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Abhishek Question by Abhishek on Feb 22, 2023Hindi
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Me and my wifes sex desires are very different. She didnt even agree for 6 times a month. We are 43 and 41 years. We even have fight due to this Is it normal. Will the difference increase with age.

Ans: Dear Abhishek,
What number game are you playing? And why does she have to agree for 6 times a month? How did you arrive at that magic number?
Jokes aside; the less you focus on sex, the more it naturally might have a chance to happen. Sex frequency and quality changes with age and phases of life; the sooner you understand this, the more you will enjoy the times you actually get intimate.
- Spend a lot of quality time together
- Bring back the spice by becoming friends all over again
- Go on dates and have fun at social circles
To expect the same duration and frequency of sex maybe unrealistic; why not instead focus enjoying your time together, living the moment fully? That in itself will let you de-stress you way into the spicy moments.

Best wishes!

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Sir , I am working man ( Age- 52 ) , I invested in MF , LIC , NPS , ULIP , FD , TermPlan etc .. all total the market value cost of invested fund is almost Rs. 50 lakhs.. Now my query is that do I withdraw all the money ( i.e. 50 lakhs) and invested in FD for 10 years to get monthly income ? pls guide me .. I am confused ...
Ans: It's understandable to feel confused when considering significant financial decisions like withdrawing and investing a substantial amount of money. Let's weigh the pros and cons of withdrawing your investments and putting the funds into fixed deposits (FDs) for generating monthly income:
Pros of Investing in FDs:
1. Stable Income: FDs provide a fixed interest rate, ensuring a predictable monthly income stream, which can be beneficial for meeting regular expenses.
2. Capital Preservation: Your principal amount invested in FDs is generally considered safe and protected, offering stability and security.
3. Ease of Management: FDs are relatively straightforward investment instruments, requiring minimal monitoring and management.
Cons of Investing in FDs:
1. Limited Returns: FDs typically offer lower returns compared to equity-linked investments like mutual funds, which may not be sufficient to keep pace with inflation over the long term.
2. Lack of Flexibility: Once you invest in FDs for a specific term, withdrawing funds before maturity may attract penalties or lower interest rates, limiting liquidity.
3. Inflation Risk: FD returns may not always keep up with the rising cost of living, potentially eroding the purchasing power of your income over time.
Considerations:
1. Risk Tolerance: Assess your risk tolerance and financial goals to determine if the conservative approach of FDs aligns with your needs. At age 52, preserving capital and generating steady income may be a priority.
2. Diversification: Review your overall investment portfolio and ensure it is well-diversified across asset classes to manage risk effectively. Consider maintaining exposure to growth-oriented investments like mutual funds for long-term wealth creation.
3. Financial Planning: Consult with a Certified Financial Planner to create a comprehensive financial plan tailored to your goals, risk profile, and income needs. They can provide personalized guidance and help you make informed decisions.
In conclusion, while FDs offer stability and regular income, they may not be the most efficient option for long-term wealth accumulation. It's essential to balance safety, liquidity, and returns based on your financial situation and objectives.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

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