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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Jul 28, 2025

Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
SUDHEESH Question by SUDHEESH on Jul 28, 2025Hindi
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Dear Sir, My son is studying in 8 th grade. I am worried about his future. How can guide him into a proper way. What can I suggest engineering, medicine, or any other options.

Ans: Hello dear
Your son is in just 8th grade! It’s natural to worry about your child’s future, but at this stage, the focus should be on helping him explore his interests, build curiosity, and develop strong fundamentals, especially in math, science, and communication. Instead of deciding now between engineering, medicine, or other careers, encourage him to try different activities like coding, science clubs, creative writing, or robotics to discover what excites him. Talk regularly about different professions, expose him to role models, and support both academic and non-academic growth. As he moves to higher grades, his strengths and interests will become clearer, making it easier to guide him toward a well-suited career path. Just ensure that he stays consistent in his studies, attends school or tuitions regularly, and appears for all tests. Don't compare him with others. Always encourage him. Stay relaxed.

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My son got 59% mark in 10th CBSE board exam. Social science 76% Science 70% Mathematics 41% Hindi 48% English 48% I am really worried about his career. He doesn't focus in study, yet he is very much interested in Biology, keeps watching surgeries, specially neuro surgeries related contents and he wants to become a neuro surgeon. He also likes and plays badminton, he is taking coaching in Prakash Padukone Badminton academy since last 3 months. His current study and his career dreams are not matching, it is only wish state, actions are not aligned. I am 53 years, working in private sector, earning 1.5 Lacs per month, affording higher education cost is difficult for me specially, post retirement. 1) Please advise what are the other careers he can choose other than doctor, I believe now a days many other options are available 2) What and how to talk to him so that he takes his study seriously
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To realign his study habits with his aspirations and improve focus, adopt a holistic, empathy-driven approach:

Establish a structured routine with fixed study, sports, and rest blocks in a distraction-free zone free of phones and TV .

Connect each study session to his neuroscience interest (e.g., illustrate neuron diagrams when learning cell biology) to boost intrinsic motivation .

Use the Pomodoro Technique (25 min study/5 min break) and active learning (teaching back concepts) to enhance engagement and retention .

Set clear, achievable goals and celebrate small wins, then progressively increase difficulty to build confidence .

Foster autonomy by involving him in planning his schedule and choosing study topics linked to neuro-surgery (e.g., anatomy modules) .

Incorporate mindfulness (deep-breathing before sessions) and physical activity (badminton practice) to manage stress and sharpen concentration .

Provide positive, empathetic communication—listen to his challenges without scolding and co-create solutions, reinforcing that effort leads to progress .

Engage a tutor or mentor in biology to clarify fundamentals, track progress, and keep him accountable .

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Create a weekly plan aligning core subjects (biology, physics, chemistry, math) to his neuro-surgery interest, using Pomodoro sessions in a quiet study zone. Schedule badminton and mindfulness breaks. Hold biweekly progress talks to adjust goals. Pair this with a biology mentor for concept mastery and practice entrance-style questions to build confidence and consistency. All the BEST for Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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