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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 11, 2025Hindi
Relationship

Hello. I am currently in my second year of Engineering. I have been studying in a boarding school since 8th standard. Till 7th, there was a girl whom I didn't like much. But, after seeing her after almost 1.5 year, in 9th, I was literally shocked. I got a deep crush for her. But the biggest problem has raised because my family shifted to a city far away from the previous one in my 10th standard. I can't even find her anywhere, not on Instagram or anywhere on social media. Her father might be there in contact list of my dad's phone. But I am very much afraid to inform regarding this to my family. What should I do ?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that you might be feeling out of wits and this might seem like your last hope. But think it through: even if you told your parents and they were very understanding, what can they do? It would not be decent to call a girl’s parents and ask them for her number, unless the intention is to get married. And right now you are too young to think about that; also you barely know her. Plus you are completely unsure if she feels the same way or if she already has a boyfriend. Your attempt can disrupt her life. I understand how strong crushes can be; it can make you feel extremely desperate but I suggest giving it some time. The intensity of it will fade, and in time, you will meet someone who is better suited for you and with whom you have a real chance of connecting.

Hope this helps.

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 18, 2025Hindi
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Hello. I am currently in my second year of Engineering. I have been studying in a boarding school since 8th standard. Till 7th, there was a girl whom I didn't like much. But, after seeing her after almost 1.5 year, in 9th, I was literally shocked. I got a deep crush for her. But the biggest problem has raised because my family shifted to a city far away from the previous one in my 10th standard. I can't even find her anywhere, not on Instagram or anywhere on social media. Her father might be there in contact list of my dad's phone. But I am very much afraid to inform regarding this to my family. So can you please tell me what should I do ?
Ans: Before taking any step to find her, it’s important to ask yourself what you’re really hoping for. Do you want to reconnect as friends? To tell her you liked her? Or are you mostly wondering what happened to her after all these years? Getting clear about that will help you decide whether to take action or simply keep her as a good memory.
If you truly wish to reconnect, you can try a respectful, indirect route—perhaps by checking through old school friends or alumni groups instead of involving your parents right away. If she’s comfortable being found, you’ll likely get some lead. But if there’s no trace, take it as a gentle sign that it might be time to move forward.
At your age, you have so many new people to meet, and feelings like this often open your heart to deeper connections later. Let this memory remind you of what kind of person or energy attracts you, but don’t let it trap you in longing for someone from your past.

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NEET, Medical, Pharmacy Careers - Answered on Mar 20, 2026

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I have passed 12th in May 2024. I took a gap for preparation for NEET, but could not get good college. But in September 2025, I took admission in IIT Jodhpur's B.Sc./B.S. in Applied AI and Data Science (delivered in online mode, similar to IIT Madras's B.S. program), of which I'm currently a bona-fide student, and upon graduation in 2029, I will become an alumnus of IIT Jodhpur. Along with this, I will be joining an engineering college in 2026 to pursue dual degree (IITJ+ offline college). Do I have a gap of 1 year or 2 year in my education? What to write in my gap certificate ? It would have been very kind of you if you could help me regarding this matter.
Ans: Hi Sourindra,

Greetings from RediffGurus!

It's great to know that you're pursuing a dual degree, one from IIT and the other from another engineering institution. However, when selecting your engineering course, it's crucial to choose the right one. Even though you are pursuing a Bachelor of Science in Applied AI and Data Science online at IIT (J), it's important to have a traditional, on-campus degree as well because it will be beneficial when applying for jobs later.

You should be very careful to complete your courses on time. Otherwise, you may face challenges in finishing your degree within the prescribed duration. This is an essential aspect to consider when compared to obtaining a gap certificate.

Regarding the gap certificate, it's worth noting that most employers do not typically request it. However, when you submit your resume while applying for jobs, they may inquire about any gaps in your education. Given that you joined IIT (J) in 2025, the gap amounts to approximately 1.5 years. This will also be reflected in your resume.

There's no need to worry too much about the gap certificate. Just share this information in your resume proactively, before they ask. It's quite common nowadays, so you should be fine.

Best regards,

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NEET, Medical, Pharmacy Careers - Answered on Mar 20, 2026

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Sir, I have passed 12th in May 2024. I took a gap for preparation for NEET, but could not get good college. But in September 2025, I took admission in IIT Jodhpur's B.Sc./B.S. in Applied AI and Data Science (delivered in online mode, similar to IIT Madras's B.S. program), and upon graduation in 2029, I will become an alumnus of IIT Jodhpur. Along with this, I will be joining an engineering college in 2026 to pursue dual degree (IITJ+ offline college). Sir, do I have a gap of 1 year or 2 year in my education? What to write in my gap certificate ? It would have been very kind of you if you could help me regarding this matter.
Ans: Hi Sourindra,

Greetings from RediffGurus!

