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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 19, 2024Hindi
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Hi Madam My daughter is in class IV in KV central school in Delhi. I wish to understand, if KV being bilingual in medium of instruction and when compared with other Pvt school passed out at time of school completion, is there likely hood of her being lagging behind in terms of personality and confidence in terms of language fluency and overall personality when compete for jobs in good corporates and for her overall career growth due to less exposure. Further, what more can I do for her confidence building now and in near future. Further, do you feel that school change or any other solution necessary for same. Pls help.

Ans: Hi!!

I feel that KVs have the best curriculum in terms of overall development of a child. But I really don't know how good this school is, you and your daughter are the best judge for this.
You can take a call whether to put her in a private school based on your goals in life and your budget.
Invest in a school which is invested in your child. School going kids will surely be influenced by the kind of environment they grow and the kind of company they keep. I believe that the confidence in young children comes from their parents.
You be confident about your decisions, she'll grow up being a confident girl. If you are under confident somewhere then see what you can do to raise your confidence, she'll learn to do it too.
You can get a coach to coach her on confidence building and grooming once she is a little older. For now be a confident parent and coach her, she is watching you. You feel you must change the school , then change it...make informed choices, and see how your daughter will bloom where ever she is!!
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Suppose you sell your house and clear your loans and other liabilities but where will you & your family stay?

How much rental per month would be required to get an adequate house on rent?

Please clarify. Based on your input we can advise you suitably.

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