Hi Iam 30 Years old and I am earning 1.2 Lakh monthly. I had personal loan of 40 Lakhs including three different loans and paying EMI of amount 85,747/-. I have no other savings for now and I had daughter of three years old. Please let me know how can I start savings from my daughter's future.
Ans: You are just 30. You have time on your side.
Also, your willingness to secure your daughter’s future is very good.
Now, let us analyse your current financial picture and plan step-by-step.
Understanding Your Current Situation
You earn Rs. 1.2 lakh every month.
Your total EMIs are Rs. 85,747 across 3 personal loans.
You have no savings yet.
You have a 3-year-old daughter.
Your disposable income is only about Rs. 34,000 per month.
This leaves very little room to build savings or invest.
But with a practical approach, you can slowly build wealth.
First, Address the Personal Loan Burden
Personal loan interest is very high.
EMIs are taking 71% of your salary. This is risky.
Start by checking if you can consolidate or restructure.
Try to combine your 3 loans into 1 loan with lower EMI.
Approach your bank or NBFC for consolidation options.
You can also speak to your employer about salary advance loans.
These have lesser interest than personal loans.
Pay off highest-interest loan first. This is the snowball method.
If not possible, at least avoid any more loans till current ones end.
Avoid credit card EMIs or BNPL schemes for now.
High EMI load is the biggest block to saving and investing now.
Reducing this is your first step to freedom.
Track All Monthly Expenses Closely
Begin a monthly budget today.
Write down every rupee spent.
Divide your spending into needs, wants, and unnecessary.
Needs are rent, groceries, fees, EMI, etc.
Wants are eating out, movies, new mobile etc.
Unnecessary expenses are impulse buys, unused subscriptions.
Cut all unnecessary and reduce wants strictly.
Fix a limit for cash withdrawals weekly. Stick to it.
This tracking alone will save Rs. 5,000 to Rs. 8,000 monthly.
This saved amount will be your first tool to build savings.
Create a Basic Emergency Fund
You must create an emergency fund even with EMI pressure.
Start with Rs. 1,000 to Rs. 2,000 per month.
Put this in a separate savings account.
Do not link it to your UPI apps.
Target is to build Rs. 60,000 in the next 2 years.
This covers small medical or urgent expenses.
It also avoids more borrowing in future.
Emergency fund is your first financial safety wall.
Start Insurance – Only Term and Health
Buy a pure term insurance of Rs. 1 crore now.
It will cost about Rs. 700 to Rs. 800 monthly.
This protects your daughter if anything happens to you.
Avoid ULIP, LIC, money-back, endowment policies.
They mix insurance with investment and give low returns.
Also take a health insurance of Rs. 5 lakh for your family.
If employer provides, ensure it's enough.
Buy a separate cover if needed.
Do not wait till age or health issues increase the cost.
Insurance is a protection tool. It is not for investment.
Begin Monthly Savings for Your Daughter
Your daughter is 3 now. You have 14–15 years to plan.
Education costs are rising sharply every year.
You must start small but consistent.
Begin with Rs. 2,000 to Rs. 3,000 monthly now.
This can go to mutual funds through SIP route.
Use child’s name as folio holder and yourself as guardian.
Choose a diversified equity mutual fund.
Avoid direct mutual funds for now.
Direct funds need full research and monitoring.
You may miss scheme changes, exit loads or other important updates.
A certified mutual fund distributor with CFP skills gives better guidance.
Regular funds give access to this guidance.
That support is helpful in your current busy and debt-heavy life.
Don't chase small savings in expense ratios now.
Stay focused on growing wealth safely.
This early SIP will grow well in long term with compounding.
Avoid Index Funds and ETFs
Index funds look low-cost but have limits.
They follow index blindly, even during market crashes.
No protection in falling market or poor sectors.
No scope for fund manager skills or sector shifts.
Many index stocks underperform but remain in fund due to weight.
ETFs need Demat account and market knowledge.
They need timing to buy and sell at right prices.
That makes them risky for beginners like you.
Actively managed funds offer better flexibility and safety.
You get fund manager expertise to handle volatility.
Over 10-15 years, they outperform index in many cases.
Especially for child’s goal, safety and returns both matter.
Stay with proven and guided funds. Not blind index following.
Slowly Increase SIP Amount Each Year
As you close one personal loan, use that EMI for SIP.
Increase SIP by Rs. 1,000 to Rs. 2,000 every 6 months.
Try to take it to Rs. 10,000 monthly in 3 years.
Use step-up SIP facility from AMC or advisor.
This will not feel like a burden.
But grows fund corpus significantly.
Your consistency is more powerful than amount in long term.
Avoid Gold for Investment Purposes
Digital or physical gold gives poor returns over long term.
They don’t beat inflation consistently.
They don’t generate any income like mutual funds.
Only use gold for family usage or gifting.
For your daughter’s future, growth assets like equity mutual funds are better.
Stick to productive and growth-oriented options.
Plan for Education and Marriage Separately
Do not mix both goals into one plan.
Education is a non-negotiable priority.
Marriage is flexible and can be simpler if needed.
Start one SIP for education goal only.
Plan for Rs. 30–50 lakhs needed in 15 years.
Later, if surplus builds, start a second SIP for marriage.
Don’t withdraw from education SIP for marriage.
Clear goal tagging brings better discipline and tracking.
Avoid Taking New Loans for Saving or Investing
Do not take gold loan or top-up loan to invest.
That adds interest burden and market risk.
Investment should be from surplus. Not from borrowed money.
Always live below your means.
Discipline builds wealth. Not risk or shortcuts.
Review Your Progress Every 6 Months
Keep checking if savings, insurance, debt and goals are aligned.
If income increases, adjust SIPs.
If expenses increase, try not to reduce SIP.
Talk to a certified financial planner for regular guidance.
Keep family involved. Especially spouse.
Together you can keep discipline strong.
Small consistent actions bring big results in long term.
Finally
You are young. You have time and energy.
You are focused on your daughter’s future. That is great.
But debt is your biggest challenge now.
Reduce EMIs over time. Avoid new loans.
Build emergency fund and insurance cover first.
Start SIP in regular mutual funds with support.
Avoid direct and index funds. They need research and timing.
Stay invested for 15 years. Don’t panic in market falls.
Each year review and step up your SIP.
This long-term plan will give your daughter financial freedom.
Stay patient and focused. Results will surely come.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment