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Relationships Expert - Answered on Oct 28, 2022

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Question by LFL on Oct 28, 2022Hindi

Relationship

Dear Love Guru,
I have put my profile on the shaadi sites.
But I don’t want to marry like that.
I am looking for love.
What can I do?
Sincerely,
Looking for Love

Ans:

Dear Looking for Love

Well, if you're looking for love, then there's no harm in looking on the Internet too, is there?

You don't have to marry someone based off their profile, you can meet new people and if you find someone interesting, take it forward.

Nobody is forcing you into virtual wedded bliss!

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