Dear Sir, I am 38 yrs old. I wish to invest in the following mutual funds:

Monthly SIP all started this year in March,2022 for 10 years

1. Quant Tax Regular Growth - 5000

2. Quant Active Regular Growth- 5000

3. Quant Absolute Regular Growth- 5000

4. Icici Technology Regular Growth - 5000

5. Icici Value Fund Regular Growth- 2000

6. Sbi Focussed Equity Regular Growth- 5000

7. SBI SMALL CAP Regular growth - 5000

8. AXIS SMALL CAP - 5000

9. Kotak Emerging Bluechip Regular Growth- 5000

10. Mirae Asset Emerging Bluechip Regular Growth- 5000

Lump sum:

1. Quant Infrastructure Regular Growth-125000 (2022)

2. Sbi Multicap Regular Growth-125000(2022) 

3. Tata Digital Regular Growth -200000(2022)

4. Aditya Birla Regular Growth-70000(2022)

I wish to build a corpus of 3 crores in 10 years.

Kindly guide if investments are fine and kindly suggest If I should merge/discontinue some funds.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Your husband needs a lesson or two on how to be respectful within the marriage and especially towards his spouse.
Maybe just to counter his actions, the next time you are out, comment on other men that you see on how handsome they are. It may seem foolish but at times 'taste of one's own medicine' can do the trick.
Also, it is necessary to tell him how you feel...his bachelor days are behind him but if he brings that wild behavior into a marriage, he is drawing a wedge between the two of you and this he needs to know...so do tell him!

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Ans: Hello;

It depends on your age, risk appetite and time horizon.

If your age is 45 or less, have 10 yr+ time horizon and are ok with exposure to equities then any top quartile fund from Multicap or Flexicap type mutual fund category should be okay for your lumpsum investment.

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Ans: Hello B.
Saveetha is a brand name for CSE. You can prefer it without any hesitation. The placement recorded is also good. Related to other courses, please visit the college website for more details.
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Ans: Hello;

You may invest 25% each in a Multicap, Flexicap, Large & Midcap, and Large cap type mutual funds.

You may select any fund from the top quartile of these categories.

If you are 50 or above in age, replace multicap and large cap with balanced advantage and muti asset allocation type mutual funds.

Happy Investing;

Ans: Hello;

Long-term (10 yr+) mutual funds should be a combination of flexicap, multicap, large & midcap and large cap or ELSS type mutual fund.

You may select any fund from the top quartile of these categories.

Happy Investing;
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Ans: Hello Ssayantan.
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Ans: Hello Human
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Ans: Attracting someone, regardless of age, begins with authenticity and mutual respect. If an older man is interested in forming a connection with a younger woman, it’s important to focus on qualities that foster meaningful relationships. Younger women are often drawn to the stability, confidence, and life experience that an older man can bring to the table, but the key lies in presenting these qualities without pretense or arrogance.

Confidence rooted in self-awareness and emotional maturity can be particularly appealing. This doesn’t mean showing off achievements or wealth, but rather displaying a genuine sense of self and clarity about what you want in life. Emotional maturity—expressed through kindness, patience, and good communication—creates a safe and engaging space for meaningful interactions.

Equally important is the ability to connect on a deeper level. Shared interests, respect for her individuality, and a willingness to engage with her worldview go a long way. Relationships thrive when both individuals feel valued and heard. An older man should approach a younger woman with curiosity about her experiences and aspirations, while also offering his perspective in a way that enriches the connection rather than dominating it.

It’s also crucial to approach such a dynamic with an understanding of potential societal perceptions. While age-gap relationships are increasingly accepted, they often come with assumptions or judgments. The foundation of a strong relationship in this context lies in ensuring that the connection feels equal, mutually respectful, and free of power imbalances.

Finally, maintaining physical and emotional health contributes to overall attractiveness. When a man prioritizes his wellbeing, it not only enhances his confidence but also signals that he values himself and his relationships. Attraction in any relationship is multifaceted, involving both external qualities and the inner richness of character.

Ans: At this point, it’s essential to protect your emotional and mental health while addressing this issue. You might consider seeking support from someone you trust, such as a close friend or family member, to share this burden. Talking to someone who knows you and your situation can provide comfort and practical guidance.

If he continues to refuse, you may need to explore your legal options. Many countries have laws that protect individuals from having private photos or videos kept or shared without their consent. Taking this step might feel daunting, but it could give you a sense of empowerment and security. It’s not about revenge or escalation; it’s about protecting yourself and asserting your right to move forward without this hanging over you.

On an emotional level, remind yourself that you are not defined by this relationship or the choices you made while in it. You trusted someone who didn’t honor that trust, but this doesn’t diminish your value or strength. It’s natural to feel regret, but you deserve compassion from yourself as you work through this.

You’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to seek help—whether that’s legal advice, emotional support from loved ones, or even professional counseling to navigate the stress and anxiety this situation might be causing. The most important thing now is to take steps that protect your peace of mind and ensure your future isn’t weighed down by his actions.