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Soft Skills Trainer - Answered on Apr 04, 2024

Maxim Emmanuel is the marketing director of Maxwill Zeus Expositions.
An alumnus of the Xavier Institute of Management and Research, Mumbai, Maxim has over 30 years of experience in training young professionals and corporate organisations on how to improve soft skills and build interpersonal relationships through effective communication.
He also works with students and job aspirants offering career guidance, preparing them for job interviews and group discussions and teaching them how to make effective presentations.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Mar 10, 2024Hindi
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Hi, I am a 42 year old professional employed with a MNC in a mid-management role. I work closely with the senior leadership, however, am unable to think strategically and create my own brand. Whilst things are good for now, I fear the future, essentially, when crossing mid 40’s into late and early 50’s. I feel a bit left behind when engaging with senior folks, a lot of them think ahead, something I struggle with. What advice can you offer me, please. I am in the field of consulting. Thank you in advance.

Ans: Did you cry for shoes until you saw someone with no legs at all...!?

Aspirations are fine but pushing yourself against pseudo competition is not the way forward.,especially needed in the field of consulting

It just may cause a physical and mental burnout
Seniority comes with experience and expertise, built over the years.
Compare with the comparable...Thing's as you say are good as of now what makes you think you will flounder later..

I see you need to upscale your communication and self motivation,Collaboration,Tenacity,Commercial awareness,Organisational,Critical thinking,Analytical,The ability to listen and persuade,Teamworking skills,Enthusiasm,Attention to detail,Problem-solving,Adaptability..are are the key skills you need to upscale and develop!
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