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I am a regular reader of your blog and appreciate the same. I am 37 years old. I have an investment goal of Rs.50L when I reach 50 years. My monthly SIP is Rs. 22500. Please advise. My current portfolio is as under:

Scheme Type Invested SIP
Aditya Birla Sun Life Tax Relief 96 - Reg - G Tax 107,000 Stopped
HDFC Tax saver Tax 105,000 Stopped
Nippon India Tax Saver ELSS Tax 213,026 Stopped
Franklin India Tax Shield Tax 90,000 Stopped
Mirae Asset Tax Saver Fund G Tax 10,000 2,500
Canara Robeco Equity Tax Saver Tax 10,000 2,500
Quant Tax Plan Tax 10,000 2,500
Axis Bluechip fund Equity 40,498 5,000
Aditya Birla Sun Life Mfg Equity Fund Equity 156,000 2,000
HDFC Gold Trader Fund Growth - Direct Equity 30,000 2,000
Motilal Oswal NASDAQ 100 ETF ETF 17,000 1,000
Mirae Asset Emerging Bluechip Fund - Growth Equity 16,014 1,000
IIFL Focused Equity Fund - Growth Equity 14,000 1,000
Canara Robeco Emerging Eqities Equity 14,000 1,000
Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund Equity 3,000 1,000
ICICI Prudential Technology Fund - Growth Equity 14,000 1,000

Ans: Funds are good, however too many ELSS funds, it’s nice to see that you have stopped a few. 

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While menopause is a natural part of aging, how each woman navigates it varies. Her behavior may change as she adjusts to this new phase of life, especially if she feels supported and understood. Patience, compassion, and a willingness to adapt together will strengthen your relationship and help you navigate this challenge as a team.

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