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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 12, 2023Hindi
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Why is it wrong for man to marry man, or woman to marry woman. Does law really say they can't? That is bad, isn't it

Ans: In many places around the world, same-sex marriage is now legal, while in others, it is not. The reasons for this vary depending on cultural, social, and religious beliefs. Some people argue that marriage is a sacred institution meant to be between a man and a woman, while others believe that all people should have the right to marry whoever they love, regardless of gender.

However, it is important to note that discrimination against individuals based on their sexual orientation is illegal in many countries. Denying someone the right to marry based solely on their sexual orientation is often seen as a violation of their human rights. Many people believe that everyone should have the same legal rights and protections, regardless of their sexual orientation.

Ultimately, whether or not it is "bad" for two people of the same sex to marry is a matter of personal opinion. However, what is important is that people are treated with dignity and respect, and that everyone has equal access to legal protections and rights under the law.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Sep 28, 2023

Asked by Anonymous - Sep 25, 2023Hindi
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Is it ok to have sex before marriage? Some people say it's ok because in this generation having casual relationship is cool . But if we follow our religious aspect then this thing will be wrong and if we look in to our history then we see that earlier it was not in our culture but due to social media and Entertainment sources we slowly adapting the foreign culture, like this casual relationship or friends with benefits , all this has come from other countries . And my second question is that what is casual relationship and what is serious relationship ?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Right or wrong is simply the way you look at the world. What is the lens that you wear to see the world?
That will define 'your right and your wrong'. Honestly, there is no right or wrong as it's all perception (the way your beliefs rule your thoughts will lead you to believe in right and wrong.)

Society has labeled something as wrong and generations down the line, it has been followed...whether anyone likes it or not simply because of the fear of being condemned. So, that's where sex before marriage falls under. Of course, it was also pushed down as way of controlling cross-mixing of genetic pools perhaps and maybe also to control the population and give children a stable home. Else, it would have been a free for all society which does have it's negative impact.
So, I am sure you know what it is for you and you don't require anyone telling you what you must do or not. Use your mind to do the thing that is right by you and others as well. Sometimes, it may align with the rule makers and sometimes it may go against and that's where every new generation comes in to challenge old thoughts. But be wary of recklessness and impulsive acts...they lead to quite a lot of confusion and aftermath.

Casual by the very word, can mean temporary or fluid with possibly no strings attached and serious is serious maybe leading to a commitment of some nature in a relationship.

All the best!

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 04, 2024

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thank you for the reply madam, actually what's bothering me a lot is , i told to my alliance guy to stop marriage from his end only. but he not at all doing that and he is not even telling anyone that i told him No. Why he is behaving like this and proceeding to get married to me even after saying no? isn't this strange!
Ans: in many arranged situations, people sometimes feel a strong pressure to fulfill family expectations, and he may feel a sense of obligation to go through with the marriage regardless of personal feelings. He might be hesitant to be the one to break things off for fear of disappointing his family or even creating tension between the families involved. In some cases, individuals hesitate because they hope the other person might eventually change their mind, and they don’t want to be the one to let go prematurely.

Another possibility is that he could be uncertain or confused about what he truly wants. Even though you told him you weren’t interested, he might feel that it’s not a firm "no" and could be holding out hope or misinterpreting your intent. If he has strong feelings for you or sees the marriage as something that will eventually work, he may be hoping things will naturally fall into place if he just stays committed to the process.

To address this, it might be helpful to have a very clear, direct conversation with him. Let him know that you respect him and appreciate his consideration, but you’re certain about your decision and want him to honor it as well. If possible, express that you’re confident this decision is best for both of you and explain why you believe it would be more respectful for him to communicate this with both families.

In the end, staying true to your feelings is the right choice, even if it means repeatedly setting boundaries. It’s completely fair to expect him to respect your decision, and sometimes it does take a bit of firmness to ensure everyone is on the same page. Trust yourself in this decision; you know what’s best for you.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 07, 2025Hindi
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Sir my daughter has got admission in Bharati Vidyapeeth deemed University Pune Btech CS and also she is getting admission in marathwada mitra mandal college of engineering Pune for mechanical and electrical branches. Also there is a high probability to get admission in G H Raisoni college of engineering, Wagholi, Pune for CSE AI AND ML, CSE CYBERSECURITY, CSE DATA SCIENCE and CSE AI through MHT CET where she being a girl student we don't have to pay tution fees and in BVDU where she has secured admission for CS we have to pay 2.5lacs every year . Kindly let me know which is the better option.
Ans: Bharati Vidyapeeth Deemed University’s B.Tech Computer Science program is A+ NAAC- and NBA-accredited, delivered by PhD-qualified faculty in AI/ML, software systems and networks labs, and backed by industry MoUs and an active innovation council; however, its ?2.5 LPA tuition presents a significant financial outlay. Marathwada Mitra Mandal College of Engineering offers NBA-accredited Mechanical and Electrical streams with well-equipped CAD/CAM, thermal and power labs, PhD-faculty mentorship, skill-development programs and a strong 75+ recruiter network for an overall ?4.84 L total fee. G H Raisoni College of Engineering, Wagholi provides A+ NAAC- and NBA-aligned CSE specializations in AI & ML, Cybersecurity, Data Science and core CSE, with modern AI/ML, cybersecurity and data-analytics labs, mandatory internships and an 80–90% placement consistency—offering entirely tuition-waived seats for female MHT-CET qualifiers.

For zero tuition fees, specialized CSE tracks and robust internship-to-placement pipelines, recommendation is G H Raisoni College of Engineering Pune (CSE AI & ML). Next, recommendation is Bharati Vidyapeeth Deemed University Pune (B.Tech CS) for its premier accreditation and research ecosystem, and lastly Marathwada Mitra Mandal’s College of Engineering Pune (Mechanical/Electrical) for versatile engineering foundations and affordable fees. All the BEST for Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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My daughter want to bs I science, she qualify cuet exam 96 percentile in science group(math physics chemistry) , any chance for DU or ASU and which university is better for BS program in science. Please enlighten me.
Ans: Sanjib Sir, With a 96th percentile in CUET Science, admission to Delhi University’s B.Sc. (Hons.) mid-tier programmes—such as Zoology, Botany or Life Sciences at Hansraj, Miranda House and Ramjas—is well within reach, as these colleges typically close around the 92nd–97th percentile. University of Delhi’s offerings span 19 honours and 10 programme specializations, delivered by tenured faculty in well-equipped teaching and research labs and supported by semester-wise project work and interdisciplinary electives. Ashoka University’s four-year B.Sc. emphasizes liberal-arts integration, nine foundation courses, pure and interdisciplinary majors, high-end research facilities and mandatory capstone theses under PhD-qualified mentors, complemented by global partnerships and the Ashoka Scholars Programme for postgraduate research immersion. Both institutions hold NAAC accreditation and offer robust career-development services and internship placements in premier research and industry centers.

For a holistic research-driven science education with intensive faculty mentorship and global academic pathways, the recommendation is Ashoka University B.Sc. If diverse specializations, large peer networks and established undergraduate curricula appeal more, choose Delhi University B.Sc. All the BEST for Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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