Hi My son age is 7yrs studing in 1st std.He is suffering from Pediatric Neurology under observation.Now a days he his don't use to focus in his studies always use to play and he his in different mood.He don't take seroiusly in his studies and always use to neglect.Please suggest what to do

Ans: Silence is a beautiful and powerful language. Communication is both by talking and by our body-language. Home is his familiar place where he knows everyone and can talk. But school he must be trying his best behaviour, working on academics and observing everything by being silent. A few suggestions:
1. Connect with a few mothers from his class, meet for fun play in the park, perhaps 2-hours with other children at home as aplay-date.
2. Make him join an activity class where his classmates are going so that he builds friendship and starts to talk.
Do write back, on the progress.

Ans: I understand that this situation is causing you a lot of distress. It's not uncommon for family members to be involved in a newlywed couple's life, but it's important to set healthy boundaries and communicate openly with each other about what is acceptable and what is not.

It's possible that your wife's sisters may not be aware of the impact of their behavior on your marriage, or they may not realize the boundaries they are crossing. Have you tried discussing your concerns with your wife and her sisters in a calm and respectful manner? It's important to express your feelings and set clear boundaries on how much interference you are comfortable with.

In addition, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with your wife about how her family's behavior is affecting your marriage. It may be helpful to seek the assistance of a professional counselor to facilitate this conversation and provide guidance on how to set boundaries and communicate effectively.

It's also important to remember that change takes time and patience. It's possible that your wife may need time to adjust and understand the impact of her family's behavior on your marriage. With open communication and a willingness to work together, you can find a way to navigate this challenging situation and build a stronger, healthier relationship.

Ans: I think you need to consult a psychiatrist .

Ans: Dear Nitin,
I don't find any details to work on and suggest much to you.
What makes your son not interested in studies? Why has he suddenly stopped going to school? Did anything unpleasant happen at school? Have you spoken to the school authorities? IS the environment at home not a happy one?
These questions need to be answered which become information to go towards any solution. Also, how is the connection between the mother and son (your wife and your son)?
For now, I guess you can take the help of an adolescent counselor who can help guide your son out of whatever he is going through. The expert will anyway ask these questions and then work from thereon...

All the best!
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