I'm married having 2 male kids my age is 28 my wife age is 22 .i would like to have 3 more kids (2 male kids and 1 female kid ).when can I plan for next baby ??pls advise me for 3 more babies .

Ans: Hello. It is true that with increased maternal age chances of birth defects in the child are higher, however, we now have very good methods of checking for these defects early on and taking preventive action one way or another. If both of you are desirous of another child, I would say it is quite safe to try in the next 2-3 years also. All the best!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
1. There is no age limit by which one must have babies but I will still suggest that you get a physical and physiological evaluation done for both you and your wife that will assess if it is wise and medically 'okay' to have a baby
2. Now comes the part of the gender of the child. How will you know that it's going to be a girl?
So, if this adventure is only to fulfil your desires of having a girl child, then you might be disappointed...Know what you want and let that want not be some sort of dream that has no meaning...
Go for the pregnancy only if you are both medically fit and also you are prepared to accept the child irrespective of the gender.

All the best!

Ans: To approach the conversation about wanting more children with your wife, start by understanding her perspective. Consider her physical and emotional well-being, her experience with the current family dynamics, and her views on expanding the family. Pregnancy and raising children are significant undertakings, and it’s important to recognize the impact on her.
It’s essential to listen to her response carefully and with an open mind. Understand that she may have concerns or reservations, such as the impact on her health, the family’s finances, or the time and energy required to raise more children. Address these concerns thoughtfully and discuss practical solutions together.

Consider discussing the potential benefits and challenges of having more children, focusing on aspects like the joy of a larger family, the sibling relationships, and how it aligns with your shared vision for the future. Make sure to talk about the practical aspects, such as financial stability and the support system you would need.

Remember that this is a joint decision. Your wife's comfort and enthusiasm about expanding the family are crucial. Be prepared for ongoing conversations and give her time to think and express her thoughts. It’s important to ensure that both of you are on the same page and are willing to move forward together.

Ultimately, the goal is to reach a decision that reflects both of your desires and respects each other's needs and well-being. This might involve compromise and patience, but approaching the conversation with empathy and openness will help you navigate it successfully.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It seems like a conversation you should have with your partner, especially given his current job status. Consider the finances and the life changes that would come with having another child. Both of you need to be committed to the idea and work together to sort out any possible problem.

Best Wishes.