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Relationships Expert - Answered on May 13, 2022
Dear Love Guru,
I’m 74. I loved a girl 50 years back, two years younger to me. She doesn’t know about my love.
We married different persons in our 20s. Both are now well settled.
Her only daughter in US. She is at Chennai, no financial problems and myself at Mumbai.
She is widow for the past 13 years.
My 46 years marital relationship with my wife is not that good. We always quarrel. We have two highly educated children, a daughter and a son, well settled.
I was chasing my GF’s whereabouts and finally I got her two years back.
I visit her Chennai home every month for a week and I secretly married her also in her house, on day one of our meeting.
I have told about this to my wife also. Since then I’m in hell.
My friend wants me to keep our relationship always in secret, which I don’t want. An open person like me, who rarely speaks lies, doesn’t like this. She’s very particular about the secrecy of our relationship.
What shall I do?
Does she want to keep it a secret because you’re married or because she doesn’t think it’s a good look for her to be remarried?
If you want to live your life out in the open, I can understand; but the first thing to do in that case is file for divorce from your current wife.
You can then be with your ladylove permanently. And it’ll be a respectable, honest relationship so she won’t want to hide it anymore.
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