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Mai Srivastava caste ki hoon or wo naai caste ka hai uski job b sahi hai bas baat itni hai ki wo mera neighbour tha uske ghar se humare ghr ki nhi banti . in do wajh se mere ghrwale meri shadi ke liye nhi maan rahe har tarah se mana ke dekh liya please koi upaar btaiye

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Marriage counsellor - Answered on Apr 16, 2025

Dr Upneet Kaur is a medical professional and therapist based out of Amritsar.
After completing her bachelor’s degree in Ayurvedic medicine and surgery from the SKSS Ayurvedic College and Hospital, Sarabha, Punjab, in 2008, she worked as a medical officer at various multi-specialty hospitals in Punjab, handling both physical and mental patient care and clinical decision-making. She spent the next decade leading multidisciplinary teams at various levels.
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Mai Srivastava caste ki hoon or wo naai caste ka hai uski job b sahi hai bas baat itni hai ki wo mera neighbour tha uske ghar se humare ghr ki nhi banti . in do wajh se mere ghrwale meri shadi ke liye nhi maan rahe har tarah se mana ke dekh liya please koi upaar btaiye

Ans: Namaste mam.
Main samajh skti hun apki pareshani ko. Ajkal caste system me koi zyada nahi manta. Agar ladka acha hai and job achi hai to apke parents se aaram se baat aap kar skte hai. Par apko ye sure karna hoga ke uske parents apko accept kar le. Agar wo ready hai to aap apne parents se aaram se baith ke baat kar skti hain. Gusse me mat ana. Shanti se behtar koi rasta nahi hai. Aap ye bhi samjho ki apke parents aoke bhale ke liye hi soch rahe hai. Unko pyar se hi samjhaya ja skta hai.
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My married ex still texts me for comfort. Because of him, I am unable to move on. He makes me feel guilty by saying he got married out of family pressure. His dad is a cardiac patient and mom is being treated for cancer. He comforts me by saying he will get separated soon and we will get married because he only loves me. We have been in a relationship for 14 years and despite everything we tried, his parents refused to accept me, so he chose to get married to someone who understands our situation. I don't know when he will separate from his wife. She knows about us too but she comes from a traditional family. She also confirmed there is no physical intimacy between them. I trust him, but is it worth losing my youth for him? Honestly, I am worried and very confused.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand how difficult it is to let go of a relationship you have built from scratch, but is it really how you want to continue? It really seems to be going nowhere. His parents are already in bad health and he married someone else for their happiness. Does it seem like he will be able to leave her? So many people’s happiness and lives depend on this one decision. I think it’s about time you and your BF have a clear conversation about the same. If he can’t give a proper timeline, please try to understand his situation. But also make sure he understands yours and maybe rethink this equation. It really isn’t healthy. You deserve a love you can have wholly, and not just in pieces, and in the shadows.

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