to a huge chunk and every penny saved is a penny earned. 

Of course, if the bills are mounting and your EMIs have begun to outweigh your earnings, you might be forced into making some decisions; but remember do all you can before reaching that point of decision.

Do not be disheartened as phases like these don’t last forever and just like we look for a life jacket to save ourselves from drowning, we do know that that storm is temporary. Similarly, throw a life jacket on to tide this one and the storm shall pass.

Happy Saving. Take care and all the best.

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Maam sir good morn.I m K.S .i am.the sole bread earner of my.family .i m 52 and do.not have a job. I m not a spend thrift but due to lot of loans i have taken for education etc i m totally stressed up. I.get depressed and do not have the motivation to move ahead in life. I want to clear up all my dues and i fight day in and day out to find a job but to.no success. Finance are getting.lesser.. I m on the verge of breakdown. Plz help.
Ans: Dear KS,
First things first. A lot of decisions have gone wrong. It cannot be erased, but certainly you must find a way of recovering from it.
Yes, it is highly disheartening, but once you decide that you want to be in a better place, you have to take certain actions to reach that better place.
So, time to quit being upset and taking firm actions on what to do next to get out of this situation that you are in.
Seek the help of someone within your family or friends circle who is strong with their finances and managing their monies well. Of course, they must be someone you trust as well. Share everything with them (you need the help, so kindly be truthful and honest with them).
Let them put together a plan of action that manages your existing financial resources and inbound channels and match that with all the payments and debts.
Allow them to 'advise' you as you need this strong advice right now. Discuss what's possible and what's not and they will come up with something that is close to perfect.
Once, you start with the first small baby step. things start to look up. Even clearing a small debt will take a load off your chest. So, get into that action mode NOW. And yes, do promise yourself that this situation is teaching you a lesson on how to be financially prudent and that you will learn from it.

Best wishes and look bright and happy NOW!

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jun 16, 2024

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hi, i am 46 year old central government employee in Pune, I had several bad financial decision in my life. i have two daughters aged 11 and 17 i have no saving left, i have a flat in pune with liability of 38lac on home loan and 10 lac on personal society loan at 9% interest i have a ancestral property of 50 lac in Tamil nadu where my mom lives per month iam paying 550000 as home loan and personal loan EMI, My income is around 86000 how can I come out of this EMI burden and improve financial stability
Ans: Understanding Your Financial Situation
First, let me commend you for reaching out for guidance. It's never too late to improve your financial situation. You have two daughters to support and considerable loan burdens, which makes it essential to adopt a well-structured plan to regain financial stability.

Current Income and Expenses
Your current income is Rs. 86,000 per month. However, a significant portion of this income goes towards EMI payments. You are paying Rs. 5,50,000 annually towards home loan and personal loan EMIs, which is a heavy burden. This leaves limited room for savings and other expenses.

Loan Burden Analysis
The home loan liability is Rs. 38 lakh, and the personal society loan stands at Rs. 10 lakh. The home loan EMI is likely a major part of your monthly expense. Given the 9% interest rate on the personal loan, it is essential to address this first due to its higher interest rate compared to many other debt forms.

Asset Overview
You have an ancestral property worth Rs. 50 lakh in Tamil Nadu, where your mother lives. While this property holds significant value, it is tied to emotional and familial considerations.

Steps to Improve Financial Stability
Reassess and Prioritise Debts
Prioritise High-Interest Debts: Focus on reducing high-interest debts first. The personal loan at 9% interest is more expensive than typical home loans. Prioritising its repayment can save you significant interest over time.

Consider Debt Consolidation: Look into consolidating your personal and home loans. Consolidating at a lower interest rate can reduce the overall EMI burden. Discuss with your bank for possible consolidation or refinancing options.

Utilising Assets
Evaluate Ancestral Property: While the ancestral property is valuable, it might be worth considering its role in your financial recovery. You might explore options like renting out a portion of the property for additional income.

Downsize or Rent: If possible, you might consider downsizing your living space in Pune or renting out a portion of your flat to generate extra income. These steps can help manage EMIs more comfortably.

Budgeting and Expense Management
Create a Detailed Budget: Track all your income and expenses meticulously. Identify areas where you can cut down unnecessary costs. Budgeting helps in allocating resources more efficiently and finding ways to save money.

Emergency Fund: Establish a small emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses. Even a modest fund can prevent you from taking on more debt during emergencies.

Increasing Income Streams
Leveraging Skills and Opportunities
Freelancing or Part-Time Work: Explore opportunities to leverage your skills through freelancing or part-time work. Additional income from side gigs can significantly help in managing loan repayments.

Utilise Government Benefits: As a central government employee, explore any available benefits, allowances, or grants that might assist in your financial situation.

Investments and Savings
Start Small Investments: Begin with small, regular investments in safe, growth-oriented funds. Consult a Certified Financial Planner to select funds that align with your risk tolerance and financial goals.

Employer-Provided Benefits: Maximise contributions to government-provided savings schemes and benefits. These can provide tax advantages and enhance your financial security.

Reviewing and Adjusting Insurance
Insurance Policies
Evaluate Existing Policies: If you have LIC, ULIP, or investment-cum-insurance policies, consider their current value and benefits. These policies might not be the most efficient use of your funds.

Surrendering Underperforming Policies: If your policies are underperforming, you might consider surrendering them and redirecting those funds into more effective investments, such as mutual funds managed by certified professionals.

