Anu Krishna |1267 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Aug 05, 2022
Dear AK,
It’s a nice convenient connection.
Why don’t you stick to the way it is rather than expect it to be something different? Expectations can be disappointing and may spoil what already exists.
As humans, we fail to see and experience what we have and constantly crave for the things that we don’t have, don’t we?
The two of you are fond of each other but to project your feelings from the past onto the current scenario might unnecessarily cause a ruffling of feathers.
Will it be wise for you to accept things the way they are now? Enjoy the company and chats/calls the way they are? And be grateful that you can be a good support system to one another?
Is it possible for you to do this?
Respect her wishes when she says that she wants you as a friend and try not to read much into her actions.
If the fact that she is getting close to you is going to be decoded as being more than a friend, you need to watch out as your thoughts could lead to a major letdown for yourself and for her as well.
Pause, take it all in the way it is and accept it gracefully…
All the best!
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