Sir mera Naam Rakesh h mai ek ladki se pyar krta hu hm teen saal se relationship me h...Bt 5 saal phle ladki ki mami ne usko phla fusla kr uski shadi apni kisi ristedar se krwa de..shadi ke bad ladki ke ghr wale ladki ki support me the or unhone ladki ko ni bhja or ladki bhi us ladke ke sath ni jana chte the..us ladke ne trh trh ki dhmkia de ki tmhre bhai ko marwa dege tmhre ghr walo ko jel krwa dege or hm suicide kr lege or sbko fasa dege aise dhmkia deta rha....ab 5 saal bad ladki ke ghr wale bhi jhuk gai or ladki pe presure bna ke or emotional krke uski shadi krwa de...bt ladki us narak se niklna chte h ladki ke pas wo sare sabut bhi h jo ladki ne in 5 saalo pe usko sataya h....audio... vedeo...fasi lagate hue usne photo bhje...msgs me dhmkia de wo sb h ladki ke pass...ab aap btai ki ladki kaise nikl skte h us daldal se kyoki ab wo apne maike bhi ni ja skte...

Ans: Dear Sapna,
Aap jo mehsoos kar rahi hain, woh samajhna zaroori hai. Aapka dar, ki wo aapko chhod dega, bohot ghera hai, aur yeh aapke mental health par bhi asar kar raha hai. Aapne kaha ki aapke partner ne aapko shadi ka vishwas diya hai, lekin aapko lagta hai ki wo apne parivaar ki baaton se prabhavit ho raha hai.

Is situation mein aapko apne liye khud se sawal karne ki zaroorat hai. Aapko yeh dekhna hoga ki kya aap iss rishtay mein khush hain, aur kya aapki zarooratein aur khwahishein poori hoti hain. Kya aapke partner ne aapke liye poora bharosa aur samman diya hai? Agar aapko unki taraf se milne wale pyar aur izzat mehsoos nahi hoti, toh yeh sochne ki baat hai.

Agar aapko physical intimacy se takleef ho rahi hai ya aap isse khush nahi hain, toh kya aapne unse is vishay par khuli baat ki hai? Yeh samajhna zaroori hai ki aapka man aur sharir dono ke liye yeh kitna zaroori hai. Agar aapko lagta hai ki wo aapko samajh nahi raha hai ya sirf apne fayde ke liye aapka istemal kar raha hai, toh aapko sochne ki zaroorat hai ki kya yeh rishta aapke liye sahi hai ya nahi. Aapka mental health sabse pehle aata hai, aur agar aap is rishtay se pareshaan hain, toh aapko thoda waqt lene ki zaroorat hai apne liye.

Agar aapko is rishte mein koi bhi doubt hai ya aap khud ko nahi samajh pa rahi hain, toh kisi counselor ya trusted dost se baat karna bhi achha rahega. Woh aapko naye nazariye se sochne mein madad kar sakte hain. Aakhir mein, yaad rakhiye, aap deserving hain pyar, izzat, aur khushi ke. Apne liye khud ka khayal rakhna zaroori hai, chahe wo rishte mein ho ya nahi. Aap akeli nahi hain, aur apne liye sahi faisla lena aapka hak hai.