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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 11, 2024Hindi
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My parents want me to do MBA. I don't want to do MBA. I cannot focus and study I have been trying to focus since a long time. Every day my father asks me how is my preparation. It creates a lot of pressure on me. I am really trying hard but still dont feel like preparing for CAT and other exams. What to do should I take up a job? I am just lost somewhere

Ans: As you are not motivated, it would be difficult for you to crack CAT. Working would be a good option where you understand corporate culture and then can decide on your career options.
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Hi Sir, I'm 38 years old. Currently doing an SIP of 55000 in these funds in 2 separate portfolios (mine and wife's). My risk profile is moderate to high. I'm targeting to keep investing for next 9 years. Currently my mutual fund portfolio corpus is 24 lac. Target corpus is 1.75 Cr to 2 Cr in 2035. Is this achievable? Do I need any step-ups yearly? Portfolio 1: parag parikh flexicap - 12000 hdfc mid cap - 5500 mirae asset large & mid cap - 8000 sbi gold fund - 5000 sbi multi asset fund - 5500 Portfolio 2: invesco midcap - 5500 ICICI multi asset allocation - 2000 hdfc flexicap - 4500 icici pru nasdaq 100 - 6000 axis silver FOF - 1000 Please review and suggest any changes needed.
Ans: You have done very well to start early, invest regularly, and build a sizeable corpus of around Rs.24 lakh by age 38. Investing as a couple, keeping a long-term view, and accepting moderate-to-high risk clearly show discipline and maturity. This itself puts you ahead of many investors.

» Target Feasibility and Time Horizon
– A 9-year horizon is reasonably good for equity-oriented investing, especially when SIP amount is strong and discipline is visible.
– With a monthly SIP of around Rs.55,000 and an existing corpus already in place, the target range of Rs.1.75 Cr to Rs.2 Cr by 2035 is achievable, but it will not happen by default.
– Market returns will not be even every year. Some years will test patience. Staying invested matters more than timing.
– To improve certainty and reduce pressure in later years, annual step-up is strongly advisable.

» Need for SIP Step-Up
– Without increasing SIP, the gap between effort and target may widen, especially if markets give average returns.
– A yearly step-up of even 8% to 10% can make a big difference over 9 years.
– Step-up should ideally match salary growth, bonuses, or business income rise.
– This keeps lifestyle stable while wealth grows silently in the background.

» Portfolio Structure Assessment
– Overall, your asset mix shows good balance across growth-oriented equity, stability-oriented allocation, and some global exposure.
– Splitting investments between spouses is sensible for long-term planning and tax efficiency.
– Exposure to mid-sized companies adds growth, but it also adds volatility. Your risk profile supports this, but allocation must be controlled.
– Flexibility-oriented funds give stability during market cycles and help reduce sharp drawdowns.
– Multi-asset exposure helps in volatile phases, but too many similar allocations can reduce clarity.

» Observations on Equity Allocation
– There is overlap in categories across both portfolios, especially in flexi and mid-cap styles.
– Too many funds in similar categories do not always improve returns; they often dilute conviction.
– A slightly more streamlined structure can improve monitoring and discipline.
– Growth funds should remain the core, but risk concentration must be watched as the goal year approaches.

» Gold, Silver, and Overseas Exposure
– Limited allocation to precious metals is fine as a stabiliser, not as a return driver.
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– Overseas equity exposure adds diversification and currency hedge, but it should not dominate the portfolio.
– Periodic review is important as regulations and valuations change.

» What Changes Can Be Considered
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– Keep one clear growth-oriented core and one stability-oriented support structure.
– Gradually increase allocation to relatively stable equity styles after age 42–43 to protect accumulated corpus.
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– Annual SIP step-up is not optional; it is the key enabler for reaching the upper end of your target.
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– Staying invested with patience will matter more than reacting to short-term market noise.

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I applied for Jeevan Akshay plan, 75 yr old and gave Rs 10 lacs, for monthly payment (option a). What is amount to be paid by LIC
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– The policy can be cancelled only during the free-look period, if still applicable.

» 360-Degree View on Retirement Income
– Fixed pension gives mental comfort, but inflation slowly reduces its real value.
– Medical costs tend to rise sharply after 75, so adequate health insurance and liquid savings are equally important.
– Other family members should be aware that there is no death benefit under this option.

» Finally
– Expect a monthly pension of around Rs.6,200–6,500 from the Rs.10 lakh invested.
– The income is stable, predictable, and lifelong, but it does not grow.
– Review overall family cash flow and medical preparedness so this income supports, not restricts, your lifestyle.

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