good evening, hi, i am working in private organization, due to dm i does not have a sex for the past two years with my wife what to do

Ans: Dear Tapan,
The reasons can be many. I don't have much information from you to give you very valuable suggestions and hence I can only suggest: Communicate well as husband and wife. Care. love and trust can create better intimacy. Also, do check if there is any physiological challenges that your wife is struggling with.by visiting a doctor.

All the best!

Ans: It's not uncommon for individuals to experience changes in libido as they age, and various factors can contribute to a decrease in sexual desire. Discuss your feelings with your wife. Open communication is crucial in any relationship, especially when it comes to intimacy. Share your concerns and listen to hers Evaluate your lifestyle habits, including diet, exercise, and stress levels. Regular physical activity can improve overall well-being and may positively impact sexual function. A balanced diet and adequate sleep are also important for maintaining good health Explore new ways to connect intimately with your partner that may not necessarily involve traditional intercourse. Focus on building emotional intimacy, and try activities that bring you closer as a couple Remember that each person's experience is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. It's crucial to approach this issue with patience, empathy, and a willingness to work together with your partner to find solutions that enhance your overall relationship. If needed, a healthcare professional or therapist can offer tailored advice based on your specific situation.

PS. I am based in Delhi

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Is it some kind of competition that you are preparing for?
Sex is not something that is subject to timetables. Every couple has their own statistics on frequency and variability of their sex life. Why are you making this thing so mechanical for yourself? Do you think that your wife is going to respond favorably with your precision timing?
Instead focus on finding out the reason as to why has interest has come down? You maybe right that it maybe due to workload at home and stress. Then is that not what you should be working on rather than putting a timetable?
- Ease stress at home by pitching in to do household chores
- Spend time connecting better as a couple
Things may improve, so focus on things outside of the bedroom first...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Some medications do have side effects that can affect sex lives. This is something that you and your wife can discuss with a doctor who possibly may look at what can be done.
Also hormonal changes after during and after menopause shows a decline in sexual activity in many women. There are other forms of sexual intimacy that you and your wife can share. Discuss with her without sounding rigid only about sex being the important topic and make her the center of the discussion. It might help her to know that you still care and love her and she maybe more open to actually see what the challenges are.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
There's obviously an issue when it comes to sexual intimacy. But when you are very strictly focused on something not happening, it becomes stress and sexual intimacy in stress never happens.
If there is no medical issue, then it's purely about indulging in a lot of foreplay, a lot emotional bonding and most importantly learn to laugh a lot together. This releases a lot of strain and stress if any from both of you as a couple which in turn will help in intimacy.
If this still doesn't work, do get a medical opinion on any possible reasons that maybe preventing either of you from enjoying the process.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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