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Sushil Sukhwani is the founding director of the overseas education consultant firm, Edwise International. He has 31 years of experience in counselling students who have opted to study abroad in various countries, including the UK, USA, Canada and Australia. He is part of the board of directors at the American International Recruitment Council and an honorary committee member of the Australian Alumni Association. Sukhwani is an MBA graduate from Bond University, Australia. ... more
Husna Question by Husna on Jan 17, 2024Hindi
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My son has graduated chemical engineering in 2023 and working in yokogawa from 4month but he is not interested in that job as its not highly technical,he is a bright student has done two internships during graduation itself and published review paper in European journal also, he is more passionate to do his master's in US in Purdue in chemical with data science but we are worried to take huge loans as we r middle class what if he didn't get jobs after masters in USA and in India there is only low paying jobs, kindly guide us

Ans: Hello Husna. To begin with, thank you for contacting us.
Coming to the question, it is understandable that you have certain concerns regarding your son’s education in the USA. Given the potential burden regarding finances, here are some factors that you can consider.
1. Encourage your son to explore various funding options in the USA. This includes researching about various scholarships, finance assistance, tuition-fee waivers and stipend for research or teaching assistance.
2. Universities offer career services for its students. This could be an advantage for your son for better job prospects and connecting with potential employers.
3. Consider Return on Investment (ROI) by pursuing a master’s degree in Chemical Engineering from Purdue University. Consider job prospects, annual gross salary, demand in the market, etc.
4. A master’s degree is considered one option, your son can consider alternative academic paths like certifications or diploma.

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Dear LG, Please keep this anonymous. I have been married since 6 years. However, since past 5+ years we have not been intimate. We haave a 5&1/2 year kid. Since his birth we have had a lot of differences and his family interference was lot leaving me alone and wounded. I don't stay with my husband and in-laws since then. I had made up that work is worship. But 2 years back I met a colleague. He is 10 years younger to me and we have extremely similar vibes. We enjoy each other's company and cared a lot. Eventually i fell in love with him. But he always knew he wont be able to go against his family. We also had relationship. Now he has strated looking for girls and wants us to stop being intimate. He is saying he wants to be friends and not loose me but not have relationship. We both work together in same space and our area of work is also same. I am unable to forgive my husband and forget this person. He never goes away. He is always there telling that I want to see you happy. He needs me for professional development. And i am not able to loose our relationship. He says physical intimacy only I cant have remaining Im there. Then again says I don’t know when I will be there so I am unable to give assurance or promise. I am tormented with a child, work and my health is getting affected. Can you please help?
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I am sorry that you are in such a tough spot. My advice would be to move on. Yes, I realize that it is easier said than done but let's put things into perspective- first, you have no future with this man, and he has made it clear. Are you okay to keep hanging on to him while he builds his own life? I am assuming no, especially since you have a child. Second, what about your self-respect? He is directly telling you that this relationship is headed toward a dead end. Do you believe you deserve to be with someone who does not want to settle down with you? I believe you deserve better.

I am not blaming him because he made no promises. You are not to be held guilty either because you were in a tough spot and you grabbed the first emotional support you found. But the current reality is that he wants out. And convincing him to stay is not an option. At this point, moving on with your head held high is the best decision. If you want to accept his friendship, that is completely fine. But if that's too much for you, you can always decline it. I understand that working in the same space with an ex is difficult, but as long as you avoid interacting outside of the office and keep things professional, there should not be an issue. On the emotional front, I won't lie, it will hurt for a while. But this too shall pass. I strongly recommend you not to value yourself so low that you stop believing that you deserve a person who loves you back as much as you love him.

Best Wishes.

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