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Lokesh Question by Lokesh on Apr 25, 2024Hindi
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Thanks a lot for your reply Mam. As you rightly said forgiving and rebuilding trust is not so easy . Even then if my friend chooses that , what is the probability that such a thing will not happen again as it has happened twice. Is it worthy of taking such a risk or is it better for him to move on with divorce proceedings and a find a better person . Pl advise

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are most welcome.
The only way to get over the fear of swimming is to actually start learning to swim. Similarly, your friend will have to take the decision of wanting to TRUST the process again. No one can make that decision for him.
He can either view it as a RISK or a another SHOT at a beautiful life. How he approaches it will define how is he is going to step in and live the decision he makes and that will in turn either not be in his favor or can be. Depends on the approach...
Just because something unpleasant has happened once does not mean that it will happen again right? That fear can keep a person away from living a beautiful life. So, whether he chooses to reconnect with his wife OR think of a new partner, either way the approach has to be free from fears and more out of giving himself and the relationship a chance to flourish.

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 16, 2023Hindi
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Hello Anuji, I am 52 and wifey at 49. In Jan 20, my wife admitted that she is in contact with her college friend since three years and she has ended it. Her college friend's wife found these contacts and threatened my wife for further consequences. Due to that threat, my terrified wife admitted on her own about her wrongdoings and asked me to forgive. It was shocking and mentally disturbing for me as I was trusting her 100% with all freedom one should give to loving spouse, but she failed. I tried to find the truth and level of that relationship. I have burned almost one year to come out of this shock. I forgive her one time for the sake of future of my children. Currently, though things are running smoothly, I do not dare to trust her 100% again. If I don't trust my wife, is there any future in my marriage? If yes, what should I do to secure my marriage even if I don't trust my wife fully?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It is definitely difficult to trust again when the trust has been broken in the first place.
So, you need to make that call...if you want to rebuild your relationship and the reason is for the sake of the children, it might not last long. Make a decision of getting back together to first put your relationship with her in place; the children will anyway benefit from that. Having said that, this requires you to trust her...
Is it possible? Yes, though you will be continually filled with doubts and test her every move and that will not be healthy...
So, the key is that if you have decided to get back together, you must put full faith and trust back into it as hard as it may seem...But do it a 100%...give it your full...You either trust or you don't...there's no in between state here...
What might help is to have a clear conversation with your wife before you make any decision. Express how this has hurt you and how difficult you find it trusting her again. Allow her to do the talking on what she wants, what efforts she is going to put to reconcile and how things seem in the near future to her.
Gauge if there is any inadequacy that she has felt within the marriage so that this can be addressed as well.

The conversation is only a guide to the way forward and not a BEAT each other up game.

So, start your new journey knowing if you can trust, if you want to trust again...It will open up a sea of challenges and lessons to learn from.

All the best!

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Sep 05, 2023

Asked by Anonymous - Sep 03, 2023Hindi
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Hi, I am married for 10yrs with 2 kids. Suddenly I discovered my wife is having a relation with another man. I was devastated but rather than revealing I am aware I rather recalled all the good moments we had. She decided to part ways with another man still I wanted to know what prompted her so went into an open discussion with my wife knowing she already parted ways. She was shocked to know that I am aware but then she revealed she was emotionally down for last 6months and I was occupied with work. As I am emotionally attached with my kids and wife I decided to carry on and rather our love went more intense since the incident. Every now and then I still doubt and fail to maintain the same level of trust which I should. Please guide how I can maintain more stronger trust.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Yes, incidents like these can make you lose trust especially now when you will start to doubt her every move, every action or inaction.
You seem to be a person who has chosen to see the goodness (that's amazing) in your relationship and wants to continue in the marriage. But for this to happen effectively, the trust has to be rebuilt all over again. As a couple, talk about this...share with your wife when you have bouts of doubts BUT don't ever get into the mode where she needs to explain or prove herself every single day.

If she has realized what has been missing in the marriage that made her step outside of it, then the two of you can spend time bringing life back into the marriage.
Ask her: How can I connect with you emotionally where you feel safe and secure?
Do a lot of activities together that will help the two of you reconnect!

