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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 03, 2025

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Question by Piyush on Jan 31, 2025Hindi

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Hello my name is Piyush Das I was completed my Engineering and do my training complete after my parents dicide to give my marriage after all 2 months marriage My mother was said abusing words to my wife and i said to my mother to speak angrily to both of them for doing something wrong but I see my mother fault then she told my get out of my house I given slangs after all my father support me but now he also told me get out from home he was drunk After all my parents didn't give any another for job but my parents was cheated on me they told me you Tum apna aur apna wife ka dekhlo ajj Mera wife boli apna ghar jana h toh mujhe jaane ka Paisa v nhi dia 3 din kuch khaiya nhi Ghar mein koi bola v nhi khane ko aab kya karee kuch samjh nhi arha h should I complain in police station or I do anything elsee please help me

Ans: Dear Piyush,
Aap ek engineer ho...naukri toh lagi hogi na aapki...phir bhi 3 dinon se kuch khaaya nahin, yeh kaise?
Police kya karegi yahaan? Mujhe lagtaa hai ki aapko pehle apni samasya samajhna hoga, uske baad likhiye yahaan taaki hume bhi samajh aaye ki aap kis cheez se pareshaan hain aur kya kar sakte hain.

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