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Relationships Expert - Answered on Nov 29, 2021

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Question by Jannu on Nov 29, 2021Hindi

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Dear LG,
My hubby is squeamish about being orally intimate.
How can I change his view?
Thanks,
Jannu Sinha

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Maybe you can be the first to make a move on him and show him how enjoyable it can be?

Ask him to have an open mind and try it in degrees; sometimes people are inhibited about certain sexual acts, it takes time for them to become comfortable with performing them.

Explain that sex can become boring and monotonous without exploring each other's bodies, especially for women who often don't climax during the actual act of penetration and need oral stimulation as well.

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