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Ravi Mittal |416 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Apr 17, 2023

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Question by A on Apr 13, 2023Hindi

Relationship

Why it is so that all dating websites have fake profiles or crooks are available instead of genuine common people who can interact and do friendship. OR how can we identify the fake profiles etc.? or is there any genuine dating site with profiles duly verified? Pl. advice.

Ans: Dear A,

It is true that a small portion of deviants make it through the air-tight security that most dating apps provide, but it wouldn't be right to say that there are no genuine people who are interested in interacting or being friends. In fact, a large majority of our users are in the app seeking friendship.

Here and there, you might find some spammy profiles that got through, despite a dating app’s best efforts. Report any suspicious profile as soon as you recognize them as fake users; I assure you that most dating apps take prompt action after checking the genuinity of the report.

Here are some ways to identify a fake profile:

• While some people do not put up their own pictures due to privacy issues, there will be at least a picture of an animal, some random scenery, or wallpapers. But a profile that has a blank space for a display image is more likely a fake one.
• Beware of suspicious first messages with a user directly sharing their number.
• Let's say, you have been talking to someone. If you notice inconsistencies in their stories, it might be a fake profile. Even if they aren't one, it's best not to be in contact with people starting a relationship with lies.
• Financial talks- discussing money or asking for money- during the chatting phase is a big red flag.

Hope this helps.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 26, 2023Hindi

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How to stay away from scammers on dating apps? There are so many men posing as women with beautiful pictures on their profile. It is tempting but also misleading. Is there any way to track or identify if someone is pranking or fooling with you? Pls help

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I understand your concerns with catfishing but let me assure you that dating apps work tirelessly to keep their platform clear of miscreants that pose as someone they are not. But even with airtight security, some scammers might make it through to the apps. Here is where user awareness comes in. Treading with caution and having your wits about you can help in such situations.

Here are some ways to identify a scammer-

• No bio. Genuine users always have a bio.
• No photo. Most users will upload two or more pictures for better chances.
• During the chatting phase, if you see your match, especially females, being too eager to share their number, it's most likely a scammer. Women usually are not keen to share personal details during the initial phase.
• Trying to steer conversations toward finances is also a red flag.

Most importantly, trust your instinct. If something feels off, unmatch. If you see suspicious activities, please report the profile. Most dating apps take reports seriously.

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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Nov 24, 2023

Asked by Anonymous - Oct 03, 2023Hindi

Relationship

I am in my 40s and trying to find love online. I notice that a lot of people online are not serious about relationships. How do I filter through profiles and find genuine ones? I am not looking for one night stands. Matrimony apps are usually monitored by parents. How do I filter these challenges and find someone I can spend my life with?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I understand that dating in your 40s can be challenging given that you are ready to settle and most people you meet are still exploring their options before finally settling down. With a strategic approach, you can increase the chances of finding genuine connections.

1) Craft a thoughtful and detailed profile that reflects your values and relationship goals. Make sure to mention what you want and what you have to offer in the BIO to attract people whose preference aligns with yours.
2) While browsing through profiles, pay attention to the content of their bios. You can learn a lot about people from it.
3) Once you find a match, make sure to be clear with your intention to steer away anyone looking for a casual relationship.
4) Choose your dating app carefully. There are apps that cater to daters looking for casual flings and then there are apps that are mostly for serious daters.

Also, remember that patience is key; finding a life partner takes time. You can be selective but not so much that you restrict yourself from having a good time while finding a life partner. Dating should not feel like a business deal; if it does, you are doing it wrong.

Best Wishes!

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 14, 2024Hindi

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Hi Sir, I'm 43+, My Monthly take home is around 3.40 Lacs, Currently i have invested in Shares (Current Portfolio is around 1.40 Crs). EMI is around 1.2 lacs P/m (Home loan 1 - 50K per month till 2037, 30K car loan till 2027 (Planning to close this year by paying 13 lacs, please suggest if this option of preclosure is good or EMI is good, will be paying this amount by selling some shares), 30k per month of home 2 till 2040., Last year i have started investing in SIP 1 lacs P/M, and balance 1.20 lacs goes in house, kids education expense. Have EPF balance of 40 lacs as on date. As mentioned above recently i have started investing in SIP (From Oct 2023 onwards), which is at the tune of 1 lacs per month. SIP are Franklin India Prima Fund regular Plan - Growth - 25K, ICICI Prudential Small cap fund retail plan G - 25K, Kotak Multicap fund regular plan growth - 15K, DSP Blackrock mid cap fund regular plan growth - 10 K, and Parag Parikh Flexi Cap fund - Regular plan growth - 25 K. Will increase the SIP investment by 10% every year going forward. Sir, My question is with current SIP and shares investment will i be able to generate 10~12 Cr corpus fund by retirement (Assuming that i will be in Job and working for next 15 years). Current Share portfolio is for long term investment only (assuming i get 12~15% of return every year). Please note : will be spending around 60~70 Lacs for my Son education in engineering from 2027 to 2031, 50% will be spend from savings and balance 50% from education loan. Current value of house 1 - 1.35 Cr (EMI is 50K), House 2 Current Value is 82 Lacs (EMI is 30K).

Ans: Hello;

Kudos for holding judicious blend of assets in equity(stocks and MFs), real estate, EPF.

Your thought process is absolutely spot on. You should prepay the car loan through shares corpus and close the EMI.

If you maintain monthly sip of 1 L with yearly top-up of 10% for 15 years then you may accumulate a corpus of around 8.68 Cr.

Stock holding of 1.27 Cr(13 L considered to be deducted for car loan prepayment) is expected to grow into a sum of 5.31 Cr in 15 years.

EPF balance of 40 L will grow into a corpus of 1.27 Cr over 15 years. Fresh contributions, if any, will be bonus.

So cumulatively your total corpus at the end of 15 years from now will be 8.68+5.31+1.27=15.26 Cr.

Due to your sound financial planning you may not need education loan for son's education.

Modest return of 12%, 10% and 8% are considered from mutual funds, direct stocks and EPF respectively.

Happy Investing;

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Doctor, could you kindly recommend specific brands of toothpaste suitable for children of different age groups? I’m particularly interested in knowing which brands would best support their dental health at various stages of development, considering factors like fluoride content, flavor, and overall safety. Could you provide guidance on which options are most effective for toddlers, young children, and older kids?

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Hello everyone, I have done my graduation this year in B.SC BOTANY ...from previous 3 yrs. I have been giving NEET UG exam but couldn't crack it (this yr. I have scored 560 marks with 2lac rank)... currently I have mood swings and not able to focus in study. Sometime I am very agressive and thought of giving up and sometime I am very motivated...what are other career option I may opt and later earn a descent amount (1 lac-1.5lac). Also I am 22 yr old ..if I crack neet in 2025 ...should it be worth it studying mbbs for next 5 yr (approx.)...means ...is it too late

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Respeted sir, I am a post graduate in computer science, aged 42 yrs,married trying to get a job preferably in IT as i have working experience of about 5 years.i had discontinued my job due to compelling family situations to take care of children. I am not getting any favorable response from any IT companies due to break iny carrer. Now i desperately need a job and still the hunt is going on. Kindly suggest and guide me to get a job as i am struggling to meet my commitments now. Your valuable help in this regard will be highly helpful. Thank you

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Mene pahle 12bio se ki hai me jee exam de sakta hu

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