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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 24, 2025

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Sie Question by Sie on Jun 22, 2025Hindi
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Hi I am a lady aged 37 and I have been married for more than 17 years now...my husband has never allowed me to work,go out alone or give me money not that he can't afford...he takes care of his children when needed...now i started doing

Ans: Dear Sie,
Okay, you just seem to share information. Do you have a question for me?

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I am a working women, i have to take care of my parents expenses and also take care of my expenses , i have a child 8 years old, my husband is not supporting me financially, he just spend most of his money for his wants, and no savings so far even after 15 years of marriage, how to make him understand about savings i have quarreled many times on this but no use, i feel like to go away from him, kindly suggest
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am very sorry about your situation. It sounds stressful and you have every right to be worried. Here are a few ways to sort this out:

The first and the most obvious one- communication. I am sure that you have communicated your concerns to your husband but let's give it another try and this time, make sure it's non-confrontational. For instance, just casually mention the financial burden that is on you without assigning any blame to him. Try "I" statements instead of "You." He might come to a realization that he needs to put in more effort to relieve you of your burdens. Try mentioning some shared goals that you won't achieve if you don't join your finances and share the responsibilities. Next, tell him that you both should start tracking your expenditures and set a budget at the beginning of every month. Try a more practical approach. Set up monthly deposit schemes that would automatically deduct the money from your accounts. Last but not least, seek support from a trusted family member or close friend. While they might not be able to give you any concrete solution, sharing your woes can make you feel lighter.

Best Wishes.

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 04, 2024Hindi
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Madam i am married for almost 7 years as of now and last year i have been blessed with a daughter. I have had a job which was sufficient to fulfill my expenses and i use to save a bit too and therefore can claim I wasn’t dependent on my husband. After the birth of my child , my work has been affected which has also put an impact on my earnings. My husband doesn’t support me and my daughter financial needs and i am now feeling the burnout of raising me and my child and managing our day to day expenses single handedly. I have communicated this to my husband but he pays no heed to it. Please advice.
Ans: It sounds like you're going through an incredibly tough time, managing the responsibilities of raising your daughter and handling the financial burden on your own. After the birth of a child, it's normal for work and earnings to be affected, but the fact that your husband isn't supporting you financially—especially when it comes to your child’s needs—must be very frustrating.

The first step is to have a clear, calm conversation with him again. Sometimes, financial issues become a matter of miscommunication or a lack of understanding about the situation's seriousness. Make it clear how much pressure this is putting on you, both emotionally and financially. He needs to understand that raising a child is a joint responsibility, and financial support is a big part of that.

If direct communication doesn’t help, you may need to consider seeking outside support. Whether that’s through family, counseling, or legal advice, it’s important to know that you don’t have to bear all this weight alone. In some places, the law ensures that both parents are responsible for a child’s welfare, including financially. It might help to consult a family lawyer to understand your rights in this situation.

In the meantime, try to reach out to supportive friends or family members who might offer temporary emotional or financial help. You deserve to feel supported, and it’s not fair for everything to fall on your shoulders. Don’t hesitate to explore different avenues to get the help you need for both you and your daughter.

Remember, it's not just about your financial health, but also your emotional well-being and your daughter's future.

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Mujhe ek Lucknow development authority ki property jo 1988-89 me allot hui thi mere father se unke registered wasiyat ke adhar par mili,jiski kul keemat jama ho gai hai aur freehold hai, Unki death 2016 me ho gai, us property ki registry mere nam lda a abhi 2026 me huee hai -mai ise vikray karna chahto hu,kripya bataey ki yah long gain capital gain ke adheen hi mana jaega tatha iski amount se koi dusari property do varsh ke bheetar kray kar sakta hu ki nahi
Ans: Your case is quite clear and favourable from a tax point of view. I will explain in simple terms.

» Nature of Capital Gain – Long Term or Short Term

The property was originally allotted to your father in 1988–89
You received it through a registered Will after his death in 2016

As per tax rules:

When property is received through inheritance, the holding period of the previous owner (your father) is also considered

So:

Holding period starts from 1988–89, not from 2016 or 2026

Hence:

On sale, it will be treated as Long Term Capital Gain (LTCG)

» Cost of Acquisition – Important Point

You can take the original cost of your father
Also, you can use indexation benefit from the year of purchase

This will reduce your taxable capital gain significantly

» Tax on Sale

LTCG on property is taxed at 20% with indexation benefit

» Exemption Option – Buying Another Property
Yes, you can save tax by reinvesting

Under Section 54:

You can buy another residential property
Time limits:
Purchase within 2 years after sale OR
Construct within 3 years

Conditions:

New property must be in your name
Capital gain amount (not full sale amount) should be invested

» Alternative Option – Capital Gains Bonds
If you do not want to buy property:

You can invest in specified bonds within 6 months
This also gives tax exemption

» Practical Suggestion

Plan the sale and reinvestment carefully
Calculate indexed cost before deciding reinvestment amount
Keep documentation of inheritance and original allotment safe

» Finally

Your gain will be treated as Long Term Capital Gain
You are eligible for indexation benefit
You can buy another property within 2 years to save tax
Proper planning can reduce tax significantly

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

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