Either you trust OR you don't...there's no in-between...so if you two have decided to give your relationship another chance, focus on how to rebuild the connection and how to care for one another even more than before!

All the best!

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 23, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Apr 16, 2024Hindi
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Hello Anu Mam, I have a very close friend who s been married for 10 years and with 2 kids one 8 yr old daughter and a one year old son. His wife whom he loved and trusted so much has cheated on him with one of her friend for almost 3 years which he came to know about recently. He could not digest that ..He thought of divorcing her but thinking about his children's future he changed his mind and told her to end all communication with her affair partner .She too agreed . My friend didn't tell about this to anyone except me including her parents whom he respects a lot and hence didn't want to hurt them ...But after 3 months he came to know that his wife is still in contact with her friend using another phone without his knowledge and her affair also has not stopped . This time he said he couldn't tolerate and told this to her parents and told them that he would be filing for divorce. Her parents are begging him not to do so and telling him to give one last chance as they would mend her this time . He told them that even after giving her a chance to mend herself she has cheated him and broken his trust . He says he cannot live with her without trust . So he has decided to move on but his wife and her mother are telling they will have no other choice but to commit suicide if he doesn't forgive his wife. My friend says he is also worried about his children's future without their mother ...At the same time he says he cannot imagine living with his wife again as before after being cheated on twice...He is asking me to advise. I am totally confused . Kindly advice the pros and cons of 1)forgiving her once again and living in a trustless marriage 2)moving on and finding someone more trustworthy . 3) If he decides to marry another person how will this impact his children . Kindly help me to advise my friend suitably ..
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
1) Forgiving is never easy BUT if that's an option, then your friend and his wife will have to put it a lot of work in rebuilding the trust that is lost...which means a lot of putting things in the past and starting fresh, Will your friend be able to do this? This also will mean NOT bringing up what hurt the marriage and to focus on what can rebuild the marriage. Possible?
2) For a new relationship to blossom, one must first find closure from the previous one. Can your friend be able to do this?
3) The new person and the children will need a lot of time bonding with another. Also, your friend's ex-wife (if they divorce) will have her set of insecurities and objections if the new person and the children get closer. Will your friend be willing to take on these challenges?
It's wonderful that your friend has a great sense of support from you; so you can act as his sounding board to bring him back to reality and lead him to practical ways of dealing with it.

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 22, 2024Hindi
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Hello I am 38Yrs old and married for over 10years. One year back i discovered about my wife getting involved with another man. I was shattered as we have two kids. I initially thought of straight going for divorce but our two kids were always a priority for me and opened up conversation with my wife on what inclined her to take this step. She was shocked that I am aware of her situation. She then opened up that she felt lonely at times when I was away extremely busy with my office and at times she required emotional support for which I was not there. I explained her no reason in this world can explain her act. She felt apologetic and I decided to give another chance to our relationship keeping in mind our kids future. Its now more than an year and our physical/emotional relation have intensified since the incident. We miss each other when I am away and get into steamy conversations to compensate whenever we are distant. Despite of this I still cannot take the past out of my mind and at times it disturbs me. I feel really cheap that despite of moving ahead in our life's why I still keep bringing the past in between our relation. Although I don't discuss anymore about the incident with my wife but she can very well sense the reason when I feel disturbed. I want your help on how to best overcome of such incidents emotionally and rebuild the lost trust with your partner.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Well, it's your control over the way your mind thinks...
If you want to play upon what's happened, then making up and trying to be in the marriage is going to be a difficult proposition. So, decide how you want to play this? Will you train your mind to look forward and rebuilding the marriage OR do you wish to keep at what's happened and live in the past? This is your choice to make...Of course, you cannot erase what's happened but you can change the way that you feel about it...
So, first make that choice. If you wish to dwell on the past, do know that your relationship will sour sooner than later. If you wish to move things ahead, then:
- rebuild the lost trust by spending more time together
- every time you slip into the past, remind yourself that you made the choice to move ahead
- make a clear and positive image of hwo you want your married life to be and play it up in your mind several times in a day

These are a few ways of changing the way you think about an incident and teaches you to move ahead more in a focused manner. Make a choice and stick by it.

