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Anu Krishna |1745 Answers |Ask -Follow

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Dec 27, 2023

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
The co-founder of Unfear Changemakers LLP, she has received her neuro linguistic programming training from National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA, and her energy work specialisation from the Institute for Inner Studies, Manila.
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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 15, 2023Hindi

Relationship

good evening, hi, i am working in private organization, due to dm i does not have a sex for the past two years with my wife what to do

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Either have a sane and frank conversation with your wife or Go Solo...
There is a reason why sex has been eliminated from your marriage...What is that reason, only the two of you will know...
Instead of ending up all frustrated, sit down with your wife and resolve this issue between the two of you...It might help!

All the best!

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Ans: Dear Tapan,
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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 09, 2023Hindi

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I'm 62 yrs male ,Healthy and fit but during last 2yrs I don't have urge for Intercourse with my wife Although she has the urge.what should I do.Iwant to see u personally if u r near nagpur or u pls suggest me good doctor in nagpur.

Ans: It's not uncommon for individuals to experience changes in libido as they age, and various factors can contribute to a decrease in sexual desire. Discuss your feelings with your wife. Open communication is crucial in any relationship, especially when it comes to intimacy. Share your concerns and listen to hers Evaluate your lifestyle habits, including diet, exercise, and stress levels. Regular physical activity can improve overall well-being and may positively impact sexual function. A balanced diet and adequate sleep are also important for maintaining good health Explore new ways to connect intimately with your partner that may not necessarily involve traditional intercourse. Focus on building emotional intimacy, and try activities that bring you closer as a couple Remember that each person's experience is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. It's crucial to approach this issue with patience, empathy, and a willingness to work together with your partner to find solutions that enhance your overall relationship. If needed, a healthcare professional or therapist can offer tailored advice based on your specific situation.

PS. I am based in Delhi

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Asked by Anonymous - May 16, 2024Hindi

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Hi, I am 42 yrs and my wife 40 yrs also have 2 kids. My wife not interested in intercourse as opposite to me. Few efforts to be done for this. From Marriage to till date No other issues in our relationship & all going well. I am assuming this might be due to household workload and stress. What to do so that we can do the intercourse on daily basis without any fail. I had also talked about my desire but no result. Pl guide.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Is it some kind of competition that you are preparing for?
Sex is not something that is subject to timetables. Every couple has their own statistics on frequency and variability of their sex life. Why are you making this thing so mechanical for yourself? Do you think that your wife is going to respond favorably with your precision timing?
Instead focus on finding out the reason as to why has interest has come down? You maybe right that it maybe due to workload at home and stress. Then is that not what you should be working on rather than putting a timetable?
- Ease stress at home by pitching in to do household chores
- Spend time connecting better as a couple
Things may improve, so focus on things outside of the bedroom first...

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MY AGE IS 71 MY WIFE AGE IS 65. DUE TO REMOTOLOGY AND ARHTIRITIES SHE HAS BEEN HOSPITALISED 15DAYS AT THETIMEOF GOVID.AFTER THAT SHE IS TAKING MEDICINE AND DOCTORS VISIT ONCE IN 6MONTHS. FROM THE PAST 3YEARS SHE IS NOT INTERED IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. NOWADAYS I MUCH INTERESTED IN SEX WHEREAS MY WIFE IS DEAD AGAINST MY FEELINGS. KINDLY GIVE ME YOUR SUGGESTIONS

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Some medications do have side effects that can affect sex lives. This is something that you and your wife can discuss with a doctor who possibly may look at what can be done.
Also hormonal changes after during and after menopause shows a decline in sexual activity in many women. There are other forms of sexual intimacy that you and your wife can share. Discuss with her without sounding rigid only about sex being the important topic and make her the center of the discussion. It might help her to know that you still care and love her and she maybe more open to actually see what the challenges are.

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Hello, Anu I have been married to my wife for 2 Month now. Everything is ok going ok in our marriage. We are enjoying time together, eating out, travelling and also having good intemate time with each other. But we are able to have sex with each other, initial because of being uncomfortable to do intemate thinks together, but now mainly due to possibilities that me might have to face pain, my genetals remains dry through out that give in irritation, also I am not able to penetrate, as I kind of thinks that her veginal opning is small. I do tried fingering but see didn't liked it. Also trying to do so I am often loose confidence and also also loose arrosal and desire to go ahead. Please help use so that we can enjoy more of our sexual life.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
There's obviously an issue when it comes to sexual intimacy. But when you are very strictly focused on something not happening, it becomes stress and sexual intimacy in stress never happens.
If there is no medical issue, then it's purely about indulging in a lot of foreplay, a lot emotional bonding and most importantly learn to laugh a lot together. This releases a lot of strain and stress if any from both of you as a couple which in turn will help in intimacy.
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My front teeth is broken I fell down from my bike while dog is chasing me . I went to dentist i got broken teeth cemented . dentist advised me not to chew anything with cemented teeth it's a life time instruction. It is very discomfort to me .Is there any treatment such that I can chew even with repaired tooth

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I understand how difficult it is to let go of a relationship you have built from scratch, but is it really how you want to continue? It really seems to be going nowhere. His parents are already in bad health and he married someone else for their happiness. Does it seem like he will be able to leave her? So many people’s happiness and lives depend on this one decision. I think it’s about time you and your BF have a clear conversation about the same. If he can’t give a proper timeline, please try to understand his situation. But also make sure he understands yours and maybe rethink this equation. It really isn’t healthy. You deserve a love you can have wholly, and not just in pieces, and in the shadows.

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Hi Anu, My husband doesn't do house chores. We both work full-time, but I still end up cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry. When I ask for help, my partner will say, ‘Just tell me what to do,’ but then he conveniently forgets. Maybe he doesn't like it or he is genuinely forgetful. I have tried many ways to make him explain. Once I only did my share of laundry to make him realise but he simply ignored. Every week this pattern repeats. Is this normal? How can married couples divide responsibilities fairly to avoid fights?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Every home has a different routine and share of responsibilities. So, there's no standard norm to challenge it as normal or not!
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