Overcoming Relationship Doubts: Seeking Advice as a Young Adult

I am 48 years old woman and married for 11 yrs with a son of 9 yrs . my husband changed his gender 5 yrs ago without my and family consent but discloses it only 3 yrs back. i moved from my inlaws place with my son. none of us filed divorce.what should i do.what should be the terms and conditions if i file divorce. and how should i deal with my son..is this will have an impact on him.please advice

Hello, My current age is 42. Our combined post tax salary is around 6.25 lakhs. We have around 50L in mutual funds, 80L in direct stocks, 14L in gold, 30L in NPS, 31L in PPF, 21L in SSY and 2.5cr in real estate. Our current household expenses are around 1.5L per month and we are contributing 1L/month to NPS, 2L/month to SIP, 20K/month to direct stocks,1.5L/yr to PPF, I.5L/yr to SSY. We have an EMI of 50000/month for next 5 years .Our kids are 12 years and 10 years. We want a corpus of 4 cr for their higher education and of 1cr for their marriage. We are living in a company provided accommodation and plan to live in it till requirement.We want a 4L monthly pension and don't have a home right now. If we are planning to retire at 55, how should we manage our finances?

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Hi all, Im 35, married and 4yr kid, and hav just started my investment journey in 2024 and i would like to invest to acquire corpus of 5CR

I am 48 yrs working women and want to invest in SIP.Can you guide me where n how much should i invest.I can spare 10000 p.m in th nameof my minor son age 9 yrs.

Hi Jinal ji, I am 41 years old and want to calculate my retirement corpus. My monthly expenditure is 50K per month and I plan to retire at an age of 55 years. The life expectancy in my family is about 80 years. Pls help me calculate my retirement corpus. It will be kind of you to provide the calculations so that I can try out various possible scenarios by myself. Thanks in advance.

Hi Vivek ji, I am 41 years old and want to calculate my retirement corpus. My monthly expenditure is 50K per month and I plan to retire at an age of 55 years. The life expectancy in my family is about 80 years. Pls help me calculate my retirement corpus. It will be kind of you to provide the calculations so that I can try out various possible scenarios by myself. Thanks in advance.

Hello.. I am 44 years old and been happily married for 15 years with 14 years old son. My wife left home alone after some misunderstanding and the she left kid with me and after 02 month she sent me a divorce notice on the ground of drinking and smoking. kindly advice me what should i do

Hi, I am not yet mairred. I used to like a man and after a month we decided to get married. He was of my caste so I thought my parents won't deny this mairrage. I used to talk to and wanted to let him know everything about my past so that we can built a strong root of our relationship. I spoke every detail of my past life to him. Then before he proposed me for mairrage I went for a vacation with my male friend to dehradun. I didn't tell him that day as he didn't proposed me till that day then why would I tell everything about me to anyone. He was noone to me at that time. After that he came to visit me in Delhi and on the same when he was on train a friend of mine along with his fiance came to meet me after a very long time. I asked him and he didn't denied. After returning home he blocked me. I cried and cried, called multiple times but he didn't received my call. Even I went to his location and waited for almost 3 hr but he didn't came. Then I asked my sister to call him. Then he talked to me but he said me so much of harsh and vulgar words that I went in shock. I cried a lot but he went on humiliating me. But somehow I convinced him to stay with me. I never talked to that friend ever. Then I told my parents about him that I want to get married with this men. Being a girl's father my father enquired about him by being annonymous. And trust me noone has said anything good about him. Later on we get to know that his father has a murder case on him of his brother in law. But then I wanted to get married. Finally my parents agreed only for my happines. Meanwhile I was never being respected by him. He always doubt me, humiliate me, abuse me mentally and physically, and when I was like I don't want to be with you he used to say sorry and begged me to be with him. He even used to restrict to visit my uncle aunty. His mother wants used to defend him and never used to make him realise that he was wrong. Then before engagement we went to Kolkata to buy dress. Yes one more thing I have informed him on the very first day that I used to drink and smoke occassionally. So whenever he used to visit me he always wanted to drink with me whether I want it or not. He always used to abuse me and humiliate me in front of everyone after drinking, so after a period of time I used to avoid drinking. Then he used to fight with me for that also that why will you not drink. In kolkata the same thing happen. We stayed there for 3 days and he was convincing to go to club from the very first day but I refused. On 3rd he hit me. After engagement his family asked for dowry. After a lot of dealing my parents agreed for an amount. But I felt betrayed. I stopped talking. After after when I initiated the conversation he picked up a fight and said he won't marry. I tried to convince. But when everyone was blaming me then I broke my silence and said everything about him to my parent. But he manipulated everything and made me villain. My parents want me to get married as the society will insult our parents. I am getting married in November only for my parents but I have already made up my mind that I'll divorce him after 1 year of mairrage and will live my life alone. Am I thinking right? What should I do?