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I have about 1 crore in retirement funds and will get a pension of about 55k per month. i have term insurance of 75 lakhs. I believe actual inflation for me is around 12-15% per annum and want to beat that so my capital is not eroded. Is it possible to get around 24% per annum (34% of this is grabbed by IT) to get an effective yield of appr 15-18% with very low risk.
Ans: It's impressive that you've accumulated a substantial retirement fund and secured term insurance for your family's protection. Your concern about inflation eroding your capital demonstrates a prudent approach to financial planning.
As a Certified Financial Planner, I understand the importance of preserving and growing your wealth to combat inflation effectively. However, achieving a consistent return of 24% per annum with very low risk is unrealistic.
While it's essential to aim for returns that outpace inflation, it's equally crucial to manage expectations and assess risk appropriately. Pursuing excessively high returns often entails taking on higher risk, which may not align with your risk tolerance or financial goals.
Instead of chasing unrealistic returns, consider the following strategies to protect and grow your wealth:
• Diversified Portfolio: Allocate your retirement funds across a diversified portfolio of assets, including equity, debt, and alternative investments. Diversification helps mitigate risk and optimize returns over the long term.
• Regular Reviews: Periodically review your investment portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals and risk tolerance. Make adjustments as needed based on changes in market conditions and your personal circumstances.
• Consult with a Certified Financial Planner: Work with a CFP to develop a comprehensive financial plan tailored to your specific needs and objectives. A CFP can help you navigate investment options and create a strategy that balances risk and return effectively.
• Manage Tax Implications: Consider tax-efficient investment strategies to minimize the impact of taxes on your returns. Utilize tax-saving instruments like Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS) and explore other tax-efficient investment avenues.
By adopting a disciplined approach to investment and seeking professional guidance, you can strive to achieve meaningful returns while managing risk effectively.

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My monthly salary is 8 lakhs, but my work time in a year is not fixed. Sometimes i work 8 months a year sometimes 6 months. I have NRE account. Due to uncertain work nature. I always had doubt to keep some funds standy in account. Due to this fear i never invested . Recently started SIP of about 50k. Please advise what to do. Or what more options i have. I was also thinking to buy a flat to later rent out. Or buy a land for future sale out.. i am confused for my life.
Ans: I understand your concerns about the uncertain nature of your work and the impact it may have on your financial stability. It's commendable that you've taken the step to start SIPs despite these challenges.
It's natural to feel overwhelmed when faced with decisions about investments, especially when considering factors like fluctuating income and future financial security. As a Certified Financial Planner, I'm here to offer guidance and support as you navigate through these choices.
Instead of letting fear hold you back, consider taking a balanced approach to investing:
• Emergency Fund: Given the irregularity of your income, it's essential to maintain a sufficient emergency fund in your NRE account to cover living expenses during lean months. This provides a safety net and peace of mind.
• Diversified Investments: Explore investment options beyond traditional avenues like real estate. Consider a diversified portfolio of mutual funds or other investment vehicles that offer liquidity and flexibility to accommodate your variable income.
• Professional Advice: Consult with a Certified Financial Planner to develop a personalized financial plan tailored to your unique situation. They can help you assess your risk tolerance, set realistic goals, and create a roadmap for achieving financial stability and growth.
• Avoid Hasty Decisions: While buying property may seem appealing, it's crucial to weigh the pros and cons carefully. Real estate investments come with their own set of challenges and may not always align with your financial goals or risk profile.
Remember, uncertainty is a part of life, but with careful planning and informed decision-making, you can navigate through it successfully. Don't hesitate to seek support from professionals who can provide guidance and clarity along the way.

