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Child and Parenting Counsellor - Answered on Aug 24, 2023

Dr Aarti Bakshi is a psychologist licensed by the Rehabilitation Council of India.
A school counsellor, she has worked for 15 years with young adults.
She has two PhD degrees -- developmental psychology from Global Institute of Healthcare Management and clinical psychology from Singhania University.
She is on the CBSE panel for counsellors and special educators. She collaborates with SAAR Education to help children develop life skills.
She has authored SEL (social emotional learning) journals for Grades 1-8.... more
RASHESH Question by RASHESH on Aug 21, 2023Hindi
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HI I have the problem of recalling the things / work/assignment/names also. what should do to overcome this problem. As i am doing multitasking job. its is unable to recall. i am also 120 kg and diabetic i want to reduced the weight and focus on concentration in my job. pls help me

Ans: Dear Rashesh, keeping a priority to-do list, should be created. Check which activity takes precedence and do that in the order.
Create a whatsapp group with yourself, speak(leave a voice message) or write the important things and then accordingly do them so that you do not miss them.
Have a office buddy who reminds you of your tasks- it could even be a post-it on your desktop screen.
For weight concerns, kindly consult a nutritionist.
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