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Parthiban T R

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Career Counsellor - Answered on Aug 03, 2024

Parthiban TR, a former professor, has been working in the fields of training and learning development for over 17 years.
As a career counsellor and mentor, he has been tutoring students from Classes I to XII (predominantly CBSE), UG (engineering) and others for nearly a decade.
He has worked as a lecturer and professor at the Kuppam Engineering College, Kuppam; the NRI Group of Institutions in Bhopal; and the Bhopal Institute of Technology and Science in Bhopal.
Parthiban qualified for GATE in 2002, 2011 and 2013 and has been training aspirants to prepare for NEET-UG and IIT-JEE.
He holds a bachelor's degree in computer science and engineering from the Guru Ramdas Khalsa Institute of Technology College in Madhya Pradesh and a bachelor's degree in education, specialising in physics and mathematics, from the Sri Venkateswara University, Tirupati.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jul 31, 2024Hindi
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My son is studying in B tech computer science . But he is not serious about his study.He always read book relating to so called certian spiritual Guru and also book related to theology and Bhakti Vedanta . The result is backlog in B Tech. I am very much confused what to do. How he can change his habit to run after these things. Regards

Ans: Let it go on. It's his nature and he is going to do this forever.
At times just suggest that there is a practical life on the other side.
How you do it is your skill, if you can't meet RediffGurus (Mental Health category).
You can make him talk to me.
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