Best Regards,
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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 30, 2024Hindi
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I have net earings 40000 per month what should be my ideal stepup SIP amount and target minimum corpus or the time period of 20 years for my two childs education (both below 3 year).. being a aggressive investor currently investing in MIREA ELSS(500), Quant small(1000),Parag Flexi(1000),motilal midcap(500),hdfc BAF(100). And PPF 5000 per year. Please guide.
Ans: As a Certified Financial Planner, I appreciate your proactive approach towards planning for your children's education. With a monthly net earnings of 40,000 rupees and an aggressive investment stance, you're on the right track.
Considering your current investments and financial goals, here's a suggested approach:
1. Review and Adjust Current Investments: Your current portfolio consists of ELSS, small-cap, flexi-cap, mid-cap, and balanced advantage funds, along with PPF contributions. While this reflects an aggressive strategy, it's essential to periodically review the performance of these funds and make adjustments if necessary to ensure they align with your goals.
2. Calculate Required Corpus: Determine the estimated cost of education for both children, factoring in inflation and the type of education you aspire for them. This will help you set a realistic target corpus to aim for.
3. Set Up Step-Up SIPs: Since your children are below 3 years old, you have a relatively long investment horizon of 20 years. A step-up SIP allows you to gradually increase your SIP amount over time, aligning with your increasing income and inflation. Work with a Certified Financial Planner to calculate the ideal step-up SIP amount based on your target corpus and investment horizon.
4. Stay Consistent and Disciplined: Consistency is key to achieving your investment goals. Continue investing regularly and stay disciplined even during market fluctuations. Avoid the temptation to withdraw or stop your SIPs prematurely.
5. Emergency Fund and Contingency Planning: Ensure you have an emergency fund equivalent to at least 6-12 months of living expenses in a liquid and accessible account to cover unexpected expenses. Additionally, consider incorporating contingency planning into your financial strategy to mitigate any unforeseen risks.
6. Regular Reviews: Periodically review your investment portfolio and financial goals with your Certified Financial Planner. Adjust your strategy as needed based on changes in your financial situation, market conditions, and investment objectives.
By following these steps and working closely with a Certified Financial Planner, you can build a robust financial plan to ensure your children's education needs are met without compromising your long-term financial security.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 30, 2024Hindi
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I am 38 years I am planning to retire at 45 years with 2 Cr on corpus.let me know how much SIp I need to do as I am aggressive investor.
Ans: It's commendable that you're planning for an early retirement at 45 and aiming for a significant corpus of 2 Crores. As an aggressive investor, you're willing to take on higher risk for potentially higher returns.

To achieve your goal, you'll need to calculate the SIP amount based on factors like expected rate of return and investment horizon. Since you're aiming for an early retirement, you'll likely need to invest a substantial amount each month to reach your target.

As a Certified Financial Planner, I advise caution when aiming for aggressive investment goals. While higher risk can lead to higher returns, it also increases the possibility of volatility and potential losses.

Instead of providing a specific SIP amount here, I recommend scheduling a consultation with a CFP who can conduct a detailed analysis of your financial situation, risk tolerance, and investment goals.

During the consultation, your CFP will help determine the most appropriate investment strategy to maximize growth potential while managing risk effectively. They'll consider factors like asset allocation, diversification, and investment time horizon to tailor a plan that aligns with your objectives.

Remember, achieving financial goals requires discipline, patience, and a well-thought-out strategy. By working closely with a CFP, you can create a roadmap to reach your retirement target and secure your financial future.

Best Regards,
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Hello sir , I am 32 year old I am a salaried person around 60k per month and want to start SIP for my children education I have two children one is 6 year old and another one is 3 year old. Please suggest me the best
Ans: It's fantastic that you're thinking ahead and planning for your children's education at such a young age. Starting SIPs (Systematic Investment Plans) is a smart way to build a corpus for their future educational expenses.
Considering your financial situation and your children's ages, here's a suggested approach:
1. Set Clear Goals: Determine the amount you'll need for each child's education, factoring in inflation and the type of education you aspire for them. This will help you set realistic investment targets.
2. Choose Suitable SIPs: Opt for diversified equity mutual funds that have a track record of consistent performance and align with your investment goals and risk tolerance. Look for funds with a long-term horizon and a focus on capital appreciation.
3. Allocate Funds Wisely: Divide your SIP investments among different funds to spread risk and maximize growth potential. Consider a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap funds to achieve diversification and optimize returns.
4. Start Early and Stay Consistent: Time is your biggest ally when it comes to investing. Start your SIPs as soon as possible to benefit from the power of compounding. Even small, regular investments can grow substantially over time with discipline and consistency.
5. Review and Adjust Regularly: Periodically review your SIP investments to ensure they're on track to meet your goals. Make adjustments as needed based on changes in your financial situation, market conditions, and investment objectives.
6. Stay Disciplined: Avoid the temptation to withdraw or stop your SIPs during market fluctuations. Stay focused on your long-term goals and continue investing consistently, regardless of short-term market movements.
7. Consider Tax Implications: Keep tax efficiency in mind while selecting SIPs. Opt for funds with favorable tax treatment like Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS) for potential tax benefits under Section 80C of the Income Tax Act.
Remember, education is one of the most valuable investments you can make for your children's future. By starting SIPs early and staying disciplined, you can build a solid financial foundation to provide them with the best opportunities for education.

