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Workplace Expert - Answered on Mar 12, 2024

Krishna Kumar is the founder and CEO of GoMoTech, a company that provides strategic consulting in B2B sales, performance management and digital transformation.
Before branching out on his own, he worked with companies like Microsoft, Rediff, Flipkart and InMobi.
With over 25 years of experience under his belt, KK is a regular speaker at industry events and academic intuitions, both in India as well as abroad.
KK completed his MBA in marketing from the Sri Sathya Sai Institute of Higher Learning in Andhra Pradesh and his management development programme from XLRI, Jamshedpur.
He has also completed his LLB from Nagpur University and diploma in PR from Bhavan’s College of Management, Nagpur, where he was awarded a gold medal.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Mar 11, 2024Hindi
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Hello, I am 32 years old and a divorcee. I finished my education in the US and settled in Canada I moved to India for the sake of my divorce a marriage that lasted less than a month and I've been fighting it for over 2 years. All my life I wanted to become an actor, I tried through many sources and nothing worked out not even in the smallest way it is expected of me to get married again and go back to Canada of which I am extremely confused. I came across a friend who is making a film in 2025 and offered me a significant role and I am confused, I don't know what to do with my life, everything I planned for failed miserably. What should I do? Can I go into acting? How will I support my family I have parents. Please guide me.

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I am extremely sorry to hear about the pain that you are going through, I can feel what it must be to endure all this at such a young age.

While we all want to chase our dreams and passion but then we also need to appreciate our responsibilities. Would suggest you park your dream of becoming an actor for sometime.

Your parents would have had dreams for you and seeing you in pain it must be painful for them One way to assuage their pain is to settle yourself professionally I may sound harsh but let me help you with reality check. At this point trauma of divorce is enough for you...don't get into another one work front.

Rather once you work to keep you busy then you will feel less pain on account of divorce.

Be assured my friend Life will again shower you with sunshine of happiness and goodness.

With lots of love and prayers.
Asked on - Mar 12, 2024 | Answered on Mar 14, 2024
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Thank you so much for your kind and motivating words.
Ans: All the best.
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Hi Anu... Am 39 and single woman with no income. Not working. Dependent on family. Did my MBA . I don't know what's happening in my life. Donno what to decide and how. Where to start. When to start. What to start. Should I 1st start earning or get married. I lost all my life bcz of my negligence and family issues. Never had a happy n peaceful day in my life. Something or other will be in family n life. Am not strong enough to take bold decisions. And lead my life independently. I want my family to be happy. My mom and dad's is love marriage but they didn't have a best life so even we children never had happy moments. But mentally very much attached to family. Can't live without them. What should I do? Am interested in marriage but alliance have huge demands and now am aged. People think am not good looking so I didn't get any proposal. I don't believe in love eventually I never supported love marriage of my friends and cousins. Ofcourse they are having best life. Now I feel alone.. I want to earn my bread. I want a family. I want to be married and enjoy family life too... Please help...
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Life and it's highs and lows are what makes us, breaks us and then makes us back again.
It is okay to be confused BUT it is not okay to wander about without making a decision which only leads to believe that life is hard.
What are the things that you have been wandering about?
- Marriage or being in a relationship
- Becoming financially independent
- Putting your degree to good use
- Stepping beyond home and family to create a life

Now, you have begun to think of it and maybe it frustrates you that it's too late. But better now than never...
Push your boundaries and first do something that can give you a WIN. That will boost you to take on challenges in every area of your life that you have possibly been avoiding.
No life or nothing is created or built without challenges.

The key question for you is: Have I been avoiding failure which is the reason for me to wander and not make a few decisions that would have helped me?
Start somewhere and a WIN in an area that you have control over, is what I suggest you start at...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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