How can a 17-year-old girl overcome social media and YouTube addiction to focus on her 12th board exams?

Ans: Hello,
first of all, you need to calm down & settle down your negative thought process. At least you are clear & honest enough to admit your mistakes. That's the first step towards success.

Decide your goal & make a road map to achieve it. Follow it diligently & avoid distractions that come along the journey. If you are unable to control your negative thoughts seek professional counseling. All the best.

Ans: Dear Friend,

Think about your parents, relatives & friends who are very affectionate over you. NEVER think of committing Suicide Dear.

To avoid negative thinking and negative about you, please change your lifestyle and start doing yoga / meditation daily. Your mind will feel better and relaxed.

Also please stop thinking that if you do not join IITs / NITs, you won’t have future. Nothing like that. There are a lac of Students who have been successful both in India & Abroad, without joining IITs / NITs

Simple solutions for you to be successful in your career.

1) Prepare for your 12th Board and appear again with full concentration / focus. You will definitely score good marks.
2) Prepare for some entrance exams for getting admission into any good college (in & around UP). No need to prepare separately for each entrance exam for BTech. Syllabus will be more or less same.
3) Appear for 3-4 State entrance exams of UP / Delhi. Ignore JEE.
4) Shortlist 10 top colleges of UP / Delhi. Choose the most suitable one after you get confirmed admissions from 3-4 colleges.

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Ans: First thing is that you were curious towards sex and it is natural. No one can deny sex, because we are born out of sex. You feel guilty because you viewed pornography in a hidden way. Don't be ashamed for that. But certainly due to your addiction your career is damaged. Consider SEX in a natural way but don't allow sex or sex channel to dominate your will power. Set some goals and try to reach them. I am sure you will succeed. Best of luck. Professor

Ans: Hello, dear friend.
First of all, congratulations on scoring a fantastic 97% in 10th grade! Now, forget all your worries, problems, and what your parents and others are saying. Don't compare yourself to your friends who scored higher than you in 10th grade. If you are a hard worker, then there’s no need to worry; hard work always pays off. Your upcoming target is to crack NEET with a high score. Focus more on the syllabus for NEET, and aim to achieve what you feel you missed in 10th grade. You're not the only one who is a phone addict; many others are more addicted to their phones. Schedule your time to use your phone for a limited period to help overcome the addiction. It’s always better to share your feelings with your parents if they understand you well and create a comfortable dialogue between you and them. There’s no need to feel disappointed at this early stage. 10th grade is not the end of life. Many people who failed in 10th grade went on to build their empires. Be courageous and give your best to the upcoming NEET examination. Set a target of 700+ and prove that HUM BHI KISISE SAM NAHI. Best of luck for your bright future!
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