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What are the scholarships available for students who want to pursue masters in USA ,especially who are freshly graduate from btech
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To begin with, thank you for contacting us. I am glad to hear that you intend pursuing your Masters in the USA. As an answer to your query, I would like to tell you that there are a number of scholarships viz., the Fulbright-Nehru Fellowships, Tata Scholarship for Students from India, Fulbright Scholarships, Civil Society Leadership Awards (CSLA), Chevening Scholarships, Rotary Foundation Global Grants, Hubert H. Humphrey Fellowship Program, American Association of University Women (AAUW) International Fellowships, University-specific Scholarships, scholarships offered by private foundations and organizations, and Government Scholarships, that are available for students studying a Masters degree in the USA, particularly for the ones who have recently earned a Bachelor of Technology (B.Tech) degree.

Besides the ones mentioned above, there are a number of other scholarships available that you can consider applying to. I would recommend that you conduct an extensive study and apply to the scholarships that best resonate with your qualifications and objectives. Not just that, in order to acquire more precise details about the available scholarships and possibilities for monetary assistance, I would suggest that you get in touch with the admissions offices of the universities you intend applying to.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2024Hindi
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Hello Sir, I am 46 yrs old guy with a family of 2 children 10yrs and 3yrs. i have a 16 lakhs homeloan outstanding. i have created a small saving fund of about 11.36 lakhs in investments in the following funds quant active direct, hdfc flaxicap, Nippon flexicap, hdfc divident fund, holidng about 5.19 lakhs in stocks. I also invest into pension fund about 5000 per month and sip in the above mutual fund are 45000 per month. please suggest the investment strategy at my age and I would like to retire in 50 yrs.
Ans: It's wonderful to see you taking proactive steps towards securing your family's financial future. At 46, with two young children and a home loan, it's essential to have a solid investment strategy in place.
Considering your age and retirement goal of 50 years, here's a suggested investment strategy:
1. Prioritize Debt Reduction: Since you have a home loan outstanding, prioritize paying it off as soon as possible. Allocate a portion of your savings towards clearing this debt to reduce financial burden and free up cash flow for other investments.
2. Diversify Investments: Your current investment portfolio seems heavily skewed towards equity with a mix of mutual funds and stocks. While equity investments offer growth potential, they also come with higher risk. Consider diversifying into less volatile assets like debt funds, PPF, or FDs to balance risk.
3. Review and Adjust Mutual Fund Portfolio: Evaluate the performance of your mutual funds periodically and consider consolidating or reallocating funds based on their performance and your investment goals. Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) to ensure your portfolio aligns with your risk tolerance and financial objectives.
4. Continue SIPs and Pension Fund Contributions: Your SIPs and pension fund contributions are commendable. Continue investing regularly, but ensure you're comfortable with the amount allocated to each fund and adjust as necessary over time.
5. Emergency Fund: Ensure you have an emergency fund equivalent to at least 6-12 months of living expenses in a liquid and accessible account to cover unexpected expenses or income disruptions.
6. Plan for Children's Education and Your Retirement: Factor in future expenses like your children's education and your retirement needs while planning your investments. Start separate funds for these goals to ensure you're adequately prepared when the time comes.
7. Regular Reviews: Regularly review your investment portfolio and financial goals to make adjustments as needed. Life circumstances and market conditions change, so staying proactive is key to long-term financial success.
Remember, investing is a journey, and it's essential to stay disciplined and informed. With careful planning and guidance from a CFP, you can navigate towards a secure financial future for you and your family.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2024Hindi
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I am 48 yrs old i will be retiring on attaining 60 .I hav an fd of 25lak n few stocks n a monthly of 19 k in MF. I thought of starting to build a rental house for generating income for my retirement but m in a confusion as I will hav to break my fd as I don't want to take a loan.pls kindly help me with ur advice
Ans: It's impressive that you're planning ahead for your retirement at 48. You've accumulated a decent amount in fixed deposits (FD), stocks, and are investing regularly in mutual funds (MF), which is a great start.
Building a rental property can indeed be a strategy to generate passive income during retirement. However, breaking your FD to fund the construction raises a few considerations. FDs offer stability and guaranteed returns, and breaking them prematurely may result in loss of interest and penalties.
Before making any decisions, consider the following:
1. Evaluate Returns: Compare the potential rental income from the property with the interest you're earning on your FD. Ensure that the rental income justifies breaking the FD.
2. Risk Management: Real estate investments come with risks like property maintenance, vacancies, and market fluctuations. Assess your risk tolerance and ensure you have a contingency plan.
3. Diversification: Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Consider diversifying your investments to spread risk. You already have stocks and MFs; adding real estate can further diversify your portfolio.
4. Consult a Professional: Seek advice from a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) who can help you analyze your financial situation, assess the viability of the rental property, and create a comprehensive retirement plan.
5. Alternative Financing: Explore alternative financing options like taking a loan against your FD instead of breaking it entirely. This way, you can maintain the FD and still fund the construction.
Ultimately, the decision should align with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and retirement aspirations. A well-thought-out plan, backed by professional advice, can help you navigate this important decision effectively.
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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2024Hindi
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Hi sir i am investing in sip for 7000,ppf 5000,nps 2500,pf 3000 per month i am 32 yrs planning to retire in 65 years .how much i will get after 65
Ans: It's excellent that you're taking proactive steps towards securing your financial future at such a young age. By investing regularly in SIP, PPF, NPS, and PF, you're building a strong foundation for your retirement.