Adequate Coverage
Health Insurance: Ensure you have adequate health insurance coverage. Medical emergencies can drain savings and push you further into debt.

Life Insurance: Maintain sufficient life insurance to protect your family’s financial future in case of unforeseen events.

Planning for Children's Education
Education Fund
Separate Fund for Education: Create a separate education fund for your daughters. Even small, regular contributions can grow significantly over time.

Scholarships and Grants: Research scholarships, grants, and educational loans that can help fund your daughters' education without straining your finances.

Long-Term Education Planning
Invest in Education Plans: Consider education-specific investment plans. These can offer returns aligned with the timeframes of your daughters' educational needs.

Consult a CFP: A Certified Financial Planner can help tailor an education savings plan that suits your financial situation and goals.

Building a Sustainable Financial Plan
Setting Financial Goals
Short-Term Goals: Focus on immediate goals like reducing debt and creating an emergency fund. These are crucial for stabilising your financial situation.

Long-Term Goals: Set long-term goals for retirement, children's education, and eventual financial independence. A CFP can help you set realistic and achievable goals.

Monitoring and Reviewing
Regular Financial Check-Ups: Conduct regular reviews of your financial situation. Adjust your plans as needed to stay on track towards your goals.

Professional Guidance: Regular consultations with a Certified Financial Planner can provide ongoing support and adjustments to your financial strategy.

Final Insights
Improving your financial situation requires a multi-faceted approach. Prioritise paying off high-interest debts and consider refinancing options to reduce your EMI burden. Utilise your assets effectively, and explore additional income opportunities. Establish a disciplined budgeting and savings strategy to build financial stability.

Consider the future needs of your family, particularly your daughters' education, by creating dedicated funds and exploring scholarships. Regularly review your financial plan and adjust as necessary to stay on track. Engaging a Certified Financial Planner can provide personalised advice and support throughout your financial journey.

Your determination and willingness to improve your financial situation are commendable. By taking these steps, you can work towards a more stable and secure financial future for yourself and your family.
Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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Ramalingam Kalirajan  |8083 Answers  |Ask -

Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Feb 01, 2025

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Hi, I am 22 year old, lost all my savings and earning, I earn 33k/month, Have cronic disease of ULCERATIVE COLITIS IBD, IN 2021, I lost 40k in option trading then I stopped last year in 2023 I started working and lost 2.8 lakh including interest on loan, Took 2 High interest top up loan. I don't know what happened to me I took another loan of 228000 from HDFC which I lost in one day, now I have EMI of 19068 every month, no body in family know about this and my father earns only 18 k per month, losing 4.4 lakh total. Now lost and direction less.
Ans: You are going through a tough time. First, take a deep breath. Mistakes happen, and financial losses can be recovered. Your situation can be improved step by step. Below is a detailed plan to help you get back on track.

Understanding Your Financial Situation
You earn Rs 33,000 per month.

You have a total debt of Rs 4.4 lakh.

Your current EMI is Rs 19,068 per month.

Your father earns Rs 18,000 per month.

You lost money in options trading and high-interest loans.

You have ulcerative colitis, which requires medical attention.

Immediate Actions to Stop Further Damage
Completely stop all trading activities. Options trading is highly risky. You have already lost a large amount. Avoid any form of trading or gambling.

Do not take any more loans. Your current debt burden is already high. Additional loans will worsen your situation.

Reduce unnecessary expenses. Your priority is survival and debt repayment. Cut down on luxury, entertainment, and eating out.

Inform the bank about your situation. If you struggle with EMI payments, request a lower EMI or restructuring. Some banks offer relief options.

Avoid using credit cards. Credit card debt carries high interest. If you have outstanding dues, pay only the minimum amount for now.

Debt Management Strategy
List all loans with interest rates and tenures. Prioritize clearing high-interest loans first.

Consider a personal loan balance transfer. If you find a lower-interest option, transferring your loan can reduce your EMI burden.

Increase EMI payment when possible. Paying more than the minimum EMI will reduce your overall interest burden.

Try negotiating with lenders. Some banks may offer lower interest rates or waive penalties for good borrowers.

Building a Stable Financial Foundation
Create a monthly budget. Allocate funds for rent, food, medical expenses, EMI, and savings. Stick to it strictly.

Start a small emergency fund. Save at least Rs 5,000 per month in a separate account. Do not touch this money.

Look for additional income sources. Try freelance work, part-time jobs, or skill-based gigs to increase earnings.

Seek medical financial assistance. Check if your employer provides health insurance. If not, explore government or private schemes.

Emotional and Mental Health Support
Talk to a trusted friend or family member. Keeping everything inside can cause stress. Seek support from someone you trust.

Consult a financial counselor. A professional can help you restructure your debts and plan better.

Practice stress management techniques. Exercise, meditation, and proper sleep will help you stay mentally strong.

Long-Term Financial Recovery Plan
Avoid any high-risk investments. Focus on stable investments once you are financially stable.

Enhance your skills for better career growth. Upskilling can increase your income over time.

Build a long-term savings habit. Even Rs 1,000 per month in a safe investment will help you grow wealth.

Final Insights
Your financial problems are serious but not impossible to solve.

Your priority is debt repayment and stability, not investment or quick money-making methods.

Take control, follow a strict financial plan, and be patient. Improvement will take time, but you can recover.

Seek professional financial and medical advice where needed.

You are young, and you have time to rebuild. Stay strong and focused.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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