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I did B. Tech in Civil Engineering in 2012 and M. Tech in Earthquake Engineering from IIT Roorkee in 2015. Due to some personal problems, I qualified and joined Government Polytechnic college in Uttar Pradesh, which is considered equivalent to intermediate, as Lecturer. This work experience did not benefit me at all whenever I applied for any sort of job, be it in central government or any private sector. It has been 8 years since, I am trying to qualify other reputed Government Examinations but couldn't. I am married, age 33 and have a child. Could you kindly suggest now what should I do to change my career from this?

Ans: My suggestion is to be optimistic about future and keep looking for opportunities that will help you chart a new course in your career. Look for emerging areas where your knowledge gained in Masters of Earthquake Engineering can be used. Connect with large engineering and infrastructure companies and consulting firms and explore areas where you could add value.
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You will be distracted and keep trying new things until you actually figure out what you want for yourself in life.
- How does you life seem like a few years down the line?
- What must you do NOW to actually get to where you want in life?

And to answer these questions, you first need to identify a strong, solid goal in life. Either you work with a mentor or your boss or a friend or an expert who can help you identify your goal and purpose. That might help you stay the course and actually streamline your thoughts, your job and your daily life.
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