Regularly investing in SIPs allows you to benefit from the power of compounding over time, potentially leading to significant growth in your investments. PPF provides a secure and tax-efficient way to save, and NPS and PF contributions help you build a retirement corpus while also enjoying tax benefits.

However, the exact amount you'll receive at retirement depends on various factors like the rate of return on your investments, inflation, and any changes in government policies. It's essential to review your investment strategy regularly and make adjustments as needed to stay on track towards your retirement goals.

Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) to develop a comprehensive retirement plan tailored to your needs and aspirations. A CFP can help you estimate your future retirement corpus based on your current investments and make recommendations to optimize your portfolio for long-term growth.

Remember, starting early and staying disciplined with your investments are key to achieving your retirement goals. Keep up the good work, and continue investing regularly to build a secure financial future for yourself.

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I am aged 72 years and totally retired since 2019. Despite limited income, I am investing Rs12,000 per month in mutual fund mostly in equity segment of reputed AMCs initially for a period of 3 years and may extend later. Kindly suggest whether this is a right decision or needs a review.
Ans: Investing in mutual funds, especially in equity segments, can be a smart move for building wealth over time. Given your retired status and limited income, it's commendable that you're still prioritizing investments. However, at 72, it's crucial to balance potential returns with risk.

It's wonderful to see your proactive approach towards securing your financial future even during retirement. Mutual funds offer diversification, which can help manage risk, and investing systematically, like you're doing, can potentially yield better returns over the long term.

Nevertheless, it's essential to consider your risk tolerance and investment horizon. Equity mutual funds can be volatile in the short term, so ensure you're comfortable with fluctuations in the value of your investments.

Regular reviews with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) can provide valuable insights into whether your investment strategy aligns with your goals and risk profile. A CFP can help adjust your portfolio as needed and provide peace of mind knowing that your investments are on track.

Remember, investing is a journey, and it's normal to reassess and make changes along the way. Keep monitoring your investments regularly and stay informed about market trends and economic developments.

In summary, while investing in mutual funds can be a good decision, especially for long-term wealth creation, consider consulting with a CFP to ensure it's the right approach for you given your age and financial situation.

Best Regards,
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