Hello. I have a debt problem. I have a house loan emi of 54000 and top up loan emi 10000. Additionally my other debt is 20 lakh with total emi of 110000. I am unable to get debt consolidation loan due to liabilities. My monthly salary is 113000.
Please suggest.
Ans: You’ve taken the first right step by asking for help.
You are under a very high debt burden.
Your monthly salary is Rs. 1,13,000.
But your monthly EMIs total Rs. 1,10,000.
You are left with only Rs. 3,000 each month.
This is financially risky.
You are walking on a financial knife’s edge.
Now let’s look at this from a full 360-degree view.
Current Debt Assessment
Home loan EMI is Rs. 54,000.
Top-up loan EMI is Rs. 10,000.
Other loans total Rs. 20 lakh. EMI is Rs. 46,000.
Total EMI burden is Rs. 1,10,000 per month.
Salary is Rs. 1,13,000. Surplus is only Rs. 3,000.
Debt-to-income ratio is extremely high. Over 95%.
Your credit score may already be affected.
Debt consolidation loans are not available.
You are financially stuck. But not helpless.
Cash Flow Analysis
Your expenses are locked due to EMIs.
You are unable to save or invest anything.
Emergency fund is likely nil or very low.
Any job loss or health issue may push you into default.
Financial stress is silently growing each month.
You may feel emotionally drained. That’s understandable.
Let us now look at a practical and detailed solution.
Step 1: Create a Simple Household Budget
List your fixed and essential monthly expenses.
Cut all non-essential expenses like dining out, OTT, travel.
Stop all discretionary spends immediately.
Share your plan with your family. Seek their support.
Keep your basic needs within Rs. 15,000 if possible.
This can free some small cash flow.
Step 2: Review Your Loan Types
Home loan is secured. Try not to default on this.
Top-up loan may also be secured.
Other Rs. 20 lakh debt is likely personal loans or credit card dues.
These usually carry high interest. 18% to 36%.
You must focus on reducing these debts first.
Step 3: Approach Existing Lenders for Restructuring
Visit the banks or NBFCs of your personal loans.
Request loan tenure extension to reduce EMI.
Seek temporary moratorium or EMI pause, if allowed.
Convert credit card dues to EMI-based loans if not already done.
Explain your situation with documents.
Many lenders offer hardship relief plans.
Step 4: Consider Liquidating Idle Assets
Do you have any unused gold jewellery?
Gold can be pledged with banks for lower interest.
Use that to prepay high interest loans.
Avoid gold loans from NBFCs or pawnbrokers.
If you have any old fixed deposits, use them wisely.
But don’t break emergency funds below Rs. 50,000.
Step 5: Explore Support From Family
Speak to close family members for interest-free support.
Avoid embarrassment. Be honest and transparent.
Even Rs. 1 lakh from 2-3 members helps greatly.
Use that money to prepay high EMI loans first.
Make a clear written repayment plan for family loans.
Step 6: Prioritise Loan Repayments
Pay home loan and secured loans on time.
Delay or pay minimum for high-cost loans temporarily.
Focus on clearing smaller loans first.
Use the debt avalanche or snowball method.
Every cleared loan will reduce pressure quickly.
Step 7: Start a Monthly Expense Tracker
Write every expense daily in a diary.
This builds spending awareness.
Most people spend blindly and get into trouble.
Once you track, control becomes easier.
Use basic apps or paper diary – anything that works.
Step 8: Increase Income Streams
Consider part-time weekend freelancing or teaching.
Rent out a room or vehicle if possible.
Explore online micro tasks.
Any extra Rs. 5,000–10,000 per month helps a lot.
Ask your spouse if she can also support for a few months.
Step 9: Avoid New Loans or Balance Transfers
Do not apply for new loans now.
Every new loan reduces your credit score further.
Balance transfers look attractive but may have hidden costs.
Focus on repaying existing loans only.
Don’t fall for quick fix online ads for loans.
Step 10: Rebuild Your Financial Foundation Slowly
Once you clear 2-3 EMIs, keep Rs. 5,000 as monthly savings.
Build Rs. 1 lakh emergency fund over one year.
Then start SIPs in regular mutual funds through MFDs.
Avoid direct mutual funds now.
Direct plans have no advisor support.
Regular plans with MFD give guidance from a Certified Financial Planner.
That support is needed in your situation.
Step 11: Insurance Check and Risk Cover
Check if you have term life insurance of Rs. 50 lakh minimum.
If not, take one after 3–6 months once EMIs reduce.
Medical cover for family is also important.
Without it, one illness can wipe out all progress.
Step 12: Mental Well-being and Stress Management
Don’t suffer silently. Talk to trusted friends.
Join simple meditation or yoga.
Take daily walks. Keep yourself active.
These help your mind stay stable under pressure.
Debt is financial. But it can affect health too.
Step 13: Stay Disciplined for 24 Months
This is not a quick fix. It needs time.
Stay focused for 18 to 24 months.
Each repaid loan gives peace and hope.
Avoid any risky investment schemes.
Avoid crypto, trading, or chit funds.
Don’t mix insurance with investment.
Step 14: Build Habits for the Long Term
After stabilising debt, increase SIPs slowly.
Review finances every quarter.
Take support from a Certified Financial Planner yearly.
Track net worth growth yearly.
Keep liabilities low and assets strong.
Step 15: Talk to a Certified Financial Planner
A CFP can help you structure a realistic repayment plan.
They offer 360-degree financial planning, not product selling.
They also keep you accountable.
Make it a goal to be debt-free in 3 years.
Finally
You are facing a tough situation. But not a hopeless one.
Your courage to share shows strength.
You must act now. Delay will worsen things.
Avoid shortcuts and stick to the right steps.
Each month you move forward is progress.
And financial freedom will be yours, step by step.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment