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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 25, 2024

Kanchan Rai has 10 years of experience in therapy, nurturing soft skills and leadership coaching. She is the founder of the Let Us Talk Foundation, which offers mindfulness workshops to help people stay emotionally and mentally healthy.
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Mahi Question by Mahi on Jul 25, 2024Hindi
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Sir I want help my family is in trouble plzz help me sir plzz..plzz ???????? help me.plzz reply.

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Ramalingam

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Hi mam namaste my name karthikeyan from ariyalur district tamilnadu i need your help i m middle class family i need your help i want 25000lakhs money because loan problem I m married one boy baby is tgere mam very difficult running my family please kindly help i m returns give your money in 2years mam Please mam
Ans: Namaste Karthikeyan,

I understand the challenges you're facing, and I commend you for reaching out for help. In times of difficulty, it's important to remember that every setback is an opportunity for growth and learning. Let's explore how you can overcome this obstacle and create a brighter future for yourself and your family.

Firstly, it's crucial to adopt a positive mindset and believe in your ability to overcome this challenge. Remember, "Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve." This famous quote by Napoleon Hill highlights the power of positive thinking and determination in achieving our goals.

Now, let's focus on practical steps you can take to address your financial difficulties. Start by creating a clear plan to manage your finances more effectively. Track your expenses, identify areas where you can cut costs, and prioritize your spending to ensure your family's needs are met.

Next, explore opportunities to increase your income. Whether it's through additional work, freelancing, or starting a small business, there are always avenues to generate extra income. Remember, "Opportunities are all around us if we have the courage to seize them."

Additionally, consider seeking financial assistance or guidance from local government schemes, NGOs, or community organizations. Don't hesitate to reach out for support when needed. Remember, "Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle."

Lastly, stay committed to your goals and persevere through any challenges that come your way. With determination and resilience, you can overcome this temporary setback and emerge stronger than ever before. Remember, "The starting point of all achievement is desire."

In conclusion, Karthikeyan, I encourage you to stay positive, take proactive steps to improve your financial situation, and never lose sight of your dreams. With patience, perseverance, and a positive mindset, you can overcome any obstacle and create a better future for yourself and your family.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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I am 35, MBA from a reputed college. I recently took over as senior project manager in a software company. Over the last few months, I’ve been asked to lead more high-stakes presentations, but every time I step in front of a group of senior professionals, my nerves take over. I can’t seem to communicate my ideas clearly, and I end up rambling or losing the audience. It’s frustrating because I know the content is strong, but I can’t deliver it with the confidence it needs. I’m starting to feel like this could affect my career growth if I don’t improve. I want to know how to seem more confident and present my ideas with clarity.
Ans: Hi!!

I can understand what you are going through.
I have helped many a people to become better communicators, presenters and public speakers. I agree with you when you say .. that these skills will augur well for your career growth.
What I can say is this .. that it is a learnable skill. Practice and more practice is the only way ahead. You said your content is strong, that is 50% of the job done, so build up on this confidence and practice your delivery in front of the mirror or in front of encouraging family/friends.
The only way to gain confidence is to "JUST DO IT"....to calm your nerves- deep breathing techniques and visualizations techniques will be useful.
I can help you on this journey of being a person who delivers with panache!

There are books by Dale Carnegie on public speaking which can help you out. Also read about Abe Lincoln and his journey of becoming a great orator, it can maybe help you.

Remember, PRACTICE AND PRACTICE is the key to unlock your confidence and become the person who delvers with panache.

All the best!!

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Archana

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Image Coach, Soft Skills Trainer - Answered on Dec 13, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Dec 13, 2024Hindi
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Hello Ms Archana. I have been reading your advice and I really need your help. I am a science graduate from Mumbai. After a lot of thought, I have decided to pursue a side BSc in Psychology to further my interests and career growth. The issue is, that I’m struggling to juggle my 9-to-6 full-time job as a digital marketing specialist in Delhi along with my coursework, assignments, and exams. I am always stressed out, either falling behind at work or feeling overwhelmed by my studies. I know time management is key, but I’m not sure how to create a schedule that helps me stay productive without burning out. Can you please help?
Ans: Hey!!
Kudos to you for dreaming big and also working towards it by investing time and energy in learning and development.
Not everyone can do it... so pat yourself on the back for it!!

You are absolutely right when you say TIME MANAGEMANT is the key to avoid burnout. However I'll add compartmentalizing and self care along with time management.

Let's take them one at a time ...here I go-

1. You want to perform at your peak then self care is a must, 20 mins of physical activity(it can be anything, run, brisk walk, suryanamaskars, dancing along with fast paced music, anything that gets your heart beat up)
10 -20 mins of meditation, if you believe in the higher power make efforts to connect with it/him/her.
2. 9 to 6 be fully committed to the office, after that switch off, learn to say NO for anything that comes after this time. You can do only so much right? This was one part of compartmentalizing...
3. be fully present in whatever activity you are doing... this is ZEN, nothing more nothing less. This way you will be razor sharp in your focus and get jobs done faster. When you are studying don't think office and vice versa. This is switching off, this is compartmentalizing. This will take conscious efforts but is doable
4.your course is important to you, so schedule a study time and stick to it .The days you have an holiday too... try to relax a little, schedule a study time, finish your studies and go relax and unwind a little, you deserve it...don't cram too much in a day.
A relaxed mind will always perform better and focus better. I really can't tell you the importance of unwinding and mediation, you really have to do it to experience it and reap the benefits of it
5. Always encourage yourself, be your best cheer leader, don't beat yourself down, be kind to yourself too, your mind and body
need that from you. You are already doing so much.
6 .The only way to stop being overwhelmed is also to put out all your tasks of the day on paper and schedule it, prioritize it.... one task at a time, start taking action. And when the task is don't forget to strike the task out with a clean line over the task with a pen... this is a message your giving to your mind. ...'I got one task done, I am capable of getting another done'.. Ahaha... the joy of getting a job done!!
7. Get a good nights sleep, do "yog nidra' before sleeping
8. Always breathe deep whenever overwhelm creeps in and see how calm you become. A calm mind is key to getting more done.

And remember to write "your gratitude" out in the night before sleeping, you'll sleep peacefully and get up fresh.
Also do remember, all tasks can be done happily too... there is no need to drag yourself or be always overwhelmed!
You chose to work and study as well.... honour your choices joyously and go about life with a spring in your step...All best !!

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