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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 25, 2025Hindi
Relationship

What if I don't receive his call anymore.Will he regret or not? Will he miss me or not?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am so sorry you are in a situation like this. Though I do not have much information on what you are going through, I can generally tell you that if you have to wonder if your partner will regret his actions once you sever contact with him, chances are there is something not going right in the relationship. You shouldn’t have to take such drastic measures to make your partner regret or miss you. Moreover, healthy relationships are built on communication. Ultimatums often don’t do much good. Please try and have an open conversation, instead of shutting him out. If that is not possible, I’d suggest rethinking the relationship. The pattern you are thinking of following can quickly turn toxic.

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We both joined in our job together. He was so caring. I developed feeling fr him. But now he is going to join new job. I told him i will miss him a lot. But he was so casual and says whenever u want to talk, you can call me. But i feel very bad when i think he will leave soon. Help me to handle this situation.
Ans: When he responded casually, saying you can call him anytime, it may have felt like he was emotionally distant or didn’t feel the same intensity. That can be hurtful, especially when you were hoping for some deeper acknowledgment of your bond. But people express emotions differently. His casualness doesn’t necessarily mean he didn’t value your presence — it might just be his way of avoiding emotional vulnerability or not knowing how to respond to closeness.

Now, the focus shifts to you — your healing, your emotions, and your ability to hold on to what was meaningful while also protecting your own peace. Start by accepting that it's okay to feel sad, even tearful. Allow yourself to miss him, but don’t let that feeling convince you that you’re incomplete without him around. You’re not losing everything — you’re transitioning from closeness to distance, which may or may not evolve into a deeper connection, depending on both of you.

Use this phase as a mirror — reflect on what you truly want: was this just emotional comfort in a shared space, or did you genuinely want a future with him? If it’s the latter, and he didn’t show similar feelings, it’s okay to grieve that quietly while slowly detaching.

Let this moment teach you not about loss, but about how deeply you can feel, and how resilient you are in giving space to someone while still holding space for yourself. Nurture your friendships, invest in small routines that uplift you, and remind yourself that care and affection will come again — sometimes from unexpected people and places.

If you feel you need closure or more clarity from him, it’s okay to have one final honest conversation. Just remember, your peace matters more than anyone’s presence.

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 02, 2025Hindi
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My married ex still texts me for comfort. Because of him, I am unable to move on. He makes me feel guilty by saying he got married out of family pressure. His dad is a cardiac patient and mom is being treated for cancer. He comforts me by saying he will get separated soon and we will get married because he only loves me. We have been in a relationship for 14 years and despite everything we tried, his parents refused to accept me, so he chose to get married to someone who understands our situation. I don't know when he will separate from his wife. She knows about us too but she comes from a traditional family. She also confirmed there is no physical intimacy between them. I trust him, but is it worth losing my youth for him? Honestly, I am worried and very confused.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand how difficult it is to let go of a relationship you have built from scratch, but is it really how you want to continue? It really seems to be going nowhere. His parents are already in bad health and he married someone else for their happiness. Does it seem like he will be able to leave her? So many people’s happiness and lives depend on this one decision. I think it’s about time you and your BF have a clear conversation about the same. If he can’t give a proper timeline, please try to understand his situation. But also make sure he understands yours and maybe rethink this equation. It really isn’t healthy. You deserve a love you can have wholly, and not just in pieces, and in the shadows.

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IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on Dec 04, 2025

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My son will be appearing for JEE Main & JEE Advanced 2026 and will participate in JoSAA Counselling 2026. I request clarification regarding the GEN-EWS certificate date requirement for next year. I have already applied for an EWS certificate for current year 2025, and the application is under process. However, I am unsure whether this certificate will be accepted during JoSAA 2026, or whether candidates will be required to submit a fresh certificate for FY 2026–27 (issued on or after 1 April 2026). My concern is that if JoSAA requires a certificate issued after 1 April 2026, students will have only 1–1.5 months to complete the entire procedure, which is difficult considering normal government processing timelines. Also, during current JEE form filling, students are asked to upload a GEN-EWS certificate issued on or after 1 April 2025, or an application acknowledgement. This has created confusion among parents regarding which year’s certificate will finally be valid at the time of counselling. I request your kind guidance on: Which GEN-EWS certificate will be accepted for JoSAA Counselling 2026 — a certificate for FY 2025–26 (issued after 1 April 2025), or a new certificate for FY 2026–27 (issued after 1 April 2026)?
Ans: Hi
You need not worry about the EWS certificate. Even if you apply for the next year's certificate on 1 Apr 2026, the second session of JEE MAINS will still be held, followed by JEE ADVANCED, which will be held in May. JOSAA starts in June. so you will have 2 months in hand for fresh EWS certificate.

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