It's great to know that you're pursuing a dual degree, one from IIT and the other from another engineering institution. However, when selecting your engineering course, it's crucial to choose the right one. Even though you are pursuing a Bachelor of Science in Applied AI and Data Science online at IIT (J), it's important to have a traditional, on-campus degree as well because it will be beneficial when applying for jobs later.

You should be very careful to complete your courses on time. Otherwise, you may face challenges in finishing your degree within the prescribed duration. This is an essential aspect to consider when compared to obtaining a gap certificate.

Regarding the gap certificate, it's worth noting that most employers do not typically request it. However, when you submit your resume while applying for jobs, they may inquire about any gaps in your education. Given that you joined IIT (J) in 2025, the gap amounts to approximately 1.5 years. This will also be reflected in your resume.

There's no need to worry too much about the gap certificate. Just share this information in your resume proactively, before they ask. It's quite common nowadays, so you should be fine.

Best regards,

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NEET, Medical, Pharmacy Careers - Answered on Mar 20, 2026

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Sir My Son has given class xth exams. He want to take PCB. Sir 1. what are the options other than MBBS, If neet is not cleared. because we can't afford private institutions. 2. What is the scope of Bioinformatics. is Math compulsory for bioinformatcs. Regards Gopal Krishan from Faridabad Haryana
Ans: HI GOPAL SIR,
GREETINGS FROM REDIFFGURUS.
If your ward is considering a career in medicine or engineering, opting for PCMB (Physics, Chemistry, Mathematics, and Biology) is a better choice than just PCB (Physics, Chemistry, and Biology) alone. This path will offer more opportunities and help avoid future challenges in pursuing engineering.

PCMB provides a wider range of options compared to PCB. If he chooses PCB, entering the engineering field may prove to be more difficult.

For PCB, there are primarily two pathways to consider:

**With NEET (National Eligibility cum Entrance Test):**
- MBBS (Bachelor of Medicine, Bachelor of Surgery)
- BDS (Bachelor of Dental Surgery)
- BVSC (Bachelor of Veterinary Science)
- AYUSH (Ayurveda, Yoga & Naturopathy, Unani, Siddha, and Homeopathy)
- Allied Health Sciences

**Without NEET:**
- Pharmacy
- Nursing
- B.Sc. in Medical Laboratory Technology (MLT)
- All basic science streams (Chemistry, Physics, Biology, Biotechnology, Food Science, etc.)

Regarding Bioinformatics, if he is interested in this field, he can pursue it part-time or through online courses as a supplementary option. However, it is essential to note that the scope for bioinformatics is limited compared to other courses.

There’s no need to worry; clearing NEET is achievable. The key is proper planning and support from you. If you need any further clarification, please feel free to reply to this message.

Best regards.

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Reetika

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Financial Planner, MF and Insurance Expert - Answered on Mar 19, 2026

Reetika

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Financial Planner, MF and Insurance Expert - Answered on Mar 19, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Feb 17, 2026Hindi
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HI i am a 42 years pvt sector employee. I am currently investing in MF SIP of 50/52k per month (avg age 5 years) and accumulated MF corpus till date including a few old ones stands at 33 lakhs. NPS of 6k per month, PPF 4k per month and 25k pm in EPFO including employers share. I have an o/s home loan of 1.25 crs @ 7.10% and plan to pay it off in next 10 years. Retirement age is 58 and desired corpus by retirement should be 7-8 crores. Please advice am i on right track and any changes to the investment strategy required? also i do plan to increase allocation to mf by min 15% annually till retirement age. My Term cover is 50 lakhs. Mediclaim of 20 + 20 lakhs top up and my wife has a 50 lakhs mediclaim. We dont plan any kids.
Ans: Hi,

You have done great by accumulating so much at your age. This is commendable.
you want to retire after 16 years at the age of 58. Let us go through your financials in detail:
- Monthly contributions in PPF, EPF and NPS - 35k - good, continue it. This entire amount is going into debt instruments and will be helpful to cover your expenses immediately after retirement.
- Current HL outstanding - 1.25 cr at 7.1% - this is quite cheap. Do not rush into prepaying the loan. Take 10 years time and pay it slowly. Rather focus on increasing contributions towards MF as that will build your long term wealth.
- 33 lakhs MF corpus with 52k SIP at 15% annual stepup. This will generate 9 crores corpus when you turn 58 (more than your target). Stay focussed and make sure that you have chosen right funds wrt your goals. Investing on random tips and only direct index funds is not sufficient.
- Term cover - 50 lakhs - can be increased to 1cr.
- Health - take a super top up of 50 lakhs considering high medical costs and your increasing age.

Overall things are going good. You just need to maintain the discipline. You can also consider consulting a professional Certified Financial Planner - a CFP who can guide you with exact funds to invest in keeping in mind your age, requirements, financial goals and risk profile. A CFP periodically reviews your portfolio and suggest any amendments to be made, if required.

Let me know if you need more help.

Best Regards,
Reetika Sharma, Certified Financial Planner
https://www.instagram.com/cfpreetika/

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