Hello, I am 41 year old professional. I had met my husband before marriage though social media 5 years back and thereafter maintaining distance relationship and meeting occasionally for 3 years we got married in 2021. It was a struggle for marriage as it was inter caste and inter religious marriage. Everything was smooth in relationship to the fact that I’m responsible for all financial matters as my husband has no job. He is still trying and looking for job. I didn’t mind much but would encourage him to get the job to be mentally and physically fit. Last year we went to his nephews marriage to his village. It was of 7 day programme. On second day I noticed him watching another women ( nephews mother’s sister who has 2 daughters) At that time I didn’t pay attention. After 2 days on a night function I saw my husband texting from far but he looked at that lady again. She also seemed to texting. I became suspicious. Later that night when he came to room I asked to show him his phone he was reluctant. I had to snatch his phone and I saw that he was texting the same lady and in that had asked her to meet her alone. and asking her where he can meet her. I gnashed cried and made a huge scene coz this was not what I had expected. He tried to convince that she was his girlfriend of past and suddenly after seeing her after sometime he only wanted to talk to her. I only asked her ... why alone? He had told me during dating that she had a girlfriend ( never told her identity) and that she has married and moved on. Feeling cheated I could not sleep but only cried that night and in the morning if we can return to our city. Programme had not finished but he agreed and we left. Since then that night and those days still haunt me ; thinking what didn’t I do to love him so much and in return we get cheated. I’m still with him, but mentally I still feel cheated and still am in doubt that he is in touch with her. I am not able to do my duties as part of my mind thinks he cheats me though I have confronted many times on this and he denies that he is not in touch with her Should I leave him or continue with this marriage? We still don’t have any baby.

Ans: Lata, VIT Chennai’s Mechatronics and Automation offers a comprehensive interdisciplinary curriculum with decent teaching quality and moderate placement rates. The branch is suitable for students passionate about robotics, automation, and mechanical-electrical systems. While top recruiters visit, average placements and packages are lower than core branches like CSE or ECE. Infrastructure improvements are needed, and campus life has some restrictions. If your interest aligns strongly with mechatronics and automation, this program provides a good foundation and industry exposure through internships. However, if placement prospects and higher salary packages are your priority, consider branches like CSE or ECE instead. Ultimately, choose this branch if you are motivated by the subject area and willing to put in extra effort to maximize career opportunities. Please note, irrespective of branches, continuous learning & upgrading skills are mandatory. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: You have not mentioned above his performance in JEE-Advanced & Expected Score. Drop is not very advisable. Anyway, here is, How to Predict Your Son's Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Have some other options also as back-ups instead of relying only on JEE/JoSAA.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Sajini Madam, Focus on securing a seat at CET Thiruvananthapuram if possible, especially for ECE or Chemical Engineering. If not, consider Government Engineering College Thrissur, TKM Kollam, and Rajiv Gandhi Institute of Technology. Keep options flexible during counseling and prioritize based on branch preference and college reputation. All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Roopesh Sir, If your son scores well in BITSAT (above 304), BITS Pilani ECE is an excellent option. Otherwise, securing ECE at NIT Suratkal or IIIT Hyderabad through JEE Main rank is a safer and equally prestigious choice. My suggestion: Prefer NIT-S-ECE, followed by IIIT-H. Have BITS as your last option. All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Vishal Sir, Your son’s VITEEE rank of 81,905 places him beyond the typical cutoff for CSE and ECE at VIT Vellore and Chennai campuses, where CSE closing ranks are usually below 15,000 and ECE below 20,000 for general categories. However, with this rank, admission to VIT-AP or VIT Bhopal campuses for CSE or ECE is possible, often in higher fee categories (Category 3 or above). These campuses have more relaxed cutoffs, sometimes extending up to ranks around 90,000 for these branches.

Regarding specializations in CSE (like AI & ML, Data Science, Blockchain, IoT), cutoffs are similar or slightly higher, so admission at VIT-AP or Bhopal remains feasible. Your son’s 83% CBSE board score meets eligibility criteria comfortably.

Since you are awaiting SNU Chennai results, keep it as an option. SNU offers good programs but has its own admission criteria. All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Based on your performance in JEE/VITEEE/MET, getting a good score in BITS, preferably above 290 will be challenging. Have you checked your COMEDK score from its answer key? If yes, calculate the expected AIR of COMKED. Have COMEDK as your 1st preference if you get admission into any one of the top 5-10 colleges of Karnataka (RVCE, BMSCE, MSRIT, DSCE, UVCE, BIT etc.). Please note, With an 89 percentile in JEE Main (likely rank around 1,50,000+), admission to top NITs or IIITs for competitive branches like CSE or Electrical is unlikely. However, you may get seats in newer or lower-tier NITs such as NIT Arunachal Pradesh, NIT Puducherry, or NIT Meghalaya, and some Government Funded Technical Institutes (GFTIs). Waiting for COMEDK results is wise, as it opens more private college options in Karnataka. You can also consider state-level exams like MHTCET or participate in CSAB counseling for additional seats in NITs and IIITs. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: With a JEE Main rank of 45,745 and 78% in boards, several Chemical Engineering options are available. Consider Institute of Chemical Technology (ICT) Mumbai, and Jadavpur University, Kolkata, which are highly regarded. While top NITs may be difficult, explore NIT Agartala, NIT Hamirpur, NIT Raipur, NIT Srinagar, and NIT Puducherry. Other options include Assam University, Silchar, Birla Institute of Technology (BIT) Mesra (for related fields like Biotechnology/Food Engineering), Sant Longowal Institute of Engineering and Technology (SLIET), and Institute of Technology, Guru Ghasidas Vishwavidyalaya, Bilaspur. Explore Punjab Engineering College (PEC), Chandigarh, and private colleges like VIT Vellore and BITS Pilani, though competitive. Also, check state government colleges in Maharashtra.

Recommendation: Prioritize checking specific cutoffs for each college and category. Utilize JEE Main college predictors for personalized suggestions. Actively participate in JoSAA and state-level counseling. Remain open to related fields if interested. Given the competitive landscape, exploring a wide range of options and staying informed are crucial for securing a Chemical Engineering seat. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Your daughter’s admission to CSE core at VIT-AP under Category 2 is a viable option considering several factors. VIT-AP offers a strong placement record with over 90% placement rates and visits from top recruiters like Amazon, Microsoft, and Infosys. The CSE core program provides a solid foundation in computer science, opening diverse career opportunities. However, Category 2 involves higher fees compared to Category 1, so evaluating the return on investment is important. VIT’s brand value and industry connections enhance placement prospects. It’s advisable to compare this option with other colleges in terms of fees and opportunities. Talking to current students or alumni can provide practical insights. If your daughter is passionate about CSE and the fees are manageable, pursuing CSE core at VIT-AP under Category 2 is a sound choice with good future prospects. Have some other options also as back-ups. All the best for your daughter's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Krishnamoorthy Sir, Your son, with a 98.32 percentile in JEE Main (OBC category) and ECE at VIT Chennai (Category 1), has excellent options. He is likely eligible for CSE at IIITDM Kancheepuram and Mechanical at NIT Calicut. IIITDM Kancheepuram is strong for CSE, while NIT Calicut is renowned for Mechanical. VIT Chennai offers a good private option for ECE with better fees. Prioritize based on his interest: IIITDM Kancheepuram for CSE focus, NIT Calicut for a core engineering experience, or VIT Chennai for a well-rounded private university education in ECE. Choose wisely based on his passion and career goals. My Suggestion: Prefer Government Institute IIITDM followed by NIT-C over VIT. Have VIT as your last option. All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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