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sumanta Question by sumanta on Sep 06, 2023Hindi
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Dear Sir I am a daily reader of your posts. You are requested to please give your valuable opinion as many times i sent you e-mail. Please find the details of my monthly SIP investment continuing since 2019. And I want to do long term investment. PARAG PARIKH FLEXI CAP FUND – GROWTH - 10000 SBI FOCUSED EQUITY FUND REGULAR GROWTH -10000 Mirae Asset Emerging Bluechip Fund - Regular Plan Growth Option- 10000 Canara Robeco Bluechip Equity Fund Regular Growth- 10000 Mirae Asset Large Cap Fund Growth Plan -10000 AXIS MIDCAP FUND – GROWTH- 10000 Any modification/changes required in terms of portfolio, please suggest. Below Tax Planning amounts want to withdraw, so where to park or save these same money please guide.. Present value is about double i.e 2lakh each MOTILAL OSWAL LONG TERM EQUITY FUND – GROWTH – 1lakh HDFC HYBRID EQUITY FUND - REGULAR PLAN – GROWTH- 1lakh Also, Suggest for a long term investment for baby girl child. Is it required separate investment of my wife (house wife) with the SIP . Regards Sumanta

Ans: As per your queries, we have given our recommendations below:

1. Overall, your investment portfolio is well-diversified and includes a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and flexi-cap funds and also the funds you have in your portfolio, they all are fundamentally good and have been stable performers in their categories which is a good approach for long-term investment. You can continue to invest in these funds without any changes suggested.

2. Now if we talk about the tax planning and if you are not going to choose the old regime of tax, then we would suggest you to park this amount in mix of some equity and more in hybrid funds as you have already taken the position in pure equity-oriented funds. Also,in current scenario, Motilal Oswal Long-Term equity Fund is not performing up to the mark.

3. For long-term investment for your baby girl child, you can start a SIP in a well - diversified portfolio including some large cap, mid cap, hybrid funds (which invest in a mix of equity and debt) and small cap funds also for long term wealth building considering the long term horizon.

Also you can invest in specially designed product in mutual fund for children like Children gift funds etc which come with the lock-in of 5 years.

Apart from this you can also go with some government promoted schemes like PPF or Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana etc.

4. Yes, you can have separate investments (through monthly SIPs, not with enlarged amount otherwise clubbing of income is applicable) in the name of your wife for tax planning purpose.
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Ans: Your portfolio consists of sectoral, small-cap, mid-cap, flexi-cap, and value funds. Here is a breakdown:

Lump Sum Investments:

SBI Energy Opportunities Fund – A sectoral fund focused on energy.
SBI Auto & HDFC Non-Cyclic Consumer Fund – Both are sectoral funds.
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Small-Cap: Edelweiss Small Cap Fund (Rs 3,000)
Mid-Cap: Kotak Emerging Equity Fund (Rs 4,000)
Flexi-Cap: NJ Flexi Cap Fund (Rs 3,000)
Multi-Cap: HDFC MultiCap Fund (Rs 1,500)
Value-Oriented: ICICI Prudential Value Discovery Fund (Rs 1,000)
Total SIP Amount: Rs 14,500, with plans to increase to Rs 30,000.

Observations on Your Portfolio
High Exposure to Sectoral Funds:

Three of your funds are sector-specific. These are riskier as they depend on one sector’s performance. Sectoral funds should not exceed 10% of your portfolio.
High Small & Mid-Cap Allocation:

Small-cap and mid-cap funds have high growth potential but are volatile. You need more stability through large-cap exposure.
Lack of Large-Cap Allocation:

Large-cap funds provide stability during market downturns. Your portfolio lacks a dedicated large-cap fund.
Underutilized Multi-Cap/Flexi-Cap Funds:

You have NJ Flexi Cap and HDFC MultiCap, but their allocation is low compared to small and mid-cap funds. These funds provide diversification and stability.
Value Fund Allocation is Low:

ICICI Prudential Value Discovery Fund is a good choice but has only Rs 1,000 SIP. Increasing its allocation will help in long-term wealth creation.
Recommended Changes in Portfolio
To improve your portfolio, make the following adjustments:

Reduce Sectoral Exposure
Exit SBI Energy Opportunities Fund and SBI Auto Fund.
Invest the redeemed amount in a diversified equity fund.
Increase Large-Cap Exposure
Start a SIP in a large-cap fund with Rs 5,000 monthly.
This will provide stability and reduce overall risk.
Increase Multi-Cap/Flexi-Cap Allocation
Increase allocation to HDFC MultiCap or add another multi-cap fund.
Optimize Small & Mid-Cap Exposure
Continue Kotak Emerging Equity Fund (mid-cap) and Edelweiss Small Cap Fund.
Avoid adding more small-cap funds.
Increase Value Fund Allocation
Increase SIP in ICICI Prudential Value Discovery Fund to Rs 3,000.
Suggested SIP Plan (Rs 30,000 per month)
Large-Cap Fund – Rs 5,000
Flexi-Cap Fund – Rs 5,000
Multi-Cap Fund – Rs 5,000
Mid-Cap Fund (Kotak Emerging Equity Fund) – Rs 4,000
Small-Cap Fund (Edelweiss Small Cap Fund) – Rs 3,000
Value-Oriented Fund (ICICI Prudential Value Discovery Fund) – Rs 3,000
Balanced Advantage Fund (Hybrid for stability) – Rs 3,000
Sectoral/Thematic Fund (only if desired) – Rs 2,000
Recommended SIP for Rs 2,000 (10 Years Investment Horizon)
Since you want to invest Rs 2,000 per month for 10 years, consider:

Multi-Cap or Flexi-Cap Fund: Offers diversification and stability.
Value Fund: Focuses on long-term wealth creation.
Final Insights
Your current portfolio is aggressive, with a heavy sectoral and small/mid-cap focus.
You need more large-cap and multi-cap exposure for stability.
Reduce sectoral funds and reallocate to diversified funds.
A well-balanced portfolio will help achieve your goals of child education and daughter’s marriage.
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Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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