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Dating Coach - Answered on Apr 12, 2023

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Question by Lakshmi on Apr 08, 2023Hindi

Relationship

Hlo maam, I kind of like someone...and i have even expressed it to him,he don't answer me about this He sometimes cares for me but sometimes he makes fun of me in anger

Ans: You like someone and you have expressed the same but have not received any acknowledgement - this means time to move on - wishing you the best

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I actually like someone..... but the guy,he is like sometime he cares alot about me but sometimes make fun of me......but not infront of orhers.....i like him so much that i always want to talk to him i try to find reason to speak or chat with him

Ans: Dear Lakshmi,
The easiest thing to do is to express yourself to him.
What will happen? Either he will say that he also likes you or he doesn't! But no point playing guessing games in your head; it too straining. If you feel awkward in doing this, seek the help of a mutual friend who will play the role of a messenger. Whatever the outcome, be prepared for it BUT do express this feeling. Now, why he makes fun of you is something I don't know; maybe he feels comfortable enough to be himself with you OR he deviates his feelings for you into humour.

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Question by Juris - Apr 11, 2023Hindi

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I'm poor communicator and don't know how to maintain relationships so I like this guy and I don't know if he like me bcse we don't talk but on my bday he sent me a song for me by my friends request and we messaged that's first time talking...and then we never talked he ignored and I also did being an introvert now we don't follow each other but there's always a tension

Ans: Dear Juris,
Be YOU but if being YOU is being rigid and not allowing you to socialize the way that leads to making bigger connections, then do something about it:)
Hobby classes, meet up groups for like minded individuals, gyms, writing clubs...are great places to meet new people and socialize. Initially you can piggy back with your friends till you slowly become your own chaperone.
So, go out there and while still being YOU, also know that's there's so much to life and the joy that people can bring into your life as much as you can in their lives:) Explore slowly but surely...
As for this guy, he's young and playing the social media scene his way at his level of maturity. Off and On connections, ghosting, constant texting...all these are part of these platforms...you will get used to it as unwanted as it may seem. You will learn to safeguard your sanity while you are on these platforms.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 29, 2023Hindi

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How to know if someone likes you? What are the signs?

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 09, 2024Hindi

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Hi mam I am a girl 18 years old and I like someone who is in my university he is a senior of mine like he is in 3rd year and I am in 1st. I really like him from starting and after sometime I start a convo with him like I ask him something ane he do reply me in a very sweet way after that we always greet each other he also do sometime. I have his number too but he talks so formally with me. but lately for 2 days he is ignoring me but when I messaged him to ask something he replies instantly but today he again ignores me in day time what should I do ! Is he giving me mixed signals?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It is just your assumption right now that he might have the same feelings for you. Please get verbal confirmation before you get your hopes up. About him not replying or ignoring you, that can be for several reasons. He might be busy with something, or going through something you don't know about. Or he might actually be ignoring you. It's best you have a direct conversation about the same.

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My son has got 93.88percentile in JEE mains 2026 with General rank 95539 and OBC NCL rank 31008 in tamilnadu . I request you to kindly guide me can he get admission in any nits iiits .

Ans: Based on your son's score, chances of admission to NIT Trichy CSE/ECE are extremely low, and even lower branches may be difficult due to the high cutoffs at NIT Trichy. Admission to IIITs for CSE/ECE through regular JoSAA rounds is also challenging, but it is advisable to try CSAB Special Round for newer IIITs and GFTIs. Consider options like IIIT Agartala, IIIT Manipur, IIIT Kalyani, IIIT Bhagalpur, IIIT Ranchi, Assam University, Gurukula Kangri, and BIT Mesra off-campuses, provided you and your son are mentally prepared for these campuses. Additionally, it is recommended to have 5–6 backup options in reputed private engineering colleges apart from participating in TNEA counselling, such as SSN, SNU, Sastra, Amrita, VIT, Sathyabhama, Saveetha and also some other reputed Private Engineering Colleges based on your/son's preferred locations within Tamil Nadu, instead of relying only on JoSAA. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Sir. My daughter 92.76 percentile in female OBC candidate. Nit Trichy home state. Any nit or iit in any branches are possible sir.

Ans: IIT is not possible unless she qualifies strongly in JEE Advanced, but she may have a chance at lower/core branches in some NITs and possibly newer/lower-demand branches, depending on her category rank and counselling trends. Chances with NIT-Trichy are very slim.

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Ans: Slim chances at top NITs/IIITs. Try newer/lower NITs/IIITs. Keep a backup option of a good private college. Final chances depend heavily on his OBC rank, home state, and JoSAA cutoffs.

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Question by Srilaxmi - Apr 25, 2026Hindi

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Sir obc ncl rank 5983 state andhrapradesh....CRL...22K

Ans: Srilaxmi Madam, I have already partially answered your question, and now that you have provided your son's home state, here is the updated and refreshed response. With a CRL rank of 22,000, an OBC-NCL rank of 5,983, and Andhra Pradesh home state status, you have good chances of admission in NIT Andhra Pradesh, especially in ECE and EEE branches, while CSE remains borderline depending on the 2026 cutoff trends. Recent data shows that NIT Andhra Pradesh CSE closes around OBC-HS ranks of 5,100–5,500, making your rank slightly risky but still worth attempting; ECE looks more realistic. Admission to CSE/ECE in top NITs like Trichy, Warangal, and Surathkal through other-state quota may be difficult. Good options to fill include NIT Andhra Pradesh (CSE/ECE/EEE), IIIT Sri City, IIIT Kottayam, IIIT Nagpur, IIIT Una, IIIT Bhopal, IIIT Ranchi, and GFTIs. JoSAA confirms that OBC-NCL cutoffs are based on category rank, not CRL. It is recommended to prioritize choices as CSE → ECE → EEE → AI/DS/IT and keep CSAB Special Round as a strong backup. Additionally, reviewing JoSAA opening and closing ranks from the past 2–3 years will provide valuable insights for your son to confidently select and fill preferred choices. Also, keep Andhra Pradesh state counselling as a backup option. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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My rank is 3304 female what is possibility for iiit hyderabad cse

Ans: Chances at IIIT-H seem challenging. But keep strong backup options ready, since recent CSE cutoffs have often been around or above this range and fluctuate significantly.

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Sir please clarify are iiit better then iit non core for cse?

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 25, 2026Hindi

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Hi, My son has secured a rank of 4320 (CRL) in JEE Mains 2026. Home State is not an option. Can you suggest Institute + Branch preferences that we should opt?

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Thank you Sir. What about IIIT Hyderabad, IIIT Bangalore, and JAC Delhi colleges?

Ans: Very good options. In a hurry, I missed their themes. Really sorry.
Preference order: IIIT-H > IIIT-B>JAC

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But these (IITH, IIITB, JAC) should come before or after NITs in the order of preference?

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Respected Sir/Ma’am, My brother has secured 77 percentile in JEE Mains 2026 and is currently at a crossroads regarding his future. We would truly value your guidance on whether he should consider taking a drop year to improve his score or proceed with admission at Thapar Institute of Engineering and Technology, Patiala. Additionally, if he opts for Thapar, we would be grateful if you could advise which branch he should choose, keeping in mind both his long-term career prospects and future growth opportunities. Your guidance would mean a lot to us in making an informed decision

Ans: Taking a drop does not guarantee success. If you can take the risk and have full confidence that he can crack the exam with the required percentile, then tell him to proceed with a drop.

At Thapar, consider CSE/COE > AI/ML/Data Science > ECE > Electrical > Mechanical/Civil, based on his genuine interest and aptitude.

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My cousin's son got 99.91 percentile in JEE mains with AIR 1422. He is from Visakhapatnam, Andhra Pradesh. Please suggest me the NITs & Main groups that are suitable for his qualifications. He is in Gen catagory ( Hindu, Brahmin )

Ans: Your son has a strong chance of getting into either top NITs or top IIITs. Try with NIT Warangal/Surathkal/Trichy CSE if available, then NIT Rourkela/Calicut/MNIT Jaipur/MNNIT Allahabad CSE, followed by top NIT ECE/AI/DS branches as backups

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Question by Kishore - Apr 25, 2026Hindi

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Sir, My son got 94.45percentile Jeemains, Mahindra CSE seat blocked, BITS 220marks Session 1, Manipal 148 marks and board 90%. He is interested in CSE or Maths and physics. What shall we do?

Ans: Kishore Sir, you have not mentioned your son's home state. However, please note that BITS typically requires a minimum of 240–250 marks even for MSc programs and above 290–320 for BE programs, especially for the CSE branch. Based on your son's scores, admission to NIT/IIIT CSE through JoSAA appears difficult; some newer IIITs and GFTIs may be possible through CSAB, mainly in lower-demand branches. Please keep Mahindra-CSE as a safe backup option. Regarding Manipal, MIT Manipal CSE is tough to get, but Mathematics & Computing or other CS-related branches may be borderline—last year’s CSE closing rank was near 5129 and Maths & Computing near 5633. MIT Bengaluru offers better chances for CSE/ECE, with the 2025 CSE closing rank around 11,331. Manipal Jaipur and SMIT Sikkim have very good chances for CSE, ECE, and AI-DS branches. Preference order could be MIT Manipal (Maths & Computing/CS specializations) → MIT Bengaluru (CSE/ECE) → Manipal Jaipur (CSE) → SMIT (CSE). If possible & if you/your son desire, have Thapar also as one of the backup options. Physics is a better option mainly for research-oriented goals; for his interests, CSE or Maths & Computing would be preferable unless he is strongly inclined